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I don't really understand myself anymore and I need some advice if my new lifestyle is the best or not ...

Its started gradually I lost interest on mingling too much with people ..I hardly engaged on long conversations with someone except businesses
discussion , sitting few minutes with someone i will starts developing discomfort is either i leave the person or i remain silent.
Almost a month now have locked my WhatsApp no more chat
At work I prefer sitting just alone reading news , playing games and seeing movies while my colleagues will site round discussing I will not get closer to them but if they asked me anything i will answer and wave away .
Weekends or holidays like recent once am always indoors I find it very difficult to go outside except buying anything, am living few 10 to 15 minutes walk to my Uncle as well as my aunt over two months now I have not visited any now they are thinking otherwise..
This lifestyle has slidely affected having female friends as a womanizer before, now if I don't call they will not come and if any comes without any invites i pay no attention last she will leave in anger...

Is like am introvert and extrovert at the same time ...

Bases on my years of research and experience in Lagos i would tell you that the number way of avoiding trouble generally in Nigeria is by being an introvert with sense, now what do i mean by sense, it's simple knowing when to act and when not to, more like 80 percent silence 20 percent action it.
The brave hero dies at the war, while the wise hero avoid the war from starting.

winner37:
I don't really understand myself anymore and I need some advice if my new lifestyle is the best or not ...

Its started gradually I lost interest on mingling too much with people ..I hardly engaged on long conversations with someone except businesses
discussion , sitting few minutes with someone i will starts developing discomfort is either i leave the person or i remain silent.
Almost a month now have locked my WhatsApp no more chat
At work I prefer sitting just alone reading news , playing games and seeing movies while my colleagues will site round discussing I will not get closer to them but if they asked me anything i will answer and wave away .
Weekends or holidays like recent once am always indoors I find it very difficult to go outside except buying anything, am living few 10 to 15 minutes walk to my Uncle as well as my aunt over two months now I have not visited any now they are thinking otherwise..
This lifestyle has slidely affected having female friends as a womanizer before, now if I don't call they will not come and if any comes without any invites i pay no attention last she will leave in anger...

Is like am introvert and extrovert at the same time ...

You are only having mood swing or check yourself against any ailment e.g. Parasites....

Your Body-Systems might also be passing through self review, when she is done with herself, she will return you back to normalcy!

Nevertheless, Pray 🙏 🤲 before some Spirits started using you doing "Dorime" ... Schizophrenia starts slowly till things escalates!

DonroxyII:
You are only having mood swing or check yourself against any ailment e.g. Parasites....

Your Body-Systems might also be passing through self review, when she is done with herself, she will return you back to normalcy!

Nevertheless, Pray 🙏 🤲 before some Spirits started using you doing "Dorime" ... Schizophrenia starts slowly till things escalates!

Thanks 🙏