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May Almighty Allah bless nd reward d donors......tnx so much.....we really appreciate

congratulations ma'am.....May Almighty Allah protect ur lo......

jazzyjazz:
Congrats mama orente21 on your princess. May God bless her.
Congrats to other mama's that have put to
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A thunderous congratulations to mama's from TTC thread, mama curvilicious and other mama's. God who has given you this blessing will keep him/her and he/she will be a blessing to you and your family.

It is well with you ma'am benignasweety. We await your good news

Other mama's I hail o
Team June how market?

Mama the mama.......lngst tym oooo

Allah (S.W.T) grace is immeasurably. .....Allahu Akhbar! !!!!!!!!jst received another alert of#3000......ALHAMDULLILAHI!!!!!!!!

don't feel bad....u av really tried ur bst.....I strongly believe Almighty Allah will take charge......we only need to try harder........tnx so much

Walaekum salam waramotullahi wabarakatuh. ....am so sori for d late reply.....jst saw ur post......yes I received an alert of #3000 dis morning, cnt explain am overjoy i am.....jazakumullahi khairan......may almighty Allah reward you abundantly. ...

Asalam alaekum. .....I really appreciate ur concern and assistance. .....jst received an alert of #3000 few mins ago......jazakumullahi khairan.........

supernatural delivery to u ma'am......u will be favoured In Sha Allah.....May the blessings and joy of d special mnth of ramadan be urz(ameen)
zuman zhebilla yan sharahu

supernatural delivery to u ma'am......u will be favoured In Sha Allah.....May the blessings and joy of d special mnth of ramadan be urz

rogovo20:
Hi Nlanders,

Happy Childrens day to all the daddies and mummies. Quick one, my wife and I are 6 years into our marriage with 2 kids, from the inception of our marital union we have always had issues that stems on trust, we both have that issue, and when I say trust, it has
to strictly do with her bickering into my phone and finding somethings not worth shouting or condemning me for, rather for communication, but she does otherwise. In her own case, it had to do with her ex she always talked about when we courted for a short period before marrying. She told me she called him to seek advise and confide in him, told her to stop and threatened fire n brimstone, but later found out that she saved the guys number with another name, gave me excuse as to the reason she did it.

One faithful day, a year after marriage, 5 years ago to be precise, she had gone to the school she worked as a teacher, there also she takes my dauther who resumes at the day care there. 2 hrs later, she called me crying over the phone that there was an accident, I asked what happened, she said my daughter of 9 months old then had a severe deep cut on her lips that I should rush down. Immediately, I left and branched at the clinic where she was being stitched, I felt for the poor baby, because at that age with such injury was not nice. Immediately, I told her that we'll leave for home for the day. The clinic was not far from the school where she parked her car, so I asked for the key so I could go ahead and pick the car so we can all be going home. On reaching the car, I saw her wedding ring kept in the glove compartment. Was surprised because she always wear it, and wore it out to work. At that moment, was more worried about my daughter.

We got home, and I asked her why her ring was in the car instead of her finger,she said the reason why she removed it was because last Sunday I was staring at a girls ass and she was mad about it. In which I did, but didnt do it deliberately or seemed too obvious, I use style look, and it was more of a reflex, I am human. I apologized that very day, but to think after then, she decided to remove her ring because of that? RED FLAG. I kept my mute. Once in a while throughout the years, when we still have arguments, I ask her that I still wonder why she removed her ring, that it cant be the issue of ass staring that would make it that bad for her to do that. She kept on saying it was the reason. 5 years into the marriage now, we were having a deep discussion, then she started saying things about what happened during our early stage of marriage, that she called her ex, because that was the only person he knew as a bf then, reason why she confided in him, that he talked about leaving his wife too with two kids and run away to Canada with her bla bla bla. But the major thing about her point was that, she discussed the issue of me stearing at another womans ass with him, that was when the guy started packaging some stories that entered her head, which was the reason why she removed that ring on that faithful day. Wow! She now stated that she noticed he was trying to seduce her by seeing her, that he went to the extent of saying, if I should come and see u at that ur place of work, I might be forced to kiss you, stating that was when she knew he was trying to use words to have him come around, so he could have sex with her. I told her that whats the probability that they have not been seeing, she said NEVER. But then I reminded her of the day we had issues, she came back from work late, and I asked where she had gone, she replied by saying, I went to go and have sex with someone that has a bigger joystick that urs. She later denounced that it was a joke to get at me, its possible,, and it could be true.

Nlanders, sorry for my long story, if i dont put it down well, u wont know my stance on this issue, I wont say am a saint when I started this marriage, but I have changed, this woman up until now has not, I have another post to share right after this. Now my question here is, I WANT to keep my family regardless of whatever, but is it wise to Bleep that ex up? Because of what she told me he said, to me hes trying to spoil me to get into my wife, thats if he has not, because I one way or the other found this her ex wife number. And I have evidences to prove that she has been in communication with my wife. Or should I just let God judge? Cos as I bad reach b4 I marry, I have never, and will never sleep with a married woman, nor will I ever try to sleep with an ex who is already married. Sincere opinion needed.

I will advice you sir to stop bringing ur marital prob to this platform......imagine someone called ur wife I mean the mother of ur kids a prostitute and u kept mute ae u supporting the fact dat she is a prostitute....advice on this platform can't build ur ome it wil rather damage it d mre....trust and prayer is the weapon for a successful and happy home....All marriage as its own flaw and bond btw ur and u depends on how u trust and tolerate oneanother.....dont be surprised if 99% can't control their wives or gf and dey ae here giving u advice of getting a side chick, plss don't be mislead so u wnt regret it later.....am nt saying she is cheating or not jst try to sit her down and ask her amicably and wat ever response she gives you dont doubt her and continue to trust her u wil see ur marriage will be be perfectly ohk.....and pls dont seek advice from third partner abtur marital life....

