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LOL babe na wa 4 u ooo, no

lol

Renz:
I over heard someone saying there's no true luv on NL, is dat correct?

absolutely not, and tnk u

so can i state my case now?? na wa ooo i said i have a case n u guys jst neglect me, infact that is my case y d neglect from na2day, after begging me for 100 yrs to be his gurl i finally agree then he disapears, now i wanna know y?

olanajim:
@acidrop,

So you are still around, ? I thought you also change name,

I misses you o, chat u later,

am still around ooo, were have u been? anyway nyc to c u bak.

na2day?:
[size=4pt]*****taking valuable notes******[/size]

wats d jelousy for now, were u not the one that said u nt intrested in me anymore

na me jor

na my brova too

goodass

he's gud

change pic

no

where is d judge me am waiting 4 him to give me d permission 2 state my case against na2day

biina:
If you love something, set it free; if it comes back it's yours, if it doesn't, it never was.

I have never seen the sense in it
IMO If you don't wanna lose something, then don't let it go, and do all you can to hold on to it.

EXACTLY

no

change pic pls

Come on @aciddrop u understand wat am talking about. The need not to fight for ones husband or ones wife is a matter of fantasy. The reality is that relationships are not beds of roses. Hence both the men and the women need to commit, take a lot of shit from each other and still continue to love one another.

i totally agree wit u here. but who says it has to involve fighting? u can fight about, not for especcially not for ur man.

A woman that keeps running from relationships because she feels a man that does something wrong is not worth being fought over, is simply jeaopardising her own future. Simply because it takes two to tango. Hence it takes her and her loving actions to bring the man to his senses in a non-violent and non-insulting manner.

women dnt run from relationship, unless there are driven away, driven either thru continous repition of wat she dosent like, or a actual "GET OUT" driven. actually men are the ones who run

aciddrop, as a guy who has been in relationships before I am going to advise you not to please make the mistake of thinking moving on when there is a problem is a solution to the question of whether or not he truly loves you. Love is not always black and white, hence the reason to stay fight and use other means to get to the bottom of the matter before deciding to call it quits with any relationship.

hahahhahahahah, y does it sound like u advicing me, dude there is nothing wrong with my relationship, am jst havinga chat here

na2day?:
it is worth trying but then again i dont expect u to fight over me, i expect u to act like a lady and let me handle the situation

LOL if i beat the hell outta that gurl eh? when am done with her i turn to u, hahahahahah

oyinda.:
Alcohol, i reserve my comments

his username is the chemical formula for alcohol i.e alcohol is the simple english version of his name.

haaaaaaaaaaaaa i c, so are u sure he's not under the influence i mean with this statemnet:

if you're trying to argue that marriage should only be a monogamous arrangement and you can't convince me with reasons, i will not agree with you. . . perioD!

y put it up if u don wanna be convinced??

A woman cannot choose to always walk away or run away from a  relationship everytime the guy does something or says something she is not comfortable with. Hence the need for the woman to stand and fight for his man in a non-violent and non-insulting manner.

she dosent run, n she dosent fight either, cos if the guy belongs to her there will be no need to fight. he will get his acts together. u know uu really need 2 experience this thing b4 u know exactly wat am talking about.

na2day?:
@ topic

well at least ur ex-bf was smart in locking both of u up in the room to fight it out, that is just an excellent move

sounds like osmething u myt do?

oyinda.:
alcohol is a weirdo that's all you need to know.

Alcohol? wat has that got 2 do with it?

