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InvestmentRe: Crypto Currency Investors Thread by Account123: 6:14pm On May 11
Pls what is the minimum amount I can use to start trading crypto and for investment as well?
Art, Graphics & VideoRe: If You Want To Learn Graphic Design In Nigeria, Avoid These 5 Mistakes First by Account123: 4:35pm On Apr 25
SpencerForbes:
The landscape for graphics is shifting fast. AI prompts can now handle designs that used to take me hours to complete. I've had to pivot into AI Automation, but even that feels like a gamble right now😫. Crazy part is you can tell it to give you guidelines on producing a splendid design and it will save you a lot of time.

I am actually trying to venture into graphics design but it's looking like ai would overtake it soon pls.....advice me.
Art, Graphics & VideoRe: If You Want To Learn Graphic Design In Nigeria, Avoid These 5 Mistakes First by Account123: 1:00pm On Apr 24
Good evening boss....
I actually want to learn this graphic design as I get better I'll try to learn and explore other areas related to graphic design.....but with the advent of A.i it's look like graphics would be displaced soon.
RomanceRe: How Can I Overcome Some Of This Life Challenges??? by Account123(op): 7:36pm On Apr 17, 2025
FreeSpirited:
Check your email
Good evening.....
Pls I have replied your previous email....
Or send your digits to my email instead...
RomanceRe: How Can I Overcome Some Of This Life Challenges??? by Account123(op): 11:18pm On Apr 14, 2025
FreeSpirited:
Click on my username... Scroll down u will see... Send msg
I have done so....thanks.
RomanceRe: How Can I Overcome Some Of This Life Challenges??? by Account123(op): 11:15pm On Apr 14, 2025
FreeSpirited:
Send a PM
Pls how do I send a pm.....I have not done that before....
RomanceRe: How Can I Overcome Some Of This Life Challenges??? by Account123(op): 8:02pm On Apr 14, 2025
FreeSpirited:
1. Start reading books like your life depend on it to expand your view and improve your diction..
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2. Start going to the gym at least 3 to 5 times a week..... To build ur physique and a have a better feel of ur self.
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3. Don't rush the idea of making gains over night... Be patient with yourself for one or two years while doing what i told you.
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4. Practise dressing well to improve your self esteem.. Low sense of self can hamper ur will to relate with others
4 join social clubs.... U may feel awkward at the start, but as u start reading more books.... Especially Nonfiction and some fiction... U will gain more confident to communicate and ur words will be more articulate
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5. In the club u join... Try to to provide value.. Don't just be a bench warmer. Volunteers in any events or activity they are doing. Join groups that allow u to afford value.. In the process u will be forced to interact.. Over time ur social anxiety will fizzle out...
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6 About relating with women... I can teach u these.. After u master the above assignment in one to two years..
Pls I need your contact.....it seems you know alot that I would possibly benefit from.
Thanks for your advice thou.
RomanceHow Can I Overcome Some Of This Life Challenges??? by Account123(op): 1:19am On Apr 14, 2025
Greetings my fellow nairalanders...... good morning to you all....and trust we are all doing well??

I am an undergraduate studying in one of the prestigious universities that in the Southeast even thou am in my finals and I'm in my early twenties as well...and a male.
I have lots of challenges bothering me lately I would like to share with the house to help me proffer solutions.

First and foremost,
I am a very terrible conversationalist,as in i struggle and finds it difficult to initiate and hold simple,good and quality conversations coupled with the fact that I am introvert as well which I feel makes it worse(it fair for guys and worst for girls)I find it difficult to keep conversation flowing .... except in mostly extremely rare cases.i recently found out that people would rate you based on first impression and am not the kind of person that give out that first impression upon our first meeting.
Due to my introverted nature I hardly relate with people, hardly make new friends and as well avoid social activities and engagement.
I also lack confidence and am kinda shy....


