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The clueless man is more clueless this time, there was a country

Brahamimo:
You suspected that your girlfriend was cheating on you. You noticed this based on her utterances and attitude.

You asked her, she denied. For months, she kept denying. Later, your own male friend confirmed it that your babe was actually seeing someone else. Your suspicion was now confirmed.

You had an altercation, a heated argument with her, and in the process, she sent you a message telling you that she actually cheated. She went further to put the blame on you for not being emotionally absent at some point in the relationship.
She apologized, you forgave her. After a week when the dust had already settled, you brought the matter Back. You asked about the guy she was cheating on you with and she said a few things about the guy.
You asked her to choose either you or the guy and she chose you. You then asked her to breakup with same guy and show evidence that she's indeed broken up with him. She said okay. After a week, you asked if she had done so, but she said she hadn't and was yet to.

How would you handle this?

Meanwhile, this is someone you've been dating for two solid years and both parents are even aware of your relationship. She's someone you both had agreed to marry in the next two to three years from now. This is a lady you're six years older than. A lady her friend told her to dump me simply because her friends felt that I'm too handsome for her and my level pass her own. She was the one that told me this.

It is really painful hearing your own woman telling you that she cheated while having an altercation with her. It hurts deeply, especially as a man. This is a lady you have never cheated on and she is aware.

I told her, I'm not ready to share my woman with anyone else. I don't double date, so I don't expect my woman to double date either. And since she's reluctant to leave the guy, I have signed out of the relationship. I told her on WhatsApp, I blocked her on same WhatsApp and Facebook. It's being four days now, and she will not allow my phone to rest with her incessant calls. I already gave her enough time to do what I asked her to do. To leave that guy, but she downplayed it. I'm not a Simp and will never be, no matter how much I love a woman. I was even lenient enough to forgive her in the first place, but the deal breaker was her reluctance to do the needful.

Confirmed SIMP.
She go use your head fry akara!

Yankee life, she can't try that stunt in Nigeria

This Tinubu of a man and his administration is just a joke.
You never face UGM, KIDNNAPERS, BANDITS,BOKO BOYS, TOUTS, etc.
Na to have concern for what is bigger than you come dey worry you?
Zuzuwe nu!

Fearurcreeator:
Did you hear say come to Lagos. People that are still proud and reoresents Nigeria well ...
Unlike many of you , you add no value but na una cry dey much

Clean your tear my boy, no be me beat you!
Pls don't wail for me

Ortomatic employment comes to mind

donmixc:
what is even wrong with that tiny country self. hope they will not shout genocide when Muslims countries team up to bombard them

they should try that rubbish with Iran

Like you are just coming back from Mars?

Targets go roll as usual..
Precision na your mate? 😉
T for thanks

Yes, give them their independence

Agba baller not an Agbadorian.
Seun complete the character

NM should stop this public childish stunt and have regards and respect for the dead.
How is the fan Mohbad's fan?
This cheap nonsense should stop.
He doesn't have street credibility anymore

Show me druggie's own, I want to check something

obonujoker:
Before you come here to type your usual 20k per post trash, kindly show us any picture of Tinubu family as Lagosian.. or any picture of Tinubu as a small boy or family pictures of him.

Thank you

You like pressing Agbadorians neck

What are they doing with guns?
More characters needed

Seun, is Tinubu not a criminal?
Oya, come and ban me again

Heads will roll.
9ice 1

Primistine:
It sounds simple in your head: “let me just buy solar, wire my flat and live in peace.” But the reality is, many landlords don’t like it when tenants start doing permanent solar installations. See, I've once lived in a compound where the rule was, never stay out past 10pm. Funny as it seems, nobody dared break that rule, because, where you won see another house rent. It was cray!

Here’s 10 Reasons Why Landlords Hate When Tenants Install Solar:

1) Fear of property damage
Nigerian landlords love their houses like first-born children. So when you start drilling walls to mount panels or running new wiring, they see it as “spoiling” the house. Even if you promise to fix it later, they don’t trust you.

2) They don’t want disputes later
Imagine you pack out after two years. Who removes the panels, the wiring, the brackets? If anything looks rough, the landlord believes you have reduced the value of the house. No landlord wants argument at handover.

3) They think you are making their property look funny
Some landlords are image-conscious. Panels on the roof or wires running at the side of the building makes them feel like their house is “under experiment.” They worry about what other tenants or neighbors will say.

4) They don’t see why you should invest in their house
In their mind, if you can spend ₦1m on solar, why not just build your own house? To them, it looks like you are wasting investment on something you don’t own.

5) They prefer tenants to stick to “normal” power
For many landlords, solar still feels like luxury. They expect tenants to manage with NEPA and gen like everyone else. So when you break that pattern, they see it as you “doing too much.”

6) They suspect you’ll soon claim ownership of the house
Install solar today, tomorrow you’re repainting, next week you’re planting flowers. In their mind, you’re already practicing landlordship.

7) They fear other tenants will copy you
The moment one person brings solar, others start saying “if he can do it, why can’t I?” Suddenly the compound looks like a mini solar farm. Some landlords see that as loss of control.

They secretly believe it exposes their failure
When you put panels on their roof, it’s like you’re indirectly announcing to the world that their property can’t guarantee stable electricity. Landlords hate public shame.

9) They don’t want extra maintenance headaches
If something sparks or a panel falls during heavy wind, who do neighbors blame first? The landlord. Even if you installed it yourself, it still “his house” they’ll point at.

10) Some are just plain evil
Let’s be honest, some landlords simply don’t like seeing tenants too comfortable. If you’re enjoying cold drinks from your solar-powered freezer while NEPA is out, they feel cheated. In their mind, “tenant life” should not be sweeter than “landlord life.”

So let’s hear from you. if you’ve ever tried to install solar in a rented apartment, did your landlord support you or fight you?

This is a typical Yoruba landlord!

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Sorry, oh.
Story.
Back to the topic.
Tinubu has happened to them.
Yes!
Oya seun, come and ban my moniker

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badoh:
You expect Tinubu care for the insecurities embraced by these same northerners. Bro, you can't defeat these people because it's an ideology and unfortunately the northerners are also supporting the killers because they are their brothers practicing the same religion. If the government starts serious offensive against them, no be the same northerners go call Amnesty international that the govt is killing their people. To be sincere, majority of those killings are politically motivated and there's nothing you can do to please these northerners.

Hope you didn't say otherwise during GEJ time?
Una sabi speak with double mouth walahi

Ikaeniyan0:
Johnathan was a failure. He had no serious project on ground in 6 years

Late Buhari and Tinubu has had more projects than him?
Shame on you!

You can only punish disobedience when your obedience is complete.
2 Corinthians 10:6.
Tinubu and his security apparatus should be properly guided

Las las the Devil will be blamed.
Why is this gender impersonating the devil?

All hail Shetima and Tinubu!
They are really doing marvelously well

Animal in human form .
Bia seun stop this more characters needed

ThierryJay:
The girl is obviously exceptional. But have you considered that her school is likely located in the South East? Which would mean a South easterner would most probably win the prize for Yoruba in any case.

I know Igbo and Yoruba are subjects offered in secondary schools nationwide under WAEC curriculum.

The school is in No man's land.

Keep supporting nonsense, what goes around, comes around