₦airaland Forum

edogu:
Na wao! These people no dey tire. It's high time we regulate the national assembly ( state or federal). If you've gone for two tenures, no more. For some or many, it has turned into a retirement home.

Kanwulia:
Problem 1. Property abandoned by siblings.
Problem 2. What do I do with the grave?
Problem 3. Who will be on ground to supervise the project on my behalf?

bunmioguns:
EFCC is now the official laundry service for the APC. Once they 'wash' you with administrative bail, the next stop is Aso Villa for perfume and anointing. ₦2.2 billion for one man's pocket while ASUU was on strike for months under his watch? Nigeria is a crime scene where the suspects are the judges. If you want your sins forgiven, just join the caucus!

breathless:
1. If the wife is working class, Is it expected that the man pays 100% of the rent?
ANS: Yes. You are expected to "chest" the full rent. That's 100% your responsibility. Remember you took her from her father's house where she knows nothing about paying or sharing rent. However, wisdom dictates that you get an accommodation that's within your means and make projections for future increase.
2. If the wife is working class, is it expected she contributes towards children school fees or the man pays 100%?
ANS You pay the school fees 100% bro. Again, choose a school you can afford and get the termly bill and pay directly yourself. Make no mistake of giving her the money to pay. If she does pay, it should be voluntary or freewill and ensure you reimburse her as soon as you can. However, if she's "magnanimous", she may take care of some things like the child(ren)'s lunch pack/box(es), extra clothing etc.
3. If the wife contributes financially, is there an expectation that the man does chores? (Ps I don't want to do any chores in this life apart from occasional cooking lol).
ANS This can occur especially of your spouse is not the "domesticated" type. She can use it as an opportunity to "rope" you into doing chores. That's when you'll be called to "bring out the food in the freezer to microwave for yourself or the children because she's running late getting home". Trust me, women have ways of making you do things you ordinarily will frown at but you won't due to the circumstances. However, try make yourself useful when at home by taking on some chores intermittently like clearing cobwebs , help iron her clothes for church while she's in the bathroom , clearing and washing dishes together as a way of bonding etc.
4. If the wife contributes financially how does it affect the decision making in the family?
ANS You don't get to make decision by fiat but through dialogue and compromise (which can sometime hurt your ego)
The last question is ONLY for married men who share bills?
I don't share bills with my spouse but she supports voluntarily especially when she senses I'm not financially buoyant and I make up for it in KIND.
5a. Do you feel respected by your wife when you share bills with her?
ANS During my "downtime", I had to reorientate my mind that she was earning her money with my name and what she
*5b. If you don't share bills with your wife and she keeps 100% of her earnings to herself, what do you think is the purpose of a woman working?
ANS Don't go into marriage with this mindset bro. Women want some level of "freedom and independence" including their finances. Let her spend her income the way she deems fit. That's a way to know if she's a good or bad with finances and to what extent you can trust with your finances or that of the family.

As an added bonus, I suggest you both have this conversation not with the mind of sharing financial responsibilities but to build and secure your future financially. Have a goal or plan and be committed to it wholeheartedly. For instance, if you earn more, you can suggest to her to use her income to run the home while yours is put into capital projects like securing landed properties, setting up and running a family business etc.

All the best.

Godjone:
Their recklessness on auchi-okene road is something else. The whole driver of dangote company are incompetent.

The dangote group due to reducing cost, goes up north to recruit drivers knowing fully well that the guys up there will accept any pay due to hunger and poverty. The dangote group don't recruit competent people Because they wouldn't want to pay much on salaries. Our government supposed to have addressed this issue all this while but they wouldn't. Because maybe one way or the other, they are part of dangote

The results are now staring at all of us. Millions of Nigerians plying the highway are at the mercy of these incompetent and reckless drivers. This nonsense should stop pls

Nice2023:
Person wey no fit pay wage award can't be a good president...

The worst president.

Contractors are cherry pick to be paid.

Workers are owed all over Nigeria especially their wage award and welfare.

Civil servant can not even go to the office with their meagre pay. Very shameful. Big titles or name,small.
salary.

Most civil servants can no longer pay their landlords because of one evil man.

Finally,most Nigerians are very poor now than ever in our history.

santaclaws:
I knew from the onset that the boy was probably involved in ritual killings and supplies parts to ritualists.

There is a very coded underground market for human parts in Nigeria, not just in the Southwest but all over the country. People who can slaughter, dismember people are given hefty sums of money by the buyers, but when they are caught they deny or claim they were given some small amount of money so as not to expose the evil business... In the South East, some baby factories are potent sources for human parts cos they can easily use one of the kids they are raising there for rituals, so that ensures a steady supply of human parts (theoretically).

Look at the Gospel musician (Timileyin Ajayi) who was caught recently, another case of dismembering, but when he was caught, he alleged she cheated on him. There are several cases like that, these guys are working for influential people through Babalawo, Imams and some White Garment religious centers, at least based on past cases.

Sadly, a lot of those we call "government" are desperate politicians who are also involved in human rituals, this is why the truth is being hidden from the public!

Take note: FEMALES and CHILDREN are the primary target 🎯 because they are weaker.

Parents, men, please ensure to discipline and orientate your daughters and female siblings properly! Buy them pepper sprays and tasers and let them always say where they're going.

Christianoir:
Thanks bro
Just that I’m experiencing some symptoms
Like blury vision and a lil lightheaded and dizziness whenever I’m getting up from bed/Chair.

tuoyoojo:
I am not a tilumbu supporter but this tax reforms would compel states to seat up

In all honesty, the north has no reason to be poor. They have land for agriculture. That alone that drive their economy. They have to seat up and do the needful

This reform would force states to be secure and they would be literally falling over themselves to attract investors.

Ezmans:
can you enlighten me the sins of fubara

Originakalokalo:
At this point, I think opening the border should be top priority.

AyemafugeILAJE:
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That's great. All the best bro.
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And once you enter there...start thinking of business ad thinking of area u can start anything
Those were the mistakes I made...even if u have a job, everywhere in abuja has population for business service

nedu666:
Last month you announced suspension of import duties on certain food items. This month again you are announcing another suspension. Which means you did not implement the suspension you announced last month

AyemafugeILAJE:
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That's great. All the best bro.
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And once you enter there...start thinking of business ad thinking of area u can start anything
Those were the mistakes I made...even if u have a job, everywhere in abuja has population for business service

Safyqueen:
Ododo has started well please. Let's be frank.
1. Palliative: quarterly distribution.
2. Salary: Hundred percent and when due.
3. Security: have secured more vehicles and employed more hands to comb everywhere bandits can hide. He visits the communities where these hostilities takes place.
4: education: secured platform for bursary for all Kogites in tertiary institutions. About to disburse the fund direct to them through their accounts
Have paid the WAEC and Jamb registration fees for all eligible Kogites.
5. On ground at Lokoja: he is not Abuja governor like his predecessors.

At least he has started well though I am not speaking for him.

AbuTwins:


After you, your successor will show you double shege!