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Tenses:
I have a friend that depends 100% on electricity to run his business. About a month ago their transformer developed fault, so since last month he has not been running his business.

Just last Friday his wife called me saying I should tell my friend he should go and look for a job, that this is not what she signed up for in that marriage.

This my friend opened the business she's currently doing.

You are right in your posit.

Imagine! The women is sitting on her own senses! Shame on her! That's why some men don't help their wives!

I wish I have property in the city she’s living.
Is she willing to relocate?

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Mindlog:
The husband is very irresponsible, how do one employed as a driver, travel to his village for his father's burial and spent 3 months there, returning back and not expect his boss to have hired another driver?🙄

I stopped watching the video at that point.


A man that is careless with his job to the extent of abandoning his job for 3 good months in the name of attending his father's burial in the village will hardly make a head way in life.


The couple really need to sit themselves down and discuss

You need this seriously

galantjoe:
This woman is bringing bad luck to him
The man should leave her instead so that he can make it

Oisagbai78:
My kind of a wife. Though, I am not poor and can never be! She has really come through for me through thick and thin. Make I still remind una, she's a single mother I remarried almost 3 yrs now. She's so loyal and a good wife. As most of una don bastardized single women for here, I don't know how lucky I am to find such a very good single mum in my wife. Na God do am for me sha. Janet, I will forever love you till death!

Are you sure she's not the Janet I do bang? Hmm.

LordIsaac:
No...don't talk like thus. Remember that she is a human being like you.

It is possible o. Many situations as such

matrix199:
You only find a wife like this once in a blue moon.

Very rare indeed....

Most women would flee like a cheetah when poverty incapacitates their husbands.

galantjoe:
This woman is bringing bad luck to him
The man should leave her instead so that he can make it

Walahiii you met be an APC supporter. Sense you no go gree get. Habaa smh🙆

Nigerians as usual will turn her to something she is not ready for. Remember that on called mummy Zee?
Let her go learn a skill. All I hear is my husband, my husband. What can you do? Freebies will not do her any good.

Na one wey get opportunity to come up on peller TikTok live and her only request was for peller to promote her husband music.. before you know it,money don drop like water for the guy and music go viral...some woman are selfless they are ready to push a man to their success..may God bless such woman around the world 🙏🙏

Dzzzz:
Na this kind woman Dey push man to success..I pray the husband is worth the hype..E get the kind woman you go marry eh,she go turn 1m into 2m..

Emmy000seun:
Na one wey get opportunity to come up on peller TikTok live and her only request was for peller to promote her husband music.. before you know it,money don drop like water for the guy and music go viral...some woman are selfless they are ready to push a man to their success..may God bless such woman around the world 🙏🙏

One of my friend was building his house with enough money on ground..He’s wife then was asking for wigs and phones and didn’t even think of business.Now,my guy broke and the lady is doing WhatsApp business..She could have owned her shop back then but chose wigs and phones..

Una dey go church? What has modern church become? Are there not those discerning enough to be of help to these souls?

Imagine, some woman are just distraction to a man's life..I mean the goal oriented ones..so it is very important to know and understand a woman before going deep with them 💯💯

Dzzzz:
One of my friend was building his house with enough money on ground..He’s wife then was asking for wigs and phones and didn’t even think of business.Now,my guy broke and the lady is doing WhatsApp business..She could have owned her shop back then but chose wigs and phones..

Oisagbai78:
This isn't an excuse o. He should improvise nah? A business he is running should be able to give him savings at least for the raining day like this. He should buy a Generator nah? If he no get money to buy, he Should get a loan and buy to continue running his business nah?

He will definitely run at a loss burning diesel.

There are always ups and downs in a man's life.

Someone that just bought a piece of land.

Hezzyluv:
Na this kind wife dey fan the flame of hustling in a man. When you have goals, e dey easy for you to achieve am with this kind woman.

To get house for Abuja no hard like Lagos. Trust some Nigerians, naturally kind. They might get accommodation since this video don go viral.

https://www.tiktok.com/video/7639072144911060255

I hope the husband appreciates it.

