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This isn't still an assertion easily accepted as women are generally believed to be molested, assaulted and possibly raped by men, with the general view that "women are weaker vessels".

Inasmuch as men are widely caught on this matter because they use force to have their way, women, with the natural strength they have, do cause more silent harm.

One will not agree until he or she must have been a victim or her brother being a victim.

Naturally, I don't know if this is how my creator designed me. From my birth, women tend to be the ones approaching me for sex even uptil now. I have been harassed by women.

It all started in my Primary School days. I had two sweet girls that were always in contention on who to date me. At a point, they two had to be best of friends in agreement to have me as their boyfriend. It was so bad that, me, being my teacher's favorite, she used to send me to her house to either drop or pick something for her. One of them having the information one day that I'm going to my teacher's house nearby to pick her reading glasses, obtained permission to ease herself. When she noticed that I had left, she secretly followed me. I was surprised to see her entering my teacher's house as I was trying to locate where the glasses was. She almost raped me. I pleaded and cried begging her cos I was scared of such information reaching my teacher. I was still a virgin though I knew that sex existed.

Thanks to God that all three of us are married with kids now.

In my secondary school, precisely my JSS 1, the same cases played out with another girls in my neighborhood. I escaped when the two of them took me to a dark place, undressed themselves and me. I never knew what to do. They were all sweating in their quest to make me have erection. All efforts went abortive.

I had many cases till I finished my secondary school from girls in my school and even from church.

A lady in my church once took me to the dark children's hall since it was a midweek service that children were together with the adults. She tried everything with me until we were caught. Panel was set and we were punished. I was just crying because I never understood anything. Still sounds funny how I could be that naive.

I'm almost 40years and married with my eldest child going on 13 years now. I still have harassment from girls, ladies and even married women. Most times it becomes an issue to explain when my wife gets to find out as I don't always have words to explain "why a woman would disturb you".

I have lost counts of women harassing me to the point of being raped.

I have close to 15 women including married ones blocked in my phone now.


Sad end to this write up is that, IT IS HARD TO CONVINCE A GIVEN PANEL THAT SUCH COULD BE THE CASES.

ckmayoca:
Bad health care facility

Atleast we still have less deaths recorded compared to those with "good" health care