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Oh dear ,sounds like uve got issues with your self esteem..u think others are better than.u are and maybe this why no one accepts u. My dear, it's all in ur mind. Change ur mindset, this kind of issue can actually stop u from being happy even in your marriage. U should see a therapist and maybe try to make friends even if ure an introvert. Every human faces rejection, i've been rejected so many times too but the most important thing is that, u move on after rejection. Remember, u are IMPORTANT, u are CAPABLE, u can do ANYTHING and u Deserve to be HAPPY. I wish u the best dear and please see a therapist

you feel this way because you are trying to do things like others, you haven't yet realised/accepted that you are different, everybody is not dsame. until you first accept that you have a different personality, you will keep treating yourself like you have a problem. and it will keep causing problems for you because you will try to do things that your personality does not accept and you will become overly judgmental of yourself after and it'll make you feel more worthless.

Try to talk with people, They don't have to be relatives, whoever you know you'd be comfortable talking to, or join an online group there are different online groups of people with almost all kind of personalities, you will soon realise that there are other people (though not many) like you and you'll learn how not to mistreat yourself for being different.

If you don't know yourself, how can you learn to love yourself?? FIRST KNOW YOURSELF! And instead of walking into a room wondering if anyone likes you, you'd be the one wondering if you'd like anyone in the room.