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Staying in your in-laws house as a man is very bad, your wife even tried allowing you to stay there with her , do as your wife have said by renting your own place based on what you can afford

By self contain, you mean one room with toilet and kitchen.

With 250k you will still get a room and parlor toilet and kitchen self contain ( what you call one bedroom) in some other areas, try that first. If you don't get then one room self contain it is, though it won't be convenient seeing your first son is 9 year old and another baby on the way.

NoToPile:
By self contain, you mean one room with toilet and kitchen.

With 250k you will still get a room and parlor toilet and kitchen self contain ( what you call one bedroom) in some other areas, try that first. If you don't get then one room self contain it is, though it won't be convenient seeing your first son is 9 year old and another baby on the way.

Yes.
Is the serenity of the environment that I'm considering.

Dainy1:
Yes.
Is the serenity of the environment that I'm considering.

I understand but it might not be convenient for the 4 of you, if you can get a room and parlor self con place in another decent( maybe not as serene as the first place) area not far from your jobs, that should be okay.

You have a 9 year old, all of you in one room is not too okay if one has the means. At least the boy can sleep in the parlor.