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Re: .. by Nobody: 3:54pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1:Why will I want to do that? I deactivated my 7 year old account due to certain reasons some months ago. Created this one few days ago. Do reply my DM |
Re: .. by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:01pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
Chii59: very hard to believe but then again, i dont reply DMs, never have, never will... if you have something to tell/ask me, NL is a great place to do so. |
Re: .. by Nobody: 4:03pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1:Alright, believe whatever you will. Ciao. |
Re: .. by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:15pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
Chii59: i guess what you had to tell me wasnt that important... [img]https://media1./images/ff9ec74f688bc52337b00d5ebaa57a05/tenor.gif[/img] |
Re: .. by Nobody: 4:17pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1:Yawns. |
Re: .. by bukatyne(f): 4:43pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
I think a lot of people should read His needs, Her needs. A very great book for marriage. The reason a lot of spouses do not change is because the other party is directly/indirectly encouraging their bad behavior. A man is cheating, you tell the wife to look good, up her prayer game, be better in bed (with protection), be cheerful bla bla and wonder why the average cheating husband would not change. A wife denies the husband sex and you advise take her out more, date her, do more chores bla bla and wonder why she doesn't change. An average cheating spouse wants 100% (the 80% you are offering) + (the 20% the lover 'seems' to offer). When you continue to up that 80%, the cheat is getting the best of both worlds: a wife trying to win him back and a lover trying to displace you/ tickle his fancy. This is where knowing your leverage comes in. You withdraw the extras that make up the 80% till that person changes (if you are not inclined to walk out of the marriage). You don't give a child throwing tantrums more candy nor do you reward the laziest student with accolades else you teach them that to get more candy or accolades, misbehave. Even God we serve loves everyone (sun and rain shines on everyone) however He has special packages for special people. You will work to retain that special package and when you do wrong, acknowledge and go back to Him. What should you do for adultery? First introspection: did you contribute to his adultery? What was the circumstance? What do you want to do? Second chance? 100th chance? Walk? Cheat back? Whatever you decide to do, please leave your kids out of it. Don't pour the affection meant for your husband to your kids.... They are designed to be independent and fly out of the nest in due time. Don't pour your life into your kids especially sons and become the third wheel when they get married. You are to face your husband and you both bring up your kids. If you cannot face your husband, Biko face yourself. |
Re: .. by Ybaby: 7:15pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
mariahAngel: Since they are advising her to pray for a cheating mate? |
Re: .. by Ybaby: 7:16pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
Elder0001: So I am the one that makes you not to have sense? I am powerful!! 3 Likes |
Re: .. by Ybaby: 7:19pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
jornwhite: If i say your mum is reasoning like olosho now you will feel bad. The husband is the olosho in that story... do you know my hubby how do you know what he will proud of or not? You want to cheat but you don't want to be cheated on. Respect yourself this evening or else 2 Likes |
Re: .. by jornwhite: 7:34pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
Ybaby: orelse you will cheat with my dad that is the worst you can do after insulting my mom. i don't mind i want rest 4 my mum sef. Buh wait o !! how did cheating come into the story because it not anywhere in what op narrated |
Re: .. by Ybaby: 7:39pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
jornwhite: Clean your eyes and get off my mention. 1 Like |
Re: .. by jornwhite: 7:50pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
Ybaby: i won't clean my eye n will keep my eye close ... incase you are trying to show me wat ur hubby is tired of. |
Re: .. by UDUJ(m): 7:54pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
Janella29: By telling him you know about him cheating, even going as far as showing him the evidence if you have it. Then smiling and continue living your life and behaving as if nothing happened. Continue gisting with him, cooking his meals and being homely. I swear the guy will run mad with fear and guilt when you behave this way. He will beg you and buy you gifts to beg for your forgiveness and promise never to do it again. Trust me it works. Don't go violent. Guys will insult me for exposing this secret 1 Like |
Re: .. by mariahAngel(f): 8:13pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
jornwhite: Say what now!? |
Re: .. by mariahAngel(f): 8:17pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
UDUJ: It'll be like heaping a burning coal on him. @op, follow this advice |
Re: .. by Nobody: 8:28pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
UDUJ:The cheater is always the cheater. Do you wish to live very unhappy and sick life as a woman and your kids having a very sad mother, maybe even sick with STD? Keep living with the the cheater and damaging your own health while the cheater enjoys his life partying. If you wish a good, decent life, divorce. He will NOT change. He is damaging your life and health and giving a bad example to your kids. 1 Like |
Re: .. by mariahAngel(f): 8:54pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
SmartKitty: Living with him doesn't mean sleeping with him of course. Of course, he has no right to demand sex from her since he's cheating. People who cheat are dirty contaminated people. 4 Likes |
Re: .. by Hathor5(f): 9:44pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
Anything suggested on this thread will only have an impact if the husband still loves his wife. If he only manages her, she can stand on her head but no amount of acrobatics will move him. 1 Like |
Re: .. by Nobody: 9:45pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
Ybaby: If you had any iota of sense or shame you wouldn't be spewing the rubbish you've been spewing on this section. Lazy bumpkin. |
Re: .. by mariahAngel(f): 10:37pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
Hathor5: Even if he doesn't love her, there's always that sense of ownership married men feel towards their wives that'll make them care. 2 Likes |
Re: .. by Ybaby: 10:45pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
Elder0001: Let thisw be the last time you call me a bumpkin ..... I am a pumpkin!!! |
Re: .. by Nobody: 10:51pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
Ybaby: Lazy bumpkin. |
Re: .. by Nobody: 11:16pm On Aug 08, 2020 |
mariahAngel:I prefer to say, girl, leave him and get a life. Living with the cheater it's depressing, traumatizing and being locked up in a sick marriage. The cheated woman deserves to be loved and respected, not wasting her life watching her husband going with other women. Respect yourself and there will be a real man who will really love and respect you. 1 Like |
Re: .. by Zeinymira(f): 10:59am On Aug 09, 2020 |
baby124:A great advice. 2 Likes |
Re: .. by Lazycyndy(f): 11:13am On Aug 09, 2020 |
Ybaby:[img]https:///view/back-to-the-future-taking-notes-notes-michael-jfox-im-writing-this-down-gif-16242461.gif[/img] 1 Like |
Re: .. by Nobody: 11:45am On Aug 09, 2020 |
Righteousness89: And what if it is a woman, just checking the double standard 1 Like |
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