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Yesterday , I read on Nairaland how a lady dumbed the man that sponsored her to UK.
Few moment ago, I saw on Nairaland, how a black woman was beating her husband on Facebook live .
And infact, I stumbled upon a music telling women not to be ingrate to a man that Brought them to UK- preaching against the wickedness of some women that purposely and wickedly want to collect houses from their husbands and make them homeless.
We have many countries that Africans Japa too, and I have been to some too and our women don't misbehave to their men.
I know it happens in US too and some other western countries but UK own recently is unprecedented.
So my Question is why UK Black Immigrants Women behave like that mostly?

https://www.nairaland.com/8272494/uk-based-man-cries-like-baby

https://www.nairaland.com/8270697/man-recounts-how-friend-dumped

https://www.facebook.com/share/v/1GNFaBDdDr/

It is well

Hmmm, Maybe the African man carries his barbaric mentality towards women to the UK. Wotowoto from the women is the end result.

America is worse

Your question can be rephrased as, why do women not put up with the crap from men once they move from Africa to UK?

But I doubt that perspective interests you.

budaatum:
Your question can be rephrased as, why do women not put up with the crap from men once they move from Africa to UK?

But I doubt that perspective interests you.

Both perspectives are interesting. It is an important sociocultural discourse as it affects the basic unit of the society, which is the family. A stable home is fundamental to proper functioning of the society at large. But when we have women going haywire because of change of location 🤔 🙄 😒

HeatSeeker:
Both perspectives are interesting. It is an important sociocultural discourse as it affects the basic unit of the society, which is the family. A stable home is fundamental to proper functioning of the society at large. But when we have women going haywire because of change of location 🤔 🙄 😒

You had men going haywire in Africa where the woman did not have a choice.

Pig went out to condomless fuq his sidechick and came home to share the disease he got with his wife he beat up first for not cooking dinner! And when she reported him to police for raping her, her own father told her to grin and bear it after the Nigerian Police had laughed in her face that a husband can not rape his wife!

Just so you know, there are more relationships of Africans that survive after they have migrated, but you'd usually find the man in the relationship is not a pig.

New found freedom backed by the law and country to misbehave . They will even be paid for their their misbehaviour so why won't they misbehave. It is a woman country , whether the man is right or wrong , the women will always be given the soft landing , I heard it is the same too in Germany

budaatum:
You had men going haywire in Africa where the woman did not have a choice.

Pig went out to condomless fuq his sidechick and came home to share the disease he got with his wife he beat up first for not cooking dinner! And when she reported him to police for raping her, her own father told her to grin and bear it after the Nigerian Police had laughed in her face that a husband can not rape his wife!

Just so you know, there are more relationships of Africans that survive after they have migrated, but you'd usually find the man in the relationship is not a pig.

Men do not go haywire in Africa. The social construct here is patriarchal. For the family unit to properly function, the man who provides and protects his family unit is in charge.

The Western world has subverted this by empowering women. I am not against giving more rights and protection to women. I am against the abuse of this family system by African women all because they are now in a society where they have more rights and are empowered by the law.

It is worst in USA where husbands dey kpai their misbehaving wives.
My friend's wife just put my guy on child support for 4 children in USA and my guy is running mad because the woman is taking half of his monthly salary.My guy left his banking job in Nigeria 6 years ago and relocated to US to join his his wife and 2 kids after adding another two kids making it four his wife kick him outof their home and filed for child support.

HeatSeeker:
Men do not go haywire in Africa. The social construct here is patriarchal. For the family unit to properly function, the man who provides and protects his family unit is in charge.

The Western world has subverted this by empowering women. I am not against giving more rights and protection to women. I am against the abuse of this family system by African women all because they are now in a society where they have more rights and are empowered by the law.

I do not agree that "Men do not go haywire in Africa".

African, or at least Nigerian men, go haywire by having multiple side chicks that their wife can not complain about. Patriarchy itself is men going haywire.

HeatSeeker:
Men do not go haywire in Africa. The social construct here is patriarchal. For the family unit to properly function, the man who provides and protects his family unit is in charge.

The Western world has subverted this by empowering women. I am not against giving more rights and protection to women. I am against the abuse of this family system by African women all because they are now in a society where they have more rights and are empowered by the law.

onatisi:
New found freedom backed by the law and country to misbehave . They will even be paid for their their misbehaviour so why won't they misbehave. It is a woman country , whether the man is right or wrong , the women will always be given the soft landing , I heard it is the same too in Germany

Why do you lot keep running to these western countries then? Just stay in your backwater country where you are the alpha & omega. Problem solved.

Zooposki:
Hmmm, Maybe the African man carries his barbaric mentality towards women to the UK. Wotowoto from the women is the end result.

Who dash them? The houses are a collective effort of the husband & wife.

Zooposki:
Hmmm, Maybe the African man carries his barbaric mentality towards women to the UK. Wotowoto from the women is the end result.

This is a silly response
How many of the cases you have read here showed the man being guilty??
Even in Nigeria, how many of the marital issues are men genuinely guilty of starting?
How about what you do the maids that are under you?
That's just a manifestation of how bad you females are and how you can't handle power.
Most women have bad character which just manifest once they have the opportunity to do so, and the Western laws offer them such opportunities
For you in particular, i pray no man will make that fatal mistake of taking you abroad

HeatSeeker:
🥲Men do not go haywire in Africa. The social construct here is patriarchal. For the family unit to properly function, the man who provides and protects his family unit is in charge.
The Western world has subverted this by empowering women. I am not against giving more rights and protection to women. I am against the abuse of this family system by African women all because they are now in a society where they have more rights and are empowered by the law.

The women have a right to abandon their African culture for a Western one when in a Western world, which if you ask many would be the common sense thing to do, right? After all the saying is, "When in Rome(an advanced clime), do as the Romans do." The problem is that African men want to do as Africans do even when they find themselves in Rome.🤔