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SipCoke:
I apologize for the long post... So the thing is, I am 22 years old currently in 200 level. My performance is very poor, in fact I'm currently on probation(I'm suppose to be in 300 level by now) and that's not because I'm not intelligent or I'm dull o. it's just that i don't show commitment towards my studies because I've completely lost interest in the course I'm currently studying because of its calculation aspect. I hate calculations a lot. Let me say, I'm more of a theory person. I have tried applying for change of course but i was denied maybe because of my poor performance. My Father doesn't know anything about this. "no issues at all Daddy, my result is good", my response whenever he asked me about my result.

So i have finally decided to apply for withdrawal from my current school to register and sit for jamb again. This time i will apply for a course in a different institution. This course in question is a course I've wanted to study long ago but my current school don't offer it. My friend studies it and I've done research on the course my self. I'm very sure i can do it this time.

Now i don't even know how to approach my father with this. I know I've fvcked up big time. The man will be so so annoyed and disappointed in me but i can't continue like this, i want to get things on track, i want to fix my life and start afresh. Right now I'm just confused and frustrated. Nairalanders, i will need your advice and suggestions. Please what's your take on this?

Do this course with all diligence, then go for the course of your choice when you want to do your masters.

m140:
Will you the same for a house

The head of a house(home) always gets the better part of the blame first in any situation before other members of the family.
Atleast that's how I was brought up in an African home.

adanny01:
With regards to the fish analogy, democracy is government of the people, by the people and for the people. Government is about the people. If the people are corrupt, the government will be corrupt. If the government are corrupt and the people are not, the people will not allow the government to exist.

In this case, the fish is Nigeria, the people is the head not the government. The government is the organs of the fish that.

I understand you sir!

I understand you points and perspective BUT
Are you saying the government is different from the people?
Are you trying to subtly exonerate the government?

A fish gets rotten from the head downwards and not the other way round.
The masses have a share in the blame but the government has the greater share.

While you drive home your point in castigating the people, be fair and do same to the government.

Most people act the way they do because they see how power drunk government officials are and tend to follow their example unconsciously in their everyday lives once given a bit of power or when they find themselves in positions of power because they feel it's the right thing to do based on glaring examples.

Most of the things you wrote up there can be attributed to one major factor.... POVERTY!

Is the government not directly and indirectly responsible for the prosperity or poverty of a nation?

The government is by no means better than the people, they're worse because their actions and inactions reflect in the lives of the people and gives credibility to the points you have raised.

Nice piece though.

What evidence do they have that they are yahoo boys?
EFCC just go about arresting randomly based on unintelligent profiling and then tag them fraudsters.
It's very pathetic!

At then end if the day, these arrests are made because they want to extort money from these guys.

So in Nigeria presently, any young person that goes clubbing, drives a car and looks good is a fraudster?

I weep for my country!

Fareee123:
well, I never asked for it,my dad gives me house rent which he knows about, but he still pays it because when I had issues with my roommate in my first year,the Lady broke my head,so he got me another apartment and told the landlord to call him whenever the rent expires. Not all guys don't have sense like you

You don't miss your water until your well runs dry.
At 21 You're young and naive to an extent, you think love is like the way you see it in movies. When you grow up and life begins to happen to you, you'll understand better and regret bitterly if you break up with him.
I wish you the best in whatever decision you make.

Ifyjos:
Yes I had my baby at the age of 15 . She was born 10 may 2014
quote author=wizflame post=85587592]so you have birth at 15?


HMMM OKAY

In 10 years from now, if you continue like this you'll sit back and hate yourself. You'll become so miserable when you realize how much you're wasting your life right now.
Your so called baby daddy doesn't mean well for you, I just pray and hope that it won't be too late before you realize how much you are messing your life up in the name of foolish love.
Go and open up to your sister's fiancé.
That's if this story is true.

olumide3367:
Why sell gold mine? Look for investors rather

Owner wants to relocate outside the country.

olumide3367:
Why sell gold mine? Look for investors rather

Owner wants to relocate outside the country.

emmajodeci:
Pls if you have any land for lease in Lagos, kindly contact EMONARCH GC on 0802 068 4442, 0903 053 9748.

I'll get back to you please.