Acidosis:

What's wrong with frying groundnut?? You can upgrade the business with more money, more workers, more suppliers and customers. If her wellbeing is the issue, you can manage the business without engaging in hard labour.

What you have in mind (#200k) is not enough to tell mama to retire. Don't make her a liability you're not prepared to manage.

She recently started complaining of joint pains on both hands, reason we asked her to stop frying.
I don't want her to become liability that's why I want her to shift for small and/or stress free business.

Mind you, she and my youngest brother are the only one at home.

Hi Nairalanders,
What type of investment or business can my mum be doing to keep her a little bit busy at home?
I want her to stop frying groundnut. She trained me with groundnut frying. 200k was what I have in mind.
Ideas are welcome

Thanks.

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Hiqma:


Can you join some clubs like religious clubs or rotary ( if you can give charity from time to time) or any other club you feel comfortable with.
You can meet people there. If you are the type that takes alcohol you can take some to relax a little in your first few interactions with people in your club so you get used to them and subsequent interactions won't be so hard.

In my own case na by force I force myself to socialise. I used to find that I struggle to know what to talk about or struggle to make small talk in social situations but I just forced myself to make the only two friends I have presently. Both of them know I am introverted but its like they don't care, thank God for that.

In our earlier interactions I would just go blank when with them and then the awkward silence I hate so much comes up again. But I bore the embarrassment and kept visiting them like that and forcing them to be my friend. I tried hard to be very nice though, so they will like me inspire of the fact that I used to be boring to them during visits.

Na little by little sha. Just hiding away will solve nothing, force yourself to get into social situations. Some of these interactions will embarrass you and hurt you but you must overlook and keep trying. If you must make progress.

You can have two or three short stories to tell in case you are in a situation where you have to talk, just keep the stories in mind. Or learn politics, know some of the things happening in society to bring up when gisting. Men love football so football is a good go to topic.


See how I typed heaven and earth here, but if na to talk am for real life na different thing

Thanks Hiqma for your advice and encouragement. God bless.

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Hiqma:


It's not bad at all. My own introversion in my opinion is even bordering on misanthropy because I find it very easy to dislike and write people off based on small offences they commit.
But I am currently trying my best to overlook minor faults and have at least three friends.
Its not good for a married person with children to live like an island, it would have worked when you were single and responsible for only yourself but when you have kids you have to take into consideration the fact that you will need help at some point to make your kids lives easier, either through advice on how to raise kids or suggestions for good schools, medicines, and such stuff that help you be a better parent.


This world is truly not an easy one for many introverts. But we must try our best to find just few people we get along with and who we can relate with from time to time.

That's exactly my fear now so that I won't use my own being to destroy my daughter's future. Reason being that she is more closer to me than her mom.

Rubbiish:

Yours is strange
I believe shyness reduce as u grow older
How old are u & how did u approach ur wife?
U shouldn't be this shy at this level of ur life

I also believe shyness reduces but mine was exception.
She's a friend from childhood and progresses till we got married. I always feel shy to talk to stranger and express myself to people so that they can understood.
She tried her best but proves abortive.
Mind you, I am in my late twenties

ekitimanalways:

Bro, I feel your pain. The worst feeling is being misunderstood by your spouse. Many a time you just wish your wife could get into your head and understand what you're going through.

You really get it. I always feel if possible to open mind and let people see what is there or talking on someone's behalf.

Hiqma:

Wow, sorry to hear that. How did you meet and why I'd you marry her? Doesn't sound like you two have a lot in common

That's for another day. Is it bad for someone to be an introvert?
Most times, its because of my mood swing.

Hiqma:


Does your wife understand? Is she close to you and can you talk to her? Having a friend in your spouse can help you ease into socializing

She doesnt understand. We aint so much in talking terms.

I have tried to work myself out but everything proved abortive. Sometimes I won't step out from Saturday till Monday morning. These have started to affect my wife and my little daughter.
I neither make, picked nor replied calls despite having call card even stored contacts.
The only thing I have and always with is my phone. I have no friends both in neighborhood and office because I'm always very shy and naive to talk.
What can I do?

All this started since childhood

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