I don't also have quick thinking ability.As a result I find it difficult to properly articulate my thoughts and express clearly my own opinion, contribution and suggestions in a given topics of interest......I also don't understand concepts,ideas quickly unless its someone I have known and have been discussing with for a very long time(my understanding ability is not strong).
N.B:I also say things off point.


I also have the problem of bonding......like I don't easily bond with people....it is extremely difficult for me to do so....I had this problem with my previous roommate and having same problems with my current roommate(not like and troublesome oh).... I have come to realize that communication strengthens bond btw two individuals especially especially if its on area of interest for both parties

lastly,
I discovered that I was an effeminate man....... I discovered that my upbringing contributed to and played a major role in this one ......

pls my fellow nairalanders help me......how can I overcome all this....pls your input and contributions will be greatly appreciated...

I just think I need one on one counsel....
RomanceRe: Pls Wats The Name Of The Object In The Image Below by Account123(op): 7:31pm On Feb 14, 2025
Pls someone that knows should help out.....it's urgent.
RomancePls Wats The Name Of The Object In The Image Below by Account123(op): 6:21pm On Feb 14, 2025
A gal told me she got this drugs below for abortion, something tells me she's lying

Pls my fellow nairalanders help me identify the drugs or whatsoever in the image below

RomanceRe: Having Consistent Wet Dreams by Account123(op): 7:12pm On Dec 18, 2024
Yemike:
How is your sex life? Do you masturbate or watch porn alot especially before sleeping?
I don't also watch porn
RomanceRe: Having Consistent Wet Dreams by Account123(op): 7:12pm On Dec 18, 2024
Yemike:
How is your sex life? Do you masturbate or watch porn alot especially before sleeping?
I have not had sex before....and I don't masturbate at all
RomanceRe: Having Consistent Wet Dreams by Account123(op): 6:39pm On Dec 18, 2024
Softmirror:
How old are you? Account123
Am in my early twenties.
RomanceHaving Consistent Wet Dreams by Account123(op): 6:30pm On Dec 18, 2024
Good day nairalanders
I don't really know wats wrong with me but,I've been having frequent wet dreams lately.
Having wet dreams is normal for a guy.....but the problem is its becoming constant.

The most recent one... I woke up and discovered my underwear was fully soaked.

My fellow nairalanders pls come to my aid.....pls wat could be the problemhuh
SportsRe: Sports Betting In Nigeria: Curse Or Blessing? Nigerians Speak by Account123: 1:59pm On Nov 11, 2024
Straighttime:
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Good afternoon boss
Bro abeg drop Whatsapp no.....for update abeg ....make we too dey follow smile once once.
RomanceRe: How Can I Stop Being Intimidated by Account123(op): 7:11pm On Nov 09, 2024
IMAliyu2:
You really are a lost cause, if you buy into redpill nonsense, and allow random internet nobodies to define you.

First you may need to build some internal confidence, there are different ways for this, but the most common one is to try to start workingout, exercising, or engage in sports. Heck even meditation, you need to build a strong sense of self and these activities help.

Secondly you may need some exposure to your weakness (shouting) in a less hostile form, maybe engage in friendly heated debates with friends, and build up a tolerance for being shouted at and being able to give a rebuttal. If you ever feel anxious the best way to overcome it is took people in the eyes, not looking away.

Ask yourself what is it you are afraid of when in a confrontation?
Honestly it's not easy as it seems.....
RomanceChoosing A Digital Skill by Account123(op): 4:05pm On Nov 08, 2024
I am in my early twenties.....still schooling in one of the federal unies in the eastern path of the country.....am in my final year and have got no skills yet.

Looking at the current economic conditions of the country I have come to realize that things would only get worse.Things are only getting worse and difficult by the day.

I want to go into the world of tech....someone should recommend a very good tech skill I can learn using my phone.

Pls my fellow nairalanders help me in my journey of growth and self development....as your advice, contributions and suggestions would be fully appreciated...
CareerChoosing A Digital Skills by Account123(op): 1:58pm On Nov 06, 2024
I am in my early twenties.....still schooling in one of the federal unies in the eastern path of the country.....am in my final year and have got no skills yet.

