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Nice fiction

longetivity:
Nice fiction

Thank you very much sir! This is a true life story of a young adults.

Na normal thing, @ early 20s waist don begin dey scratch yu.
Wetin yu need rn na man wey go fit hang yu for wall lyk Plasma, give yu bettah wheel-barrow style; with ur two legs ontop im shoulder...
Jam u from behind lyk who dey learn driving til yu squirt..
Just imagine that kind cruise, & e go make brain if short gurl lyk yu sabi swallow too.

There's nothing wrong with you being an introvert. You should be an authority in yourself despite your introversion. Being an introvert and having low self esteem are two different things. Your problem is you've not conquered the fear of being ridiculed, taken for granted or being alone and the only way to conquer them is by entering the relationship.

Even though it is 90% sure it will not end in marriage you should still give it a trial. It's even unrealistic to think all the relationship you're into must end in marriage at your age as believed generally by naija girls. That's why they become easy to sleep with once you put a marriage promise in place. It works like wonder.

So enter with out fear but use your brain as much as you can and no get belle.

Welcome to adulthood.

Goldenbliss1:
Hello Nairalanders! Happy New Year in advance.


Have been a guest for about three years, finally finally am now a member all thanks to my new smartphone. One thing I love so much about Nairaland is the comment section, which is based on different ideas, and some based on experience.


Am a young lady in my early twenties (20), people hardly believe that am not a teenager, I have a small statue that makes me to look like a teenager (16yrs). But am always grateful for my appearance. As for friendship am not good at making friends, I have very low self-esteem. I belongs to many groups on Facebook, but I hardly interact, sometimes after typing a comment I ended up deleting it. Recently I started checking my activity log on Facebook to make sure that I didn't mistakenly dislike, hate someone post, or say something bad.


Have never been in a relationship. Am just afraid of heart break �, reading is my hobby, have read and watch movies on how you guys give we ladies red card. Please pardon me if am judging you guys, have also read and watched movies of how ladies ended up becoming someone else's property. Back than when I was in secondary School I told my friends that, when am through with my NYSC , and have a good job I can then give love a chance, if in any ways he break's my heart, I won't have to force myself on him, I will move on with my life since I have a good job.



Currently am an undergraduate student in my second semester. In my first year I came across a handsome guy, who was interested in having a relationship with me, unfortunately I declined his proposal, I felt that it was too early for me to be in a relationship, by then I was preparing for both internal and external exam . After some month we became a total stranger.. this was the cause of our friendship, at first he chatted me , I was speechless let , and decided to send a like thumb, he got angry and warned me never to send him a like thumb. I replied him , please I want you to also stop asking me questions like have you eaten?


Hello Nairalanders am so sorry for the grammatical errors. Is there any way you can advise me, have been thinking of seeing a school counselor , to be honest with you I lack the confidant to so. Am so sorry if this Post is not in the right section.

If you want to get married early try out a relationship not with the idea of getting married but for learning about men and relationships, just ensure that there are boundaries.
If your interested is to be academically ambitious or successful career wise, jettison the idea of relationship and focus on your acadmics

My advice to introverts have always been, if being introvert is causing you so much pain that you have to report it to us, then stop being an introvert.

But they always come for my head.


Think about it, have you ever heard anyone complaining that they are extroverts?

Besides, introvertedness and teenagehood usually come with low self esteem. This is a fact that many introverts and teenagers would argue of course but, it is what it is.

Goldenbliss1:

Back then when I was in secondary School I told my friends that, when am through with my NYSC, and have a good job I can then give love a chance, if in any ways he break's my heart, I won't have to force myself on him, I will move on with my life since I have a good job.

I think you should just stick to this goal.

Nothing is wrong with you.

Is it only me that is confused here?

You don't have any problem. . When you see problem you go run

You don't hv problem young lady

#team am

olus01:
Is it only me that is confused here?

Same here. I couldn't connect her story with the 'Life of an Introvert' topic.

olus01:
Is it only me that is confused here?

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yes bro.

Goldenbliss1:
Thank you very much sir! This is a true life story of a young adults.

I have a smally like you too.......
She’s has been giving me the vibe I never wanted tho......

My sista, na the Sam page we dey o....