In Sha Allah I will let u no..... Tnx so much

AbdelKabir:
Sorry I came late, was really busy yesterday....

So how is she today?

I've already prepared the write up, but I will need to add a number people(brothers) can call, precisely the husband's, to ask about the situation...

And yours for sisters that would like to call...

You can send it to my mail address....

Can we get that?

Also, hope you've checked the account number properly before posting and you are sure there is no mistake?

Jazakallahu khairan. .....tnx so much I really appreciate. .....May Almighty Allah reward you all.....I will do dat ASAP...

Mofpearl:
Okay then.
May Allah make it easy for her.

ameen ya Allah.....jazakallahu khairan.....

Mofpearl:
Did they talk more about the treatment? What they intended to do- maybe type of medication or anything.

What about her inability to walk? Did the doctor mention the cause of that?

Did the doctor also talk about the cause of her back pain?

I dnt no anything about what the doctor said more than that......I tink they only told my dad and my uncle about the remaining part.....the part I stated is only the one I no about......tnx

Mofpearl:
Sister,

How is her condition today?

Can you tell us more about her diagnosis?

What exactly is wrong with her?

How are the doctors intending to treat it?

How much do yo need in total?

Was the medical report from the same hospital she was diagonised and is currently being treated?

her condition is getting worse
We were later refered to general hospital for further examination an x-ray was conducted dat was when we were told that her heart is located at the right part nd not left.....but we where told dat it can be managed....
As for total I dnt no it was only the 100k we were told to bring as deposit so as to commence treatment I no about for now....
yes......but she is currently at home cos we have been referred to general hospital but the money for initial deposit is not ready....her husband those not have any money with him again.....that was why I decided to bring it here incase anyone could be of help

[quote author=Mofpearl post=56825179].......
That is the only report the doctor gave?
May Allah have mercy on her and ease her pain. Ameen.
[/quote yea.....Ameen

Asalam alaekum......Went to the hospital yesterday for the card but I was told patients are not allowed to be in possession of the card but the matron directed me to the doctor......After explaining what I want to use it for, he told me hospital card won't guarantee anything dat instead of hospital card I was meant to ask for a medical report since she has been treated there before.....The pix of the medical report Is attached to this.....tnx so much....

pls do uniosun recognise 2choice

Demmzy15:
Sister, wallahi we're willing to help, in fact not too long brothers and sisters here were able to raise the required amount. According to what I heard people were still sending, so it'll be advisable if you just show the hospital card so that it can be confirmed.

Tell the nurses in the hospital to give you the family card so that you can take a picture. Explain to them some friends are willing to help with the amount, they'll allow you. You posting pictures won't solve any problem, because we can confirm if this is true or scam!

Please for the sake of Allaah, do as your told. May Allaah protect her and give her full recovery!

Tnx so much for your response.....Will see how quick I can get the hospital card......

As per the hospital card I was told they made use of the family card.......thats y av not posted the card..as per the pic I dnt tink dere is anything wrong wit it any individual with a human heart will surely feel for her.......pls I beg just help in anyway you tink you can....Am begging...

pls I implore you all to assist, she is going through a lot of pains.....I might not sound convincing enough bt I solemnly believe if its a scam may I be rewarded abundantly and if its nt may the works of my hand pray for me pls assist for the sake of Allah if not hers.....And you can also help in broadcasting this....Tnx

Tnx so much for your patience, may Almighty Allah reward you abundantly. ...The first pix was taken last year before her sickness,while the second pix was taken recently. ....pls I implore you all not to overlook this no matter how small the money might be,you av also contributed to the well being of a living person.....pls I beg help in one way or the other even if not with money, your prayers will go a long way....May you not be tide down with sickness In Sha Allah(Ameen)...

Tnx so much sir...am going to get the card 2mao....In sha Allah by 2mao u gonna get the pix....I reali appreciate ur response.....jazakallahu khairan

Aiit....I will see If I can get it today...tnx

AbdelKabir:
What's the name of that one?

Asadam hospital.....it was after the test and xray we were advised to take her to general hospital......be4 she was taken away....

What admission card were you talking about here that is "a little bit difficult" I tot the first hospital she went for diagnosis

[quote author=AbdelKabir post=56666103]Calling somebody isn't something that can give the people I want to broadcast to rest of mind....

Rather the card including her name and hospital's name is....

Where are you now? [/quote
it seems u getting smtin wrong.....I neva sed she is admiitted already.....I sed we need the deposit the doctor asked of us......she was referred to oke-oyi bt av nt been admitted......with or without the admission card you want to show pple...I strongly believe that with my sincerity nd Allah's blessing we going to get the assistance, thats if our helpers are here....tnx so much

getting the admission care will be alittle difficult because am nt with her presently just trying to get money for her treatment. ....bt if you don't mind...I can give u her number. ..so you can confirm this is not a scam......I won't lie about something like this just to get money...tnx

[quote author=carinmom post=56664731]May Allah SWT ease her pains and grant her shifa[/quote
Ameen ya Allah...tnx

[quote author=AbdelKabir post=56664729]What exactly is the name of this teaching hospital?[/quote
its a general hospital...dats the name its called teaching hospital. ...its at oko-oyi here in ilorin

AbdelKabir:
Has she been admitted into the hospital already?



*after this, will be one two more questions and that's it*

she has been to the hospital be4 nw.....bt we were later referred to teaching hospital oke-oyi and the people taking care of her have really spent....thats why we need support....tnx