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Thanks for all the contributions. I personally have prayed and from the revelations/dreams I've had,plus counsel, I see this as God's will for me. Nothing is really guaranteed in this life and truly only God knows tomorrow.
The issue is my mum,she has turned a deaf ear and has said she won't approve until her own pastor gives her his go ahead. My dad is a no go area cos when it comes to spiritual things,he always takes my mums side. Besides,being the only girl in my family,i won't want to build my future home on.this foundation.
I am currently still praying on the issue and trusting God for this issue to be settled latest by the end of this month. But my Bobo has made it clear that we can't go ahead without my parents approval (tho he says it doesn't mean he will end d relationship....
.but how long will I keep him waiting)..
Once again thanks for all d words of advice.

Good morning all,
Sorry to bore you with my long epistle but i really need mature advice. I am a christian lady in her mid twenties who is ready to settle down. Ive been in 2 relationships. I ended the first one because my mum told me she spoke to some of her pastor friends about it and after prayers she was told that it isn't the will of God. I took a break,prayed and after a long while got into another relationship. Now my present partner is a God loving man, he has the spirit of God,doesn't have too much but gives me freely. He has encouraged me and built me up in so many ways too. He has taught me to be a better person not just by what he says but by what he does.My mum saw her pastor concerning him and again she was told that he isn't the will of God. Infact, was told that he will change and it will make me regret later in life,(about 3 of them have said it).Personally, I have peace with him . I have also had my own pastor (who has taught us how to stand in the place of prayer),my mentor and a few other brethren who have the spirit of God pray about it and they all confirmed my decision.We are planning to get married latest by june but my church needs my parents consent letter before we can start marriage counselling ,my partner also insists we must get their approval before going ahead. Funny thing is that my mum talks well with him and my mum has even told me that she can't find any fault in him but the whole pastors ish is her problem.I am really confused here as my parents have threatened to wash their hands off me and leave me in my own if I go ahead with the marriage