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Everyday I keep seeing different species of Men on the internet… what’s ur say on what he’s saying ?? pic.twitter.com/VxoZzF11vn

— CHIZZY_BB (@CHIZZY_BB) July 23, 2026

guy seem to be thinking straight. He is very correct. Being parent, father most especially is a risk for shorter life span. It is not just a 20 years of commitment on the children, but a lifetime of commitment if one is blessed. His reasons is a pass for those on his school of thought ✅

Goo0dHardDick:
Did you read my post? I never said a teen girl child should leave her family. I said a Girl of 25 or rather a girl of age should go out there and experience life in full. Such experience will make her understand that life isn't roses.

The one still telling you they want a billionaire as husband are those ones still living with their parents. They can't afford 3 square meals without their parents and somehow they expect a rich man to have built houses and bought cars to come for them? Life isn't nollywood sir!

Have you noticed it is those ones still living with their parents that insults and broke shame people online all the time? Girls who lives alone, paying her bills, feeding herself won't do that! I'm sure you already know.

Whoever does prostitution or a guy that goes to crime did such because they want to and that's not my area of concentration. I am only saying an adult who is 25 already should leave his parents house, go out there and experience life in full

you are still insisting on your point.

Dot you have ancestral home? Aren’t you from a clan? If you want marry now, you no fit carry your wife go where your great grand parents hail from? Where are your aunties and uncles? Bro. These are the future generations and the clans you’re talking down on. Come off it.

All your a saying, did any of them tell you they are living in their father’s house?

You said, Commit crime because they choose to. Let them try it from their father’s house.! How many yahoo boy dey their papa house dey f*ck up? Many has been disowned

Observe the Arab communities, they are filthy rich, travel on vacations, school abroad etc. No one stops you! Why dishonor the roof over your head? Bro. You need know many things about family values I am a sociologist


Nothing stops you from exploring.

It controls crime in the society. In fact people live with their doors open sleeping at night.

Nothing you will say about this that goes well

Goo0dHardDick:
Point of correction, na SW and notherners dey experience insecurity pass while traveling during festival periods.

Secondly, those categories of people you just mentioned are the ones that insult and are quick to call and label people broke online. Why should I respect such people? I don't understand? People who have never paid a single bill in their lives people? Nor feed themselves without their parents? No pay house rent? Which respect are you talking about?

I only take seriously those who can do the above mentioned things because they live alone. They've understood that life itself isn't roses. They've understood the value of money! They've had experiences in life. These categories always have a way of dismantling any doors at obstruct them because they know what life is about. They have experienced life and still experiencing life!

People still living with their parents, what do they know about life? People who are afraid of taking risks? Are afraid of living their parents house to go and start theirs?

I'm not here for emotional discussions. Leave your parents house and experience life in full

I said festive season! The SE face these unforeseen insecurity more because they are all coming from different parts of the country.

I am talking about “a roof over your head, nothing wrong if one should so decide”!

You can explore life the way you want no one stops you!

Do you know how many men who messes up with women making them baby mamas and s*x maniacs all to satisfy urge? Dem born any man well to go turn girl to baby mama for her papa house?.

And will a common sense grown up, not take up bills in the house the moment he is capable to do so.

Bro. Take it or leave it, people still dey build house for their papa compound.

Do not you have community? What makes up a community. I will keep asking you this!

Goo0dHardDick:
Which one is daughters sleeping around? Oga a girl can be living with her parents and still be sleeping around back to back? What kind of lame excuses is that?

Haven't you seen girls living with their parents and still be sleeping around with men to found their lifestyles? Was the said acclaim virgin favour living alone? Wasn't she living with her parents? Stop this lame excuses.

Any girl who decides to sleep around intentionally did so. I am telling you that I don't take people who are 25years and above still living with their parents serious!

They should leave their comfort zones, go out there and experience life in full

your ideology is somehow. I won’t say much , simply observe the Islamic community (the Muslims)mainly from the north even their elites how they live. Using their female gender as a case study…! So what are you talking about. Some of us still don’t get. Who go come dey house. If the society see a man marrying more than 2wives, t some kick against. Still part of the reason make members dey house

WHAT MAKES UP A COMMUNITY?

Do have a community that exist yourself? Are the collective members strangers/tenants? How did your own come about? Tell us

Also imagining also putting on a Jean and with a snickers.

Na sagging go fit make an match

CabinBiskeet:
1. It is not everything you see people doing that you must copy.

2. Sagging your trousers or shorts to reveal your boxer has a meaning. A very dirty nasty meaning that has nothing to do with swag, aura or fashion.

3. Think about it deeply, If a prostitute dresses scantily to pass a message, Why will a full grown man reveal his tightly glued boxer/brief showing the full shape of his butt for the public to see.....Why? Why show to the public something that is meant to be private? What message are you passing?

4. The devil is cunningly smart. He knows his agenda is debasingly shocking and senseless to a God fearing soul so he likes to use people of renown to push that agenda.

5. Always remember number 1.

sagging is fashion. Abobby, has made his wealth already.

