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Reggaero:
then relocate to where jobs are

im afraid

betting is scam it has made my life miserable and useless

Reggaero:
smh,make i find you your own source of income.stop being lazy

Even if i wanted to, your location is so far from mine.

there r no jobs where i am

Reggaero:
i go advice you make you go find one job do,... instead of moaning and crying like a woman for money here on nairaland

You no get job but u dey invest on alabi,i wonder how u go take survive

find me one

RealityKings:
Some times when I see your posts, I thank God for my life that I have never begged. Why will a grown up man be beginning on a Monday? Don't you have parents?

Thank god I have never begged on nairaland in my life before. The money I am going to collect, you are already begging me for it

I don't know how you do it, you are always everywhere with plate... Why why why?
Let me hire you, so that you can help me use my aza to hunt for funds.

I have some plans for you, pray for me.
I will try and help you

may u succeed

1stDoggystyle:
I am going to be a millionaire this week

congrats let me be this first on your list

SamueItem337:
😒

samuel abeg send me that 1k im hungry since yesterday

is this not curruption? he is indirectly buying votes

guobe:
After you don wish me bad finish.
Your character on nairaland will prevent people from helping you.

sir i beg u in the name of God

Yemike:
Run before it's too late.
When you're deeply rooted in it to chop better food will be hard, when you no chop, ulcer will set in gradually it'll be chronic and after that death might set in.

it has already started, I did not eat anything yesternight nd I have nothing this morning

guobe:
After you don wish me bad finish.
Your character on nairaland will prevent people from helping you.

help me this once i swear i am a changed man. sir i swear i have nothing to eat this morning 81 6362 3337 opay. God bless

guobe:
Thanks softsport

guobe abeg help me wth 1k make i use am chop breakfast

danicoco:
leave am

i quit forever

Reggaero:
how much did you lose on alabi yesterday

For me ,am not addicted to it ,am just doing it for fun, not for getting rich,i can decide not to play for a whole year and i wont blink

Alabi na bastard

i lost everything shi-shi i no get

chukwuibuipob:
You won't quit until u sell ur phone, pot,camp gas.Ipobarethieves preach against gambling. Some people insults him. There's NO GAIN in GAMBLING. HARD WORK PAY.I'll spend the money to buy bottle of groundnut food chop than spend on gambling

truly there is no gain in it at all. even if u win they will collect it back with interest

i will stay completely away from anything football, even watching football i must stop

doggedfighter:
You typed this because you are broke.


As soon as money comes into your hand you will head back there.

Betting kills !

i quit nothing will make me go back.

Dundalk:
you have said/done this 100 times... Change or perish..

now is the time bro. wallahi i quit nothing will make me go back.

i quit before it quit me

it affect you physically and internally

gambling is a disease

SamueItem337:
You are man
Offer ended 5 mins ago

okay no bad. i am a changed man Az alkmar teach me the hardest lesson of my life i am leaving this thread forever. i have had my own share of anger and frustration caused by gambling #over&out.

I have no words to explain the anger and frustration i am feeling right now. dear lord pls heal me from this dreadful disease called betting.
I dont even know what to say, my chest is heavy. I get poorer everyday, despite the fact that i work very hard but all the reward of my labour goes directly to the cruel bookmakers. This is not a joke, my life is truly in a mess. I am killing myself slowly.
gambling is a very bad addiction there is no life in it at all, I have gone from 100k to 0k in just few days. here i am lying down with an empty stomach and no hope for tomorrow meal. i must quit this killer habit by hook or by crook, I would rather get addicted to porn and masturbation than this stupid addiction where people richer than you will keep stealing your hard earned money.
I would rather live and die poor than seek money from bet. I was so dumb to start this madness thinking that its way to prosperity while I never see someone that prosper from it.
I promise myself that, today 6th october 2024 is the day that i QUIT any form of gambling. I am starting afresh so help me God.

SamueItem337:
Pride will make you insult your helper


Abba190 drop your account number

bro i just come online i hope i am not late 81 6362 3337 thanks a lots

Reloadedisraelp:
How y'all? Hope y'all are adjusting... There's this trending pattern for The pass 2weeks.

