Iyaebe:
Well, my mom recently adopted a 4yr old child and he became part of my family, I was not around when the adoption was done but informed,so I came back to meet a cute little boy who has already gotten attached to my mom.Seriously I don’t know where the jealousy sprung up from,each time I see him bonding with my mom I become so jealous that I’ll retire back to my room and feign slight headache, I don’t hate him whatsoever,I even play with him a lot .As I’m typing I’m in my aunt’s house for a disguised visit just to clear my head and heart because I don’t know what is wrong with me,I want to be fine and totally erase this jealousy from my heart,body and soul before going back home and I don’t want anyone to notice that I’m jealous.What is wrong with me and how do I go about it?

Kingozymandias:
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Obviously alot is wrong to be frank ... Discipline yourself and keep your thoughts and emotions in check ...
Being an adult entails learning that not everything will work the way we want them.to , there in comes self control and discipline. 9mw won't simply because he or she is hungry go and Rob a store...
The youngster is innocent in this... Occupy your mind with other things and spend less time on nairaland this place is very unhealthy for the mind.
These kind of thoughts stem from spending too much time here . Take breaks from the cesspool and rejuvenate.
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Iyaebe:
Out Of point,you are talking from a programmed mindset of hate for me on this forum.Note:you didn’t say anything afterall

Oceanjagaban:
Jealousy is a weak emotion

Kingozymandias:


Why would I hate you? I stated what I needed you to understand and my underlying message was , learn to discipline your mind ,hence control your emotions.

It's not every thought or urge one insulges in ,that's what seoarrwts us from the animals. This should not have even made.it here, this thought should have began and ended in your head...I use this forum to express myself as I find it doing so in reality

Savvy?.

DontBullshitMe:
WITCHCRAFT.

BeeBeeOoh:


Something is telling me that you travel via Edo/Benin airways.

Kingozymandias:


I am still shocked at your earlier comment that I am by default disposed to hate you,? Why on earth would you feel that way?

What did I do or ray that made you feel like this ?

immortalcrown:
The jealousy will gradually wither as your love for the boy grows. Just try your best to restrain yourself from hurting him as your jealousy manifests. Try to relate with him the same way your mother relates with him.

Iyaebe:
You still haven’t said anything,why am I jealous because I don’t know where the jealousy is coming from and note that I’m fond of him but I noticed the jealousy is only when I see my mom bonding with him

Iyaebe:
meaning?

advanceDNA:



Are you not the same Iyaebe that everyone knows on this forum?? But you are not a nice person naaa.
so why are you wondering why you are feeling jealous of a small boy... as in...you suppose know say o gbádún rárá...

Iyaebe:
You still haven’t said anything,why am I jealous because I don’t know where the jealousy is coming from and note that I’m fond of him but I noticed the jealousy is only when I see my mom bonding with him

Oceanjagaban:

If I may ask,how old are you?

Iyaebe:
well that’s how you nairaland guys are full of unnecessary hate because you aall don’t always agree with my comments

Kingozymandias:

Don't generalize, the you Nairaland guys tag isn't proper. I am really sorry you feel that way.

Anyways I apologize if I said anything that added to this or made you feel uncomfortable in anyway, no one deserves to feel this way.

Enjoy the rest of your evening.

Cheers

baby124:
It’s normal if you are close to your parents to see them bonding with a new human being. Even siblings initially get jealous. Give it time, you will get over it. If you are not getting over it with time, then you are a naturally jealous person and need Jesus.

Iyaebe:
Truth is I hate myself for feeling this way each time I see him bonding with my mom,I know it’s not good but I can’t help myself.I pray the feeling goes away sooner than I expect

Iyaebe:
Well, my mom recently adopted a 4yr old child and he became part of my family, I was not around when the adoption was done but informed,so I came back to meet a cute little boy who has already gotten attached to my mom.Seriously I don’t know where the jealousy sprung up from,each time I see him bonding with my mom I become so jealous that I’ll retire back to my room and feign slight headache, I don’t hate him whatsoever,I even play with him a lot .As I’m typing I’m in my aunt’s house for a disguised visit just to clear my head and heart because I don’t know what is wrong with me,I want to be fine and totally erase this jealousy from my heart,body and soul before going back home and I don’t want anyone to notice that I’m jealous.What is wrong with me and how do I go about it?

HarunaWest:
Symptoms of Witchcraft.

qekng40:
Jealousy could lead to everything evil.

Were u the only child prior to his arrival??

You have to see him as a brother and not your mom's son.

Kennyprince:
You are feeling that he is not your blood and hence, your heart has not accepted him yet.


The same reason u can't imagine how he ( of another blood lineage) would suddenly become your family.

Well, you know adoption is legal and valid here in Nigeria if properly done. Pls find a way to get yourself out of this feeling cos it's doing u no good