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Much needed in Nigeria but where will you put all those working there?

Let's learn to control our emotions

And people still attend Catholic church. Hell will be to overcrowded.

NJV:
Remember the thief at Jesus' side on the cross of Calvary, he still had to suffer the consequences of being a thief, but because he got saved on the cross, he enjoyed peace after death. So pls whatever you've done, rather than take your life and be doomed forever, kindly stay alive and turn to Jesus. He'll help you do the right thing. God help you.

Thank you so much for this reminder and encouragement. The story of the thief on the cross is a powerful example of grace and redemption, even in the face of consequences. I truly appreciate your kindness and your words of hope. I will hold on, turn to Jesus, and trust that He will guide me to do what’s right. God bless you for your support.

Kobojunkie:
Seeking Christ as an escape from the consequences of your actions?

Not as an escape, no. Maybe as a way to find the strength to face those consequences. I know running from responsibility isn’t the answer, but I’m struggling to see a way forward. Seeking Christ might be my only hope for clarity and courage.

NJV:
And whoever told you that you'll find peace somewhere when you take your life?? Oga you'll land in hell straight.

Your only path to peace is to stay alive, give your life to christ and confess what you've done o. Don't be afraid pls

I understand where you're coming from, and I appreciate your concern. Maybe peace isn’t found in escape, but staying alive and facing the consequences feels impossible right now. Still, I’ll think about what you said, seeking Christ and confessing. Thank you for urging me to reconsider.

Telltruth123:
I will advice you to take your Bible or Quran and start reading it and sick help from God, you will be fine, don't be a coward, there is no problem without a solution.

Thank you for your advice. Turning to faith and seeking strength from God is something I will consider. However, I must respectfully disagree that every problem has a solution, some consequences are irreversible. That said, I appreciate your encouragement and will reflect deeply on this.

Kobojunkie:
I am just glad you cleared the air regarding your particular reason here. It isn't the case that you are suicidal but rather you have resolved that death is the easiest way out of facing the consequence of your own faults here. There are those out there who struggle with suicidal tendencies, not for crimes committed or faults of their own; you are not one of them.

You're right, and I appreciate the distinction. There are people who battle suicidal thoughts through no fault of their own, and their struggle is deeply heartbreaking. My situation is different, and I fully acknowledge that. Thank you for pointing it out, it’s a sobering truth. Sad, indeed.

Kobojunkie:
You are a coward thinking death would be the easiest way out of accepting the consequence of his actions. Right? I recall Hitler did the same thing. Rather than accept the consequences of his atrocities, he chose to kill himself and took his wife and children with him. Anyway, good luck! 🤔

Choosing to go seems like freedom to me, but it's not courage; it's an escape. Not every problem has a solution, and sometimes, the consequences of our actions are heavier than we can bear. I am certain this is my path, I hope i find the peace i seek. Facing the storm seems to painful and difficult.

I've done something so terrible that it feels beyond redemption. I can't seem to find a way out of this mess. I just want to leave, and I'm considering the easiest way to do so. But my loved ones would suffer because of it. How can I find a way to be saved?
I'm so scared right now

Modified:
Thank you all for the encouragement. I’ll stay and keep fighting.