Mindlog:
The husband is very irresponsible, how do one employed as a driver, travel to his village for his father's burial and spent 3 months there, returning back and not expect his boss to have hired another driver?🙄

You can’t just jump into conclusion without even hearing from the man himself to see if his excuses are justified.

If you are familiar with life as an adult, some plans and trips we make were budgeted for a short time and end up taking more than we even envisaged or budgeted.

Definitely something held him there. A poor man of his kid was not in an hotel lavishing money. He def had what held him there. Hearing from him before crucifying him would have been best.

kenben:
Your standing by him hasn't helped him. Maybe you should sit down or give him space to find his bearing

exactly my thoughts

Tenses:
I have a friend that depends 100% on electricity to run his business. About a month ago their transformer developed fault, so since last month he has not been running his business.

Just last Friday his wife called me saying I should tell my friend he should go and look for a job, that this is not what she signed up for in that marriage.

This my friend opened the business she's currently doing.

You are right in your posit.

Women are only with men because of what they're benefiting. If I were that your friend, I'd try and bounce back and after bouncing back, I will multiple women to my list openly.

I will smash multiple women and I'll do openly for the wife to see. It's simple, when a man is poor, they feel he is useless and threats him like trash. Why would she expect me to treat her special like a queen after I must have made the money again

Nice, caring woman. No matter the condition she will be there for you. Not the one that goes after money. When no money love fade away instantly. Na there true color go show. Man make sure u take care of that good woman.

wallrichy:
Exactly, but what she said that got me thinking is the bedsheets part. Imagine someone still stealing something from these people despite their low ground level situation. Also, she said they do go to church every Sunday. What kind of people are in that church and what type of pastor that can't find a way to support these couple.... Just wondering.....hope she gets help immediately.......

People still stealing from them...its crazy. As for Church,sadly only a few really follow the teachings of CHRIST...some are just steeped in idolatrous politics in the house of GOD just self seeking. It's a good thing they never lost their faith. May help locate them soonest.

sweetkev:
Bose, you are wrong. Women hardly endure challenges in marriage. They pretend at first but they always have other plans when the time expires. You don’t know what I have been through.

You need to watch the video called Acrimony, you will understand women better after watching the video, no matter the kind of sacrifice she made during the beginning, once things get tougher, she will abandon you without looking back

LordIsaac:
No...don't talk like thus. Remember that she is a human being like you.

Quite generous of you to assume he's a human being.

contentEngineer:
Can't you give the "help" ?... Empty Talker

What happend to you, are you financially handcapped?

galantjoe:
This woman is bringing bad luck to him
The man should leave her instead so that he can make it

Did you listen to the wife when the husband went for his father's burial and overstayed for 3 months. No employer will keep a job for more than a week as compassionate leave. He brought the brought the problems upon his family.

Tenses:
I have a friend that depends 100% on electricity to run his business. About a month ago their transformer developed fault, so since last month he has not been running his business.

Just last Friday his wife called me saying I should tell my friend he should go and look for a job, that this is not what she signed up for in that marriage.

This my friend opened the business she's currently doing.

You are right in your posit.

Did you tell your friend?

sweetkev:
The suffering never really hook her like that. My ex wife said more than this, at last, na she and her mama come pack her load. I am thanking God today

Seems you are happy for your ex. Condition

Amen my sister 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏

EmpressTitan:
People still stealing from them...its crazy. As for Church,sadly only a few really follow the teachings of CHRIST...some are just steeped in idolatrous politics in the house of GOD just self seeking. It's a good thing they never lost their faith. May help locate them soonest.

Once he smells money guess who will be left in the dust for a baddie

Broke men are usually loyal because no one else wants them.You will truly know who he is once he sees small money.

If you're born poor as a woman,why hook yourself to another person whos standard of living is even worse? It's different if things were good then became bad. Shaa,there's no reward for suffering.

In my opinion ,it's better to be alone and know whatever you get is enough for one person, than to be running yourself ragged and wanting to be commended over a bad decision,then cloaking it under loyalty. She's made a choice and I wish her well.I hope the man is bringing the same hardworking energy she is and is not an efulefu,if not ,wahala pro max.

Next step is to bring kids into this.
Good luck madam