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Once you are approaching your late twenties,counting down to 30, in your thirties and approaching late thirties, there seems to be this pressure about relationships and marriage from all angles.


Becoming 30 and single, there is anxiety, fear and panic at the thought you are still single especially when all your same-age friends have gotten married and disappeared seamlessly with their life.

But honestly, this stage comes with self-exploring, self discovery and actualization. Your experience and confidence has grown and choices can be made on your own terms.

When you find yourself asking this question " How did it happen?" Just know that a different "New" you is to be revealed.

Now at 30, you are more mature, understand how to prioritise things, understand the difference between infatuation, sex and love, less reckless, understand space and optimize opportunities. All these allow for the possibility of totally transforming your life without having to consider what anyone else in your life wants or needs.

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Culled from ~Thirty, Above and Single
© Tonbari Mene