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cj1900:
Hi guys,
I won't take much of your time. I have a very delicate matter in my hands and I need diverse opinions please.

Background
I don't live in Nigeria but me and my wife both have a very comfortable 4 bedroom duplex in Nigeria. We have a one year old baby. I have been in Nigeria for 5 months now and I will be returning to UK in a few weeks.

Ever since I've been in Nigeria, my cousin (mid 30s) has been with us. Quite frankly, it is not very easy for him at the moment and i do care about him as a brother. He is in the process of processing his visa, so its not as if he is loafing about.

The plan is that both me and my wife will be taking turns in visiting each other for the next 2 or so years until I return fully to Nigeria.

The problem
The problem is that I do not feel comfortable leaving just him and my wife under thesame roof whilst I return and he is not showing any signs of leaving when I return to my base.

So, this is my situation and I don't know if I am being insensitive.

I married a very good wife and under most circumstances, I trust her. I am just not comfortable leaving my wife with any man atall under thesame roof.

I need your opinions pls.

Get an apartment for him. Ensure He has settled in before you leave. When you leave always call your wife for long hours and ensure she doesn't start feeling lonely. Check on your cousin regularly too and get updated on his Visa processing and other movements.
Finally relax and do not overthink.

Drickles:
Once I think of Mourinho at Inter, I think of Eto'o and Diego Milito, especially Milito. I too liked that guy that year.
But meanwhile, what kind of people are Se.un registering on this website pls ?

Who the hell is Buharitesticles.

Why , how , who

21trilliooon naira.

How much is Nigeria worth again

lllllll

He hasn't started campaigning o yet see the massive love. But one jagabrained goat is going upandan looking and paying for support and favors.

successmatters:
Jonathan was also an intellectual.

What happened?

Buhari happened

If after all you've through under Buhari, you still don't see how Jonathan saved this country then your case is really pathetic.

Quit confusing the church. Divorce ALLOWED or NOT. No fence.

Dorwadora:
Of course my instincts are against the whole thing, that's why I want people's opinion. And also a way to stop the whole cooking thing without losing the job.

I feel you should dialogue with him when he's in his best mood. Express your concerns calmly and honestly.