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Difficulty With Penetration As A First Timer – Is This Normal? by Lucky652(op): 5:20am On Dec 29, 2025
Please I need genuine advice.
I’m a first timer and penetration has been difficult. I don’t know if this is normal or if something is wrong. Those who have experienced this or know about it, what advice can you give or what helped you

Serious answers please.”

Thanks
Re: Difficulty With Penetration As A First Timer – Is This Normal? by immortalcrown(m): 6:40am On Dec 29, 2025
1.
Male or female?

2.
How old are you?
Re: Difficulty With Penetration As A First Timer – Is This Normal? by dawnomike(m): 6:42am On Dec 29, 2025
Lucky652:
Please I need genuine advice.
I’m a first timer and penetration has been difficult. I don’t know if this is normal or if something is wrong. Those who have experienced this or know about it, what advice can you give or what helped you

Serious answers please.”

Thanks
There is what they call lubricant... DYOR
Re: Difficulty With Penetration As A First Timer – Is This Normal? by muyico(m): 6:48am On Dec 29, 2025
seems like no pre-intimacy
she no wet!
try lubricant
Re: Difficulty With Penetration As A First Timer – Is This Normal? by brain54(m): 7:11am On Dec 29, 2025
I feel your penetration sorry pain...

For you to come online alone to seek solutions shows the level of difficulty and how much it means to you.

Unfortunately I can't help you... I'm still a virgin and haven't gotten to your level of difficulty yet!
Re: Difficulty With Penetration As A First Timer – Is This Normal? by Stephen0mozzy: 7:18am On Dec 29, 2025
As of this date in the year 2025, you have a better shot getting a non-bias, useful answer from a chatbot (Chatgpt or Meta within Whatsapp) - since you'll likely be more free to provide sensitive information.

If you're asking this question, you're probably young - maybe too young 😏.

If you're female, the difficulty is biology. If you're male and you're actually getting full wifi signal before trying to connect the hotspot, then just make sure the hotspot is actually ready by doing some pre installation maneuver - then open your eyes and connect - it's not kiss that you close your eyes.

Educational purposes only. I be Reverend 😝
Re: Difficulty With Penetration As A First Timer – Is This Normal? by Lucky652(op): 8:14am On Dec 29, 2025
immortalcrown:
1.
Male or female?

2.
How old are you?
Thanks

Female, 30
Re: Difficulty With Penetration As A First Timer – Is This Normal? by Lucky652(op): 8:15am On Dec 29, 2025
dawnomike:
There is what they call lubricant... DYOR
Gotten Lubricant

Still painful

Just 😪
Re: Difficulty With Penetration As A First Timer – Is This Normal? by Talkisneeded(m): 10:19am On Dec 29, 2025
Lucky652:
Thanks

Female, 30
First timers is always hard I heard,relax and get use to the pain that comes before the pleasure…

Everything first time is not always smooth sailing…






But again,what’s life without proper bedmatics skills seff,I’m here to solve all your woes
Re: Difficulty With Penetration As A First Timer – Is This Normal? by dawnomike(m): 10:33am On Dec 29, 2025
Lucky652:
Gotten Lubricant

Still painful

Just 😪
You need to see a gynaecologist
Re: Difficulty With Penetration As A First Timer – Is This Normal? by immortalcrown(m): 10:46am On Dec 29, 2025
Lucky652:
Thanks
Female, 30
Two possible causes, from my analysis:
1.
Your virginity. Penetration will be difficult and painful because the place is tight.

2.
Your husband, if not a virgin, might have erectile dysfunction or weak erection.

3.
If he is equally a virgin, too much excitement (anxiety) might contribute to the challenge.
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