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never put down or talk down about your brothers or sisters to your spouse,it will always backfire,i see some peeps always making this mistake

Really? But can u talk down about ur spouse to ur brothers or sisters?

NEVER DO THIS

Never put down or talk down about your  SPOUSE in front of your family,friends and sister,brothers
It will always back fire A lot of people keep making this mistake!

Really? But can u talk down about ur spouse to ur brothers or sisters?

neily:
Really? But can u talk down about your spouse to your brothers or sisters?

i wonder my sister?

I really think it is all about character and upbringing. If you were brought up in such a manner, that's how you will behave. IMO, it goes both ways i.e. for the man and the woman.

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How true this is some of us only realise after making that mistake

Well I believe that when you have issues with your brothers or sisters you can discuss it with your spouse without putting them down. And also you don't tell your brothers or sisters about some issues concerning your spouse. What happens between you and your partner should be your business and what happens between you and your brothers and sisters is your business too but only to be discussed with yr spouse.

good info thanks

Mrs. Siena:
Well I believe that when you have issues with your brothers or sisters you can discuss it with your spouse without putting them down. And also you don't tell your brothers or sisters about some issues concerning your spouse. What happens between you and your partner should be your business and what happens between you and your brothers and sisters is your business too but only to be discussed with yr spouse.

For the most part. It still depends on the spouse though. It definitely goes both ways because when you guys have ironed out issues others will still be carrying it on their head.

if the brother or sister is acting up or otherwise messing up and has already become the talk of the town, then not brainstorming the situation with your spouse might achieve nothing.

however, i see the op's point. Not everyone is mature enough to know how to handle information.

the spouse should also not act immaturely since any relative from either side can have issues.

of course i'm assuming the marriage is a normal one and not the cat and mouse games that pass for relationships these days.

this is why they say it takes a village and also why african cultures consider marriage a serious matter-you're marrying into a family, not only your spouse.

regardless how much love nwatintin dey do una.

anyway, prayer is more important.