Games dieing in die minute.,not funny a very strange pattern n dangerous., hopefully things will start getting better this new week.,

besiktas too did it

Krryptonitee:
If he says he want to kpai, who are we to say No

I hate the envious spirit, you see your brother man trying to achieve something, if you can’t support him then stfup. This spirit of strife is why African is backward

i still have 7chances he boom just 3times

Yinabim:
Hello Everyone,

I am writing here for the first time, i don't know how to feel about this because i a very private person but since the death of my husband i had to wake up everyday to sadness. I never knew the extent of pain people feel when they lose their loved ones until now. I cant even concentrate on anything else and his family are making things difficult for themselves already.

I'm so young and with a 2 year old daughter, i just hope God help me scale through this storm. I'll come here to update this page as things unfold.

The story
My husband is a very kind man, he is way older than I am because he was a divorcee , ultimately he loved God and was very prayerful, I’ve known him for over seven years but we got married 4years ago and legalized the marriage in 2022.
He has 5 children plus my two years old makes 6, tbh my husband is a very wonderful man and I doubt if men like him still exist. He holds my hands in middle of the night praying for me and my baby, he loved me sincerely. He met me in 100level and waited till I finished school. Anyways after I had a baby he said he wanted me to go to Canada to further my studies. I didn’t want to go because I was thinking of how he would cope without me, he promised to come every quarter and assured me it was for the best.

I left Nigeria in 2023 (April) , his last visit was January 2024, he was preparing to come again in September, however, I got the news of his death July 17th 2024. My whole world came crashing. I didn’t believe it, why did God give me such a wonderful man only to take him away from me suddenly.

For clarity purpose, it’s important to state that he has six children including mine

First child (female) married and resides in Australia
My husband told me that her mother (woman A) had walked out of the marriage because he was poor, saying “she wouldn’t sit down with him in poverty” . They never had a legal marriage. So Woman A left to marry another man.


Woman B, legally married him had four children (two males and two females), I didn’t hear her side of the story and out of respect for her, I’ll just say irreconcilable differences, he decided he couldn’t move on with her and he divorced her. He however left her in their matrimonial house and left her with the water factory which she was running, although he didn’t hand over the documents


I am woman C.

I came home for the funeral, but before I could make it home , Woman A’s daughter has gotten home, gone to my matrimonial home and cleared all documents.

Please note that , no one ever lived with my husband and I in the house apart from my younger brother, Woman A daughter has also never visited the house.

My husband was into properties and he has two schools also (primary and secondary in different locations) .
Durning my stay in Nigeria, Woman A’s daughter (lady A) has conducted herself like a kind person , although I saw red flags but in my state of grief I didn’t think much about them, from Fighting for my husband’s phones , to taking away his SUV, changing security guards at the gate etc. I honestly didn’t see her as a greedy person.

I came back to Canada that same week, she already brought in some lawyers who will handle letter of Administration and help oversee estate matters. Myself and all the children were on the same page till lady A said she wanted to be the sole signatory to the schools account.

I disagreed and suggested that three of us (myself, Lady A and one of woman B children) should sign concurrently alongside on all transactions.

Lady A was so adamant about the signatory issue that she started to throw shades and subtle insults , I stood my ground and it took her lawyer’s intervention before she agreed. Since then I have become lady As enemy.

Guess what?
Lady A in recent development had instructed the security that no one should enter into my matrimonial home without her permission, I sent my brother there on two occasions and he was denied access, I can’t imagine seeking the permission of lady A who is in Australia in her husbands house before entering my own husbands house, a place she has never lived in or visited!! I don’t want this to lead to legal suits here and there, but these people are not so gentle and peaceful, I paid my dues in that house it was uncompleted when I married my husband and I contributed in my own way.
I am not greedy and I’m willing to meet everyone in middle but Nigerians are so terrible, she is in Australia and she knows no one can do these nonsense abroad but they take advantage of gentility.

i cant read all its too long. rip to your kindhearted husband may he find peace #amen. anyway i am 30 year old man nd single, i am ready if u will take me as husband