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Happy Sunday Nairalanders....
Some days ago, I had issue with my husband's close friend. I shouted at him.
I'm pregnant and have observed that this condition can make me be aggressive some times.
I had wanted to visit him because his house is near ours but unfortunately he left for work early that day.
Later on, I sent him a message apologizing.
He didn't reply, I called him too but he didn't pick his call.
He has stopped coming to our house.
But my husband still visits him.
It worries me a lot because if he actually loves my husband, he should be able to forgive me.
My husband sees nothing wrong in it, saying that it doesn't concern him whether he stops coming to his house or not, he(hubby) won't stop visiting him.
He is unmarried.... This is someone that if he comes around I will be eager to make some food for him. At times, I even call him on phone to tell him to come and eat. I'm not capitalizing on this, but just to tell you how I cared for him.

Your input is highly needed.

I don't know what kind of issues you had with him that made you shout at him (that's irrelevant to us) but to fulfill all righteousness, you had already apologized to him and that's enough. You can't do more than that. Abi he wants you to sleep with him before accepting your apology ni? If he chooses not to forgive You, that's his own cup of tea..you are not his wife.

So long as you already detailed in your apology what might have possibly made you to be aggressive toward him, he has no right to hold any grudge against you for that.

Clear your mind of any regrets or anything and focus on your pregnancy and your family. May you deliver safely.

Thank you sir. I appreciate.

MrVeyron:
I don't know what kind of issues you had with him that made you shout at him (that's irrelevant to us) but to fulfill all righteousness, you had already apologized to him and that's enough. You can't do more than that. Abi he wants you to sleep with him before accepting your apology ni? If he chooses not to forgive You, that's his own cup of tea..you are not his wife.

So long as you already detailed in your apology what might have possibly made you to be aggressive toward him, he has no right to hold any grudge against you for that.

Clear your mind of any regrets or anything and focus on your pregnancy and your family. May you deliver safely.

naijacutee:
Don't worry about him. You're saving food, no?

It has nothing to do with food. Naturally, I like giving. I don't like someone bearing grudges against me. It makes me sad.