C2H5OH:
your arguments are not only circular, they also lack substance.  i know the definition of a monogamous marriage and i know the definition of a polygamous marriage.
you are making empty statements.  your point is MOOT by all possible accounts.
this thread is about men having multiple wives.
is something wrong with that, if so,   [b]WHY[/b]if you're trying to argue that marriage should only be a monogamous arrangement and you can't convince me with reasons, i will not agree with you. . . perioD!

now its coming clear, well POLYGAMY IS A BIG NO for me, reasons beign back in  d days were women were voiceless, and men reigned it was one of the strategy among with many such as rape whithin marriage, occupation restriction and vote to limite the propsect of women raisng their voice and recgnising the higher hierachy of men than women. Do ur history? am pretty sure thats d history behind it. but recently datz y its dosent occur much with women as it does with men. any way recently wen women has been recognised this concept was modernised, and even given a fancy name POLYGAMY. i believed with the concept of homosexuality and heterosexuality the whole thing has been remixed

na u dont get it, u treating the issue of how she would have responded to the issue of her bf ryt? well am saying all these are still a way of fighting, wether u talk? sit him down oo, or dance, or even physically fight they all fighting one way or the other to keep the guy, now if the guy is ur, this aint necessary, if he makes a mistake he apologises n its over no fighting in any form, but that ofcourse is if he belongs to you

are u guys supporting the notion of polygamy or opposing it? and who is who

n wats dis?

C2H5OH:
thank you hun. that's how i see it too. all or nothing.

well wat do u c?

oyinda.:
here is my answer


Polygamy is defined as[b] the condition or practice of having more than one spouse at one time. Also called plural marriage.[/b]
This definition doesn't restrict polygamy to a heterosexual or homosexual relationship
A gay person with multiple husbands will also be considered to be in a polygamous relationship
Therefore, homosexuality cannot be compared to polygamy
Furthermore, if heterosexual polygamy is legalized, homosexual polygamy should be legalized as well.

well neither should be legalized, all sin in the eyes of God

C2H5OH:
i refuse to understand why you feel the need to provide me with the definition of polygamy.  i could care less about that.

[b]i want to know why you think 3 consenting adults who want to get maried should not be allowed to do so.[/b]how is it any of your business? does it hurt you in anyway?
if two men can get married, why not one man and two women?

DO U SERIOUSLY NOT C ANYTHING WRONG WITH THAT PICTURE?

No2Atheism:
Technically that is not true.

How u fight is what matters not if you fight.

1. If the lady is trying to seduce the guy and the guy is too immatured and timid not to realise that he needs to kick the girl as far away as possible. Then its the responsibility of the lady to fight for his guy by going to people close to him. Some guys might be friendly to a fault. Hence in sincerity, the guy might not really have any bad intentions as concerns the girl, infact the guy might naively think that he's in control of the situation.

2. The lady needs to fight for what belongs to her in the sense that she needs to sit the guy down, talk to him, report him to his family but never lift a finger against the girl or him and never say a word of insult against the girl or him. By doing this, the lady ends up fighting for what belongs to her without doing it violently.

3. The unfortunate thing is that some men just need a little nudgging for them to grow up. Hence the need to test him and let him realise what he's about to lose. Once u test him by doing things listed above. It would become clear whether he loves you or not. Fighting for your man is not always about violence, hence you can fight for your love without physically being violent about it.

realy? and y is it that men are the only ones that are acting immature? i mean common i tot we were meant to be the fragile ones! now lemme ask u, do u fight for your Air that u breath, ur clothes, possesions, now cos they belong to you, the law of power dnt exist with the law of natural belongings.
if a guy truly love a gurl, no matter wat other girls would do they will stick together likewise the gurl. so NO U DO NOT FIGHT FOR WAT BELONGS TO YOU

oyinda.:
Alcohol, since you want to argue, start by defining polygamy

she's ryt start from d basics

well thats wat nairalan is all about, the girl myt be thru it now, but believe me there is a younger generation that myt experinece it now or in d future, so let the thread grow

if he leave u because of that u should be glad, its a sign that he is not ur own, cos normally u not supposed to fight for wat belongs to you, so it u did, then he aint urs, let him go

C2H5OH:


haven't you any respect for the lady folk

i tire ooo
well personally i think its more better to an individual to copy someone or something that u know will benefit u, and u know those ppl or thing are right, having multiple wives just because some gay unions are, so wen they book the flight that will take them to hell, pls dont forget to book ur own oooo