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You are on point

dauntless15:
Shawarma get type sha, if you eat thrashy one you'll feel its just hype, but you eat better shawarma na addiction straight up, first time i tried it was in abuja, chicken shawarma with lots of clunky chicken, there's also suya variety, its expensive but worth it, get it at junkyard grills, had it with freshly made milkshake.

See Shawarma dey different from real Shawarma


I tasted one in Sokoto in 2011 up until now I still crave for it.


I now tasted one in a roadside joint in Ibadan my brother I feel like committing

But yet Shawarma is a nice snack worth trying out

PO matter will give some people High BP



Any how as he dey pain you, he dey sweet me die



All I know is that myself and the entire family are voting him into power by God's Grace


I laugh in Yewa voice

Very commendable my OBI

[color=#990000][/color]as he dey pain you Sir Onanuga he dey sweet us


Ooobi we no dey pay sheshee

Die if you won die



We shall be OK

It is not about courage Mr onanuga


Sir we no go play Dollar politics that you guys want so badly



For your information Sir we no dey pay sheshee

I laugh in Yewa voice

And if they don't pay

What will you do ?

Mr almighty Iran


I laugh in yewa

Where is the money on subsidy removal
But na Peter Obi be your headache

Where is the money on subsidy remover

You guys said he can not win a state in 2023 he won more than 12 state(Rivers and oyo) for a fact

Now the reality is steering you in the face that he might win (by the Grace of God) the 2027 general election

It will shock you all

To what end


Abegi something way Israel go bomb in sec



If he sure for iran, let them open their internet

Continue GOD dey

No company would be prosicuted after all these hullabaloo

This is what you get wen u sell land indescriminately for industrial purposes around residential area


All because you want to improve on state IGR

And leak your own gain

Believe me this is just the beginning

All I see in this comment section is how humans have lost their humanity to hunger

What a shame


We truly diserve the kind of leaders we have


That uses hunger to control our emotions

Only the last part of your write up make sense

Dpsychologist:
5 Myths About Love Many Nigerians Grow Up Believing

The older I get, the more I realize that love is one of the most beautiful things in life… and also one of the most dangerous things when you don’t understand it properly.

A lot of us were raised on fairy tales, Nollywood fantasies, church slogans, relationship quotes and heartbreak songs.

We were taught that love conquers all.But real life in Nigeria will humble that belief very quickly.
Most times love is not what destroys people it is the lies people believe about love.

Let’s talk honestly.

1. “Love Is Enough”

This is probably the biggest lie people keep repeating.

Love is important, yes. But love alone cannot carry a relationship where there is no stability, no emotional maturity, no discipline, no direction and no peace.

Love doesn’t pay hospital bills.
Love doesn’t remove frustration from unemployment.
Love doesn’t automatically fix anger issues, cheating, irresponsibility or addiction.

Many couples genuinely love themselves but still suffer badly together because life pressure is stronger than feelings.

Anybody who has experienced financial hardship inside a relationship understands this deeply.

You can love somebody and still be miserable together.

2. “If Somebody Truly Loves You, They Will Never Hurt You”

This one sounds sweet until life teaches you otherwise.

Human beings are flawed.

People can genuinely love you and still disappoint you because of weakness, immaturity, trauma, temptation, selfishness or poor decisions.

A woman can love a man and still disrespect him during anger. A man can love a woman and still cheat. Love does not automatically remove human flaws.

This is why character matters more than mere emotions because emotions change quickly.
Character is what remains when emotions cool down.

3. “Suffering Together Means The Love Is Real”


Nigeria especially romanticizes struggle too much. You’ll see two people drowning financially, emotionally exhausted, fighting every week, but they’ll still say: “At least we love each other.”

Love is not supposed to become permanent suffering. Please don't get me wrong in this.
However, many people stay in bad relationships because they think endurance automatically means loyalty.

No.

Sometimes you are not enduring love.
You are enduring dysfunction. Real love should add peace to your life, not remove your sanity completely.

4. “Women Love The Same Way Men Do”

This conversation always makes people emotional, but let’s be honest.

