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I want to come out straight on this, whatever the world like to call sex before marriage is theirs. I am here to tell you boldly that God’s standard will not, shall not and can never change or conform to new school things.

I saw a movie yesterday where the man insisted on getting the lady pregnant before the wedding that is just 2 weeks in view, I’m glad she refused and walked out of the relationship. Hear me, if he asked for sex before marriage, dust your shoes and bid him adieu! Same goes to the man whom a woman asked for sex before marriage to be sure he is a complete man; please show her the door in case she doesn't know the exit.

We ought to have moved pass this issue of sex before marriage by now, we ought to have young men and women who are taking over territories for God now, whose fire burns so well, whose light cannot be hidden. The problem is we are still not allowing the working of the Holy Spirit in us.

Sex will never be a requirement for marriage, uncle Adam did not do such before he declared aunty Eve as the bone of his bone and flesh of his flesh. Why are you now looking for what is not lost up and down?

Do not stay to discuss such matter, you have to flee. If all the hormones in his/her body are secreting uncontrollable sexual urge, please maintain your NO, do not compromise.

This is not because you do not love him/her or you don’t want to experience sexual intimacy, it is simply because you love God more than him/her and just like brother Joseph, how can you do such thing and sin against God.

More reason why what you need first is not relationship but God. They say your stomach will hurt if you don’t as a man and your menses will be painful as a lady if you do not allow a man; please when did sex become a cure for health challenge? She may be barren after wedding, he may be impotent, when last did you put your trust in God? Please hear me they are all lies from the pit of hell!

‘I need to test what I want to buy’, ask him or her if he or she was allowed to stay in his house without payment for even a day? And you are a living house, housing the Spirit of the living God in you, and therefore no way for such.

If you agree to such terms and conditions for the sake of the relationship, for the fear of losing him or her, I tell you it is a total affront to God and you are telling Him you don’t think He will give you the right person and so you will manage what you have.

Love is not sex, when someone loves you, he/she will express it by helping you grow to become a better person not by giving you his/her body to keep you.

Can we have youths that will say; If I have to lose you because of my love for God and sexual purity, I have gained a lot.

Say NO to premarital sex!

Ungodliness has never been more widespread like in this generation. Worse still is the church's indolence towards the prevalent sexual immorality among her members.

God's ways are perfect.

Honestly, people should lean how to trust in God the originator and designer of marriage institution especially when it comes to a choice of partner. is marriage all about sex or first thing.NO
the "you" today will be different with the you in 10yrs. in other wards, the sex that one considered as a no1factor in marriage, when you finally get involved, that sex factor will be placed 3rd in 10yrs.the YOU of today is subject to change with time.

Even if you don't know what tomorrow holds, you know him that holds the tomorrow, you can trust him to help you make the right choice. all this "sampling" in the name of looking for a compatible partner is an act of faithlessNess