Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 3,148,690 members, 7,801,989 topics. Date: Friday, 19 April 2024 at 07:33 AM

. - Family (2) - Nairaland

Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / . (3253 Views)

My Lover — Not My Husband — Impregnated Me, Wife Confesses / I Beat My Wife. What Would You Have Done Differently In My Situation? / How My Blood Sister Treated My Wife! What Should I Do? (2) (3) (4)

(1) (2) (Reply) (Go Down)

Re: . by Somzee(f): 3:20am On Mar 02, 2019
James289:

I love him more than her . She is fat and ugly
Enjoy it while it lasts.
Re: . by sisisioge: 5:22am On Mar 02, 2019
grin grin grin grin

He will leave his wife...very soon.
Re: . by Efewestern: 6:11am On Mar 02, 2019
James289:
I really love this man, far more than his wife, and I don’t know what to do. We’ve worked together in the same office for about three years and he started sleeping with me last year . He’s my manager and married so we had to keep things quiet but he’d come round to mine after work to watch TV and stuff and we’d hang out most weekends because his wife works Saturdays in retail.
He said his marriage is dead but he wants to stay with Her because for the children sake and he wants to do the right thing, I’ve never been the other woman before and I feel like he’s just using me for sex because he’s bored of his wife.

Its really horrible when she comes to office events with him because I have to stand there like nothing has happened. I told him after the Christmas party that I couldn’t deal with it but he said he couldn’t help that he needed both of us, and he wasn’t going to leave her.
I told him I didn’t want to sleep with him anymore but he bought me a car and I took him back because I didn't like being without him
I am really jealous and I don’t know what to do. He clearly doesn’t love her but I don’t know if he loves me either. I don’t even dislike her I just want him; the whole situation is unfair. What do I do to get him to leave her?


You are a pretty lady, and a smart one at that, why struggling with someone else's property? are there no single guys in your office or neighborhood?, why this man?

You aren't getting any younger, once he is done with you, he'd move on with another young lady, forget the flashy things you do get from him, he is just trying to trap you down. Get a man, settle down and build your own family.
Re: . by JasonScoolari: 6:14am On Mar 02, 2019
Efewestern:


You are a pretty lady, and a smart one at that, why struggling with someone else's property? are there no single guys in your office or neighborhood?, why this man?

You aren't getting any younger, once he is done with you, he'd move on with another young lady, forget the flashy things you do get from him, he is just trying to trap you down. Get a man, settle down and build your own family.

You even get time to dey advice your fellow MAN. cheesy

2 Likes

Re: . by Efewestern: 6:20am On Mar 02, 2019
JasonScoolari:
You even get time to dey advice your fellow MAN. cheesy

Lol, a troll u guess, didn't notice it on time.

But many single ladies are in similar situations, them mumu die, but no lele, men must shop, na the matter. grin
Re: . by JasonScoolari: 6:22am On Mar 02, 2019
Efewestern:


Lol, a troll u guess, didn't notice it on time.

But many single ladies are in similar situations, them mumu die, but no lele, men must shop, na the matter. grin
Wetin concern Aeroplane with side mirror? We go dey knack dey go. grin
Re: . by gentlesoul82: 6:28am On Mar 02, 2019
You are so dumb! Can you see that it's very obvious that he is using you as a sex machine. What is good for you is to end the so relationship and get married, before it will be too late for you.
Re: . by egojeny1(f): 11:42am On Mar 02, 2019
Don't you guyz think that this is a fabricated story?

2 Likes

Re: . by sisieko02: 4:42pm On Mar 02, 2019
James289:
I really want to tell his wife what he has been doing then maybe it would make her leave him so I can have him for myself
grin grin grin hahahahaha kikikiki what a thinking. This is where you girls get it wrong. He will never leave his wife and his wife will never leave him. You cannot destroy their marriage. It will only make them stronger. Don’t be a fool pls. Get your head together.
Re: . by Exponental(m): 6:19pm On Mar 02, 2019
Train him to break her heart by leaving her. Someday, expect him to use his experience on you...QED!
Re: . by Ishilove: 6:20am On Mar 03, 2019
Believe this bullchit story, you'll believe anything.

1 Like

Re: . by Ishilove: 6:21am On Mar 03, 2019
egojeny1:
Don't you guyz think that this is a fabricated story?
I'm surprised people are taking it serious.

2 Likes

Re: . by PrimadonnaO(f): 10:24am On Mar 03, 2019
This one is just a mad troll.

1 Like

Re: . by Truthshurts: 3:21pm On Mar 03, 2019
Bae
He is just guiding u
Wasting ur time and tearing ur life for ur real man.
I have 2 advice for u
1. Leave him as soon as u can
2. Follow my first advice

If he eventually leaves his wife and marry u...he will do the same for you.
If am wrong please I need to be corrected
Re: . by dominique(f): 7:18pm On Mar 03, 2019
I know this story is total hogwash by a troll, but stuff like this really happens. There are lots of side chicks that believe if they hang in there, the man will leave his wife for them. The men always claim they're in miserable marriages that could crash soon. One carried out series of abortion for a married man because he told her he's tired of his wife and would soon throw her out and bring her in. It did her like film trick when she found out that he has relocated to Canada with his entire family including the wife he claims he hates.

A man that wants to keep a mistress needs to tell her where she stands. Stop giving her false hopes that she will soon be the new madam because your wife is awful and your marriage is at the verge of crashing. As for the side chick, it's only a lucky few that eventually gets the ring. Most of them would have become saggy, wrinkly, murderers of countless unborn children before they find out that they were only wasting their time with a sweet talker.

2 Likes

Re: . by frozen70(f): 4:21am On Mar 06, 2019
If you think you loved him so much and you can't let go, come out open to him to make you his second wife

If he agrees fine that shows that he needs you but if he objects to it, let him go.

You can't get another man unless you drop him

But if you think he us the only one on earth and after him nothing else, become pregnant and have a child for him

In life, we have different ways of getting happiness, it's your choice to choose yours

Just be ready to defend the outcome of any decision taken by you
Re: . by kulex2k1(m): 6:49am On Mar 06, 2019
Ishilove:

I'm surprised people are taking it serious.
Seriously, i just dont get it.. 95% of people here believe this crappy story. I weak.

1 Like

(1) (2) (Reply)

Dear Mummy!stop Going Naked In Front Of Your Male Kids. / Pediasure Any Junior Horlicks / My Neighbors Who Gave Birth Through CS

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 22
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.