Men and women are not wired exactly the same when it comes to attraction and relationships.

A lot of men can stay emotionally attached even while struggling financially. But many women start losing attraction when a man becomes unstable for too long financially, mentally or socially.

That doesn’t always make women evil.

A lot of women grew up watching suffering closely.
They saw their mothers struggle.
They saw poverty destroy homes.
So security affects attraction for many of them whether people admit it or not.

This is why many men get shocked when a woman who once sounded deeply in love suddenly changes after prolonged hardship.

Painful reality, but that's the reality.

5. “Marriage Automatically Guarantees Happiness”

Marriage is not magic. It does not suddenly heal loneliness, immaturity, trauma or confusion.

Some people are deeply unhappy inside marriage but cannot leave because of children, religion, shame, finances or society.

Some married people secretly miss the peace they had while single.

Marriage only amplifies who both people already are. If two emotionally unhealthy people marry each other, the wedding ring will not suddenly create wisdom. That’s why choosing well matters more than simply marrying quickly.

One painful thing I’ve noticed is this:

Many Nigerians are not actually taught how relationships work.We are only taught how to desire relationships.

Nobody teaches emotional intelligence.
Nobody teaches conflict resolution.
Nobody teaches boundaries.
Nobody teaches financial compatibility.
Nobody teaches psychological stability.

So people enter relationships with fantasies and leave with trauma.

The truth is Love is beautiful, very beautiful. But love without wisdom can destroy your finances, mental health, confidence and future. That’s why as I grow older, I no longer ask: “Who loves me the most?”

I ask:
“Who is emotionally healthy?
Who is consistent?
Who brings peace?
Who has discipline?
Who has values?
Who can build with me during both comfort and hardship?”

Attraction can start relationships but wisdom is what sustains them and honestly, many Nigerians need relationship education more than relationship motivation.

Some heartbreaks are avoidable from the beginning if people simply understood human nature better.

This is my take.

What fair play are you talking of

You mean the dollarization of polity is fair play
Abegi pack well

If PO moves to WHO party
I and my entire households will port with him

because we believe in him.

erad:
Lol... No accountability whatsoever because he knows he has zombies who are not even intelligent enough to critically assess things he says.

When you were winning with APGA, you were not forced out. It's after you became governor(leader) in the state you were forced out. Lol. If a whole sitting governor of a party can be forced out of a party, is it as president you won't be forced out?

Principle chased you out of PDP or greed and fear of fair play? Once you can't have your way, you leave. Those are not attributes of a principled man, they are attributes of an opportunist.

LagosOrigin:
You don't owe tinubu laptop boys any explanation sir
Million of sane Nigerians love you and that's all that's important.

Tinubu should explain to Nigerians how he intend to pay back all the loans in billions of dollars that he collected from world bank with nothing on ground to show for it.

Waoo I love your submission Sir

PO owes no one explanation
They will just hold one part to castigate him
But that does not stop me from voting him in 2027 by God's Grace amen.

They will still throw tantrums at you Obi

Stop salaye/no explanation

As he dey pain them he they sweet us

We shall be OK in 2027 general election

We hear you

So give the ticket to Ameachi or Atiku

Na your problem bi dat

We they OK

If you carry fire for body then you don't need to be scared of anything

because cobwebs cannot withstand heat

Waoo
Did I just see $72million


Heaven please remember me also

Now I understand why gov Seyi focussed on infrastructure in the state

It is a physical evidence of you working as a Gov and secretly you make several billions that non can question, couple with several loans collected.

Well Sir, it is your right to contest.

And you are the best working south west gov in terms of infrastructure

Am so sure this will be the beginning of quarrels btw the two


And note Dangote may have the say for now but FG/NNPC will have their way in future

If you know you know


Interesting times ahead

I will be so happy when INEC announce him as the winner of 2026 elections

EFCC anyday and anytime

Wow no wonder the unity of the nation is non negotiable

Wetin concern me

The mole to distabilise the south

All I know is that me and my household are voting OBI

Nice people
But are flirt

Na you get your mouth

I know Peter Obi will complete the work perfectly because government is continuum

I can't wait to vote OK