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Hello Nairaland,
I need your advice.
My wife and I got separated for a year plus now and we had a son and he stays with her. I have been sending her monthly child maintenance since our separation. Anytime, I pay a visit to see the child or wanted to take the child out at least to have some time with him, she always refused. On his birthday day, I told my brother to go and bring the child but the mother refused again and said unless she will follow the child to wherever we are going.
I don't want any kind of memory with her again and I equally want to spend some time with my son especially on his birthday.

Hello Nairaland people, please i need your advise, my girfriend has a app lock to all our phone application (including phone setting) and she is not always convenient and okay anytime i pick up her phone. She only disclose the password to unlock the phone and every other apps is locked with a different password not known to me. I'm a type of person that cherish transparency in relationship alot. The action is hitting me up and I'm worried and started to distrust her. What should I do?