Looking at the current economic conditions of the country I have come to realize that things would only get worse.Things are only getting worse and difficult by the day.

I want to go into the world of tech....someone should recommend a very good tech skill I can learn using my phone.

Pls my fellow nairalanders help me in my journey of growth and self development....as your advice, contributions and suggestions would be fully appreciated...
RomanceRe: How Do I Improve My Quick Thinking Ability by Account123(op): 2:04am On Nov 05, 2024
bummyla:
Regular physical exercises that pump blood to the brain can help you! Speaking from experience!
Pls help me with examples of such physical exercise....
RomanceRe: How Do I Improve My Quick Thinking Ability by Account123(op): 11:13pm On Oct 28, 2024
Nonexisting:
Stop masturbating and reduce the frequency you have sex. The lesser you lose sperm, the better your cognitive ability.
I have not had sex for the first time, don't even know how sexual pleasure feels like .....and I don't masturbate at all
RomanceHow Do I Improve My Quick Thinking Ability by Account123(op): 5:41pm On Oct 28, 2024
Good day nairalanders,
whenever am faced with making impromptu decisions or to make positive contributions and suggestions towards a given topic .......I look lost.....

Even in discussion and during argument I find difficult to counter my opponent point view brilliantly(look as if thou am spewing gibberish sometimes).

infact.....most time I hardly understand people, some concepts and can't communicate properly with people(especially with first timers).

Although,found out I inherited part of the trait from my dad,but I believed it can be overcomed.

I need suggestions and advice pls.....my fellow nairalanders how do I improve my quick thinking abilityhuh?
RomanceRe: How Can I Stop Being Intimidated by Account123(op): 4:48pm On Oct 26, 2024
Mrwhite09:
grin i guess u are from the rich family.
Nope....I am not.
RomanceRe: How Can I Stop Being Intimidated by Account123(op): 10:25am On Oct 26, 2024
JASONjnr:
Was your older siblings always suppressing you into doing things that you don't want to?

Were they always intimidating you into doing the chores at home as the last child?

Coz this can contribute to your weakness.

To come out of it, is simple. You must be deviant and disobey people. Do things they way you want and don't let people tell you otherwise. You must learn to manage your mistakes and face the consequences and feel free to chase them.
Funny enough......I was raised mainly by [/color][color=#990000]
Funny enough.....I was raised mainly by my mum.....I didn't grow up with most of my elder siblings sef..... Few years I stayed with my siblings I was way much younger then.....I wasn't coerced into doing any house chores.....infact wasn't doing any house chores then.
RomanceHow Can I Stop Being Intimidated by Account123(op): 10:08am On Oct 26, 2024
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good afternoon nairalanders......
I being following nairaland for a while now as an unregistered member,but I haven't really engaged in it.i recently just registered.

my problems goes like this.....
Ever since I was young,I was always being easily bullied, intimidated....right from my primary school till now that I am in uni.....I want it to stop.....I cant help it.
I recently found out (through the thread for red pill)that I was effeminate man. I have elders brothers(am the last born);they are all alpha males and red pill naturally,dont know why am not like them.

I found out recently that my greatest weakness was fear which makes me vulnerable(whenever am being shouted out my weakness is exposed).my abusers usually noticed this and weaponized to their advantage. i know very well it's part of nature as the strong will surely oppressed the weak as also seen in wildlife.

Discovering that thread for redpill is one of the best things that I encountered this year(currently going through it).God bless those that contributed immensely to that thread.

pls I need advice, contributions and suggestions.How can I stop being bullied and intimidated,How can I been masculine and an alpha malehuh?

I also have quick thinking problem.How can I improve on it??
RomanceRe: What Made You Lose Feelings For Someone You Loved Most? by Account123: 9:26am On Oct 26, 2024
I noticed a change in her attitude.....babe started being disrespectful and rude....had to call it off.she wanted me back .....but I was fed up and had moved on already.

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