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Properties / Re: I Need Tecno H3 Battery by ABUJAI(m): 10:36am On Mar 29, 2016 |
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Education / Re: Yabatech 2014/2015 Post Utme Examination/screening, Result And Admission Detail by ABUJAI(m): 1:00am On Aug 06, 2013 |
i have made my payment for four days now but my payment receipt is not coming out. when i login with jamb and surname it keep telling me to make another payment,i click on payment receipt it keep saying PAYMENT NOT ACKNOWLEDGED, PLEASE TRY AGAIN what should i do |
Education / Re: Serious Problem Registering Jamb Candidates by ABUJAI(m): 9:03am On Feb 09, 2013 |
jamb is crazy..................phone and email not working............. jamb refuse to reply any mail..... “Object reference not set to an instance of an object.” “Error Reaching Database” Jamb does not have a functional phone number in their website ( fake phone numbers all through) and they don’t reply mail. http://lovelyphotoss..com |
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Romance / Build Fearless Relationships by ABUJAI(m): 1:43pm On Jun 06, 2010 |
Build Fearless Relationships Fear is rampant in all areas of our lives. There are many ways we seek safe harbor, a place to feel protected and cared for. Many turn to relationships for this comfort. Then, an odd thing happens, the relationship itself causes fear. What makes this happen? How do we build fearless relationships, based on courage and good will? It has been said that there are only two emotions: love and fear. For some of us, oddly, love is frightening, while fear feels safe. We think fear will warn us of danger, We are taught it can be dangerous to be trusting; love can make us weak. Then it's a simple step to distrust our partners, our feelings and ourselves. But this is simply the work of fear, creating confusion and lies, It is fear that cannot be trusted; fear is a liar that undermines our basic sense of confidence, clarity and good will. It makes us prey to those who wish to control or attack us in various ways. Self-hatred, one of the main afflictions this country, is fulled by fear. The original love of life, curiosity, playfulness and joy that we are born with is wiped away. http://www.onlinerelationshipcoach..com There is no place where fear manifests more directly than in relationships, where we naturally become vulnerable and afraid of rejection or loss. It is, therefore, of the utmost importance to learn and practice the principles of fearless relationships, and learn how to dissolve fear on the spot. As we do so, we naturally discover where to put our trust, and become strong and safe. In this process, we are actually learning what it means to truly love. One of the most common causes of fear in relationships is the fear of rejection, of not being good enough, or able to satisfy our partners or ourselves. We twist and turn ourselves into a pretzel, become someone we aren't to get the love and acceptance we crave. However, this craving is a drug, the more we get, the more we want, and ultimately, the emptier we become. But it is only the false self that demands this, the self fueled by fear. The truth is that you can never change enough or do enough to "make" someone love you. This is only the voice of fear turning the truth upside down. No matter how much praise the false self receives, it never feels really approved of or loved. By its very nature, the false self is skiddish, fearful and ungrounded. It constantly craves more and feels threatened regularly. The false self eats too much, makes wrong choices and refuses to face reality. When two false selves join together for a love relationship, sooner or later, they begin to wonder what is going wrong. Although we spend much of our energy building the false self, we do not realize that who we are is intrinsically perfect, lovable and complete. If we turn to a relationship to validate or complete ourselves, we are bound to suffer. No matter how many times Amy’s boyfriend told her he loved her, she didn’t believe it. She needed to hear it again and again. “Why do you love me?” she kept asking. Of course this became exhausting for her boyfriend, who, feeling drained, ultimately left. Why would we keep doing this? Because we have no idea how magnificent we truly are. http://www.onlinerelationshipcoach..com |
Romance / Tips On Having A Sound Relationship by ABUJAI(m): 6:47pm On Feb 05, 2010 |
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Romance / Tips On Having A Sound Relationship by ABUJAI(m): 8:10am On Nov 21, 2009 |
5 Tips For Turning A Good Relationship Into A Great Relationship 1. Commit to telling the total truth. A relationship involves three essential components. You, your partner and the truth. Every time you hold something back from your partner, a piece of the passion in your relationship dies. 2. Astound your partner with your generosity. Relationships work best when you ask yourself what you can give to your partner, rather than working out what you can get. 3. Take responsibility for feeling deeply loved. Accept that it's your job to educate your partner about what makes you feel most loved. Love your partner how they want to be loved, not how you want to be loved. 4. Make loving each other a priority. At some point in the day, ideally last thing at night, take the time to tell your partner exactly what you loved most about having them in your life. 5. Walk away when you get nasty. Most of us get a little nasty when we feel backed into a corner. Come up with a plan that allows either one of you to walk away from a row when you catch yourselves saying things you'll regret. more info at http://onlinerelationshipcoach..com |
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