Hello everyone, please I need your advice on this delicate matter....I have two boys with my baby daddy and now he's married. He told me he wants to relocate to Canada through an exam and he wants to take my boys along.my concern now is it advisable for me to release my girls to him and his wife?
Won't it affect me in the future?though he said there's a way I can come too later but I don't know how.....
I'm confused right now cos I want a better life for my kids and at the same time I want to be with my kids. Your contributions will be highly appreciated.


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why not keep d girls and leave the boys to him but make sure that u always get in touch with them.

Does the wife know about you and her husband? are you certain that she will be able to take care of the boys well? answer these questions first

youngsahito:
why not keep d girls and leave the boys to him but make sure that u always get in touch with them.

Thank you for your advise,thing is I don't have girls.all I want to know is will I lose my kids if his wife pose as their mom?

ashatoda:
Does the wife know about you and her husband? are you certain that she will be able to take care of the boys well? answer these questions first

The wife knows about me...I'm not sure she can take care of my kids but their dad assured me that he will take good care of them.
Is there a way he can take my sons and I there?or call for me later because he said there's a way I can come but he has not explained to me

Sucrebae:


Thank you for your advise,thing is I don't have girls.all I want to know is will I lose my kids if his wife pose as their mom?

why not file a case in court about your kids

Sucrebae:


The wife knows about me...I'm not sure she can take care of my kids but their dad assured me that he will take good care of them.
Is there a way he can take my sons and I there?or call for me later because he said there's a way I can come but he has not explained to me

I don't want to sound like a killjoy but I know that it's impossible for another person to take care of someone else's kids as that person will do. You stated that you are a baby mama how do you think she will react to this. If you are in her shoes will you take it kindly? I will advise that you talk to the man and let him see reasons why he needs to take you with him or better process yours and your kids together promise him that you will move to a different city over there and he is free to visit anytime. This is the best I can give cos I can't advise you to leave the kids with him they are his kids and he will have good intentions but the woman is the problem and I can't also advise you to stop the kids from going it's like hindering their progress in life

ashatoda:


I don't want to sound like a killjoy but I know that it's impossible for another person to take care of someone else's kids as that person will do. You stated that you are a baby mama how do you think she will react to this. If you are in her shoes will you take it kindly? I will advise that you talk to the man and let him see reasons why he needs to take you with him or better process yours and your kids together promise him that you will move to a different city over there and he is free to visit anytime. This is the best I can give cos I can't advise you to leave the kids with him they are his kids and he will have good intentions but the woman is the problem and I can't also advise you to stop the kids from going it's like hindering their progress in life

Thank you so much for your honest contribution, it's my fear that the wife might maltreat my children while I'm thousands of miles away from them.
I'm sure of his love for them but just like you said his wife might be the problem. Is there a way he can relocate me with the kids? Cos I need to know if there are other options to my baby daddy taking my sons to canada

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I don't want to sound like a killjoy but I know that it's impossible for another person to take care of someone else's kids as that person will do. You stated that you are a baby mama how do you think she will react to this. If you are in her shoes will you take it kindly? I will advise that you talk to the man and let him see reasons why he needs to take you with him or better process yours and your kids together promise him that you will move to a different city over there and he is free to visit anytime. This is the best I can give cos I can't advise you to leave the kids with him they are his kids and he will have good intentions but the woman is the problem and I can't also advise you to stop the kids from going it's like hindering their progress in life[/quot

We're once married but not by court till he left me to marry the new woman so its not as if I had my children with him after he got married to her. I don't want to be cheated by him