goodlistener:

has refused to send the monthly agreed money for 3 months now.

goodlistener:
Since my elder brother died last year, his wife has tremendously reduce all my aceess to finance. He was our bread winner, never wanted to come public but my conversation with his wife now just pissed me off.

She is delibtatly blocking our access to funds.

Mum has been sick. I told her since last week.

She manages his business and has refused to send the monthly agreed money for 3 months now.

I heard she just bought another car on Tuesday

goodlistener:
She is delibtatly blocking our access to funds.
Mum has been sick. I told her since last week.
She manages his business and has refused to send the monthly agreed money for 3 months now.
I heard she just bought another car on Tuesday

GboyegaD:
Was there a will? If yes, every part should honor it. Otherwise, talk to her on how she can help establish someone else to reduce the dependency on her if the business can afford it.

Acidosis:
What do you mean by he was your breadwinner? Did you all donate your destinies to him to make money on behalf of the entire family? Why would you be okay with having just one member of the family feed the rest, even after his demise?

You all have depended on him for too long, okay? Who knows maybe the stress that comes with feeding too many mouths is what killed him.

goodlistener:
Since my elder brother died last year, his wife has tremendously reduce all my aceess to finance. He was our bread winner, never wanted to come public but my conversation with his wife now just pissed me off.

She is delibtatly blocking our access to funds.

Mum has been sick. I told her since last week.

She manages his business and has refused to send the monthly agreed money for 3 months now.

I heard she just bought another car on Tuesday

goodlistener:
Since my elder brother died last year, his wife has tremendously reduce all my aceess to finance. He was our bread winner, never wanted to come public but my conversation with his wife now just pissed me off.

She is delibtatly blocking our access to funds.

Mum has been sick. I told her since last week.

She manages his business and has refused to send the monthly agreed money for 3 months now.

I heard she just bought another car on Tuesday

SportsHD:

Why didn't you tell your brother to empower you in the business before he died? And, how old are you, what do you do for a living? How much did she agree to be sending you guys every month?

frozen70:


The truth of the matter is that, both of you guys with her never had a good relationship and now your brother is late and she is now in charge

Remove your pride and walk to her to find out what the problem between your family are and get it solved

A person that has the control of money has the power to misbehave

You guys knows that you don't have the money so why fighting her

goodlistener:
I am still a student, 300l precise. Agreed amount is a long story because it has never been meet sincerely.

goodlistener:


At bolded, already done that, she only responds when she feels like

goodlistener:


At bolded, already done that, she only responds when she feels like

baby124:
If the man was taking care of his mother while alive and had a thriving business which he left behind for his wife. If his family did not drag such business with his wife, I think it’s only fair that she provides for his mother. Not the young abled ones though.

pocohantas:


Well said. She should give them money for the hospital bills. In fact, she should be giving the mother monthly stipends, irrespective of their relationship prior to her husband’s death. I think that is the honourable and humane thing to do.

baby124:

People forget a lot of people’s mothers were housewives or petty traders and, that is how they provided for their children. For petty traders, their successful child is their retirement plan. The wife cannot say she’s not providing for her own mother either, so why deprive the mother of the man who owned that business?