When I was his age up to 25, people tell me to stop sagging, I tell them, “na dere my waist dey”.

So now, “na dere him waist dey”. It is his time…

Goo0dHardDick:
For girls it's not ok at all.

That idea of a girl of age still living with her parents is what makes majority of them to have entitlement mentality. You'll see a girl saying she wants a guy who has built a house, buys a car and he is super rich. Meanwhile she has never paid a single bill in her before. She doesn't even know how much a self con cost let alone feeding herself.

She needs to live alone to experience all these things in full so they'll know you don't pick money from trees. Any girl living with her parents and she's 25, lol. I'll never take her serious because I'll believe she hasn't known nor understand anything about life

your words speak an outright lack of family value. Every woman has a right to go for what she wants. Yes, it comes in disguise but greed and youthful exuberance makes many loose it.

Mind you, Our society is getting more corrupt by the day.

Prostitution is the order of the day, including crime and vice. This is as a result of those who choose to leave alone.

Can a girl go prostitute from her father’s house? or a guy go commit crime from his father’s house?

Goo0dHardDick:
I don't take people who are 25years and above serious, once I noticed they're still living with their parents.

The moment I noticed you're still living with your parents, whether you're a guy or a girl, I'll never take you serious. I'll immediately see you as an unserious person in life.

People who are 25years and above sometimes do not have clear goals for their lives. They waste any money that comes to them. A young man of 25 living with his parents is ready to waste money on hotels esp when he wants to meet with a lady for comfort and relaxation. A girl of 25 and above sees no reason to move out of her parents house because of fear of payment of bills and house rent including feeding. I see people who lives with their parents as loosers afraid of taking risks in life, afraid of starting life and afraid of life in general.

The thing is, I have more respect for girls and people generally who lives alone than those living with their parents!

you are dragging family values Bro. It’s forbidden in the Africa culture! No one does that! The south eastern part of Nigeria is almost like your opinion, but check it out during festive season, na dem full road pass, na them dey face dangers pass , like insecurity on high ways.

If everyone begins to leave independently, all men and women will begin to leave on their own in the near future. People coming together selling off their ancestral properties which is forbidden in many African tribes.

So ask yourself who retains ancestral home? Is it an intentions to erase family names?

Your father’s house and your mother’s house is your root.

In fact, respect those categories of people you are condemning, they are the ones born with family values, and will inculcate it into their new family. It’s a shameful thought to think and do otherwise …

Is a first born son not supposed to live in his father’s house and get married to raise more offspring? Or who else then should stay there? Make dem put the place on rent ?

How about daughters? Is it for them to be sleeping around with random men just to fund and sustain fake lifestyles?

Think deeply

Gbogbodirin:
If you choose a lady who loves, then you have chosen respect and true love. She would be dedicated to you and would be scared of losing you. So, you have a woman who wants to be kept for life.

mind you, any woman who choose to marry a man, is ready and she’s ok! But a man must love that woman before it can work. Example as Samson and Delilah, Samson sorted to marry Delilah by all means and he did ! He took responsibilities of his actions after he was betrayed and eyes plugged out. He begged God for last strength

It is the love from the man that makes relationship and marriage work

AllBlack:
Tell the two of them to TURN AROUND let me see what they have.

I need the one with the bigger booty

If you follow love or love follow you, all of them na the same weyrey dem be but it is easier to accommodate the weyrey behavior when they have that FIGURE you love.

perfect 💯💯💯

ARISHEM:
If she doesn't loves you and you love her why would you decide to chose her over of the one that loves you. That is suicide.
I wise man will chose a lady that loves him.

the angle you are coming from is somehow. A man takes more responsibilities of his decisions over a women if he loves her. It is more, suicide for the woman if the man does not love her. He will easily be getting more pissed even if she tries her best. Some men end up raising hands on them. It can be really bad.

When a sister wants to marry a man, the family makes sure the man loves her.

When a brother wants to marry a lady, his family accepts the one he loves! If not, problem go too dey, dey!

Better marrying the one the man loves. Women have excesses. If the man should marry the woman he loves, he will be more tolerant and take responsibility for many things because he chose her. But no man should pray for a terrible woman into his life. That’s all. Because Some women can be indeed terrible

stampo:
You only postponed your own
It's still waiting for you ahead.

You will look more older then

At what age do you want to start training children ?

At 42, u never marry,
So at 50, you still have kids in daycare school.

Continue to deceive yourself that you look younger o.

Old papa youngy

your calculations have no basis for making anyone of that category feel miserable. Take it or leave it, na women get children. At 42+ no woman can stand it being single but for a man, life just dey start sef for am being single. Our diasporas are clear example. Who “carrying of family name epp!” Men suffer at old age, even suffer more when the man have grown up kids facing their lives of struggles already. Most of them no dey send their papa again most especially when the man has a bad wife. It takes by God’s grace. Bro. It’s even much better as a man getting married at older age than younger age.

It’s miserable paying bills for a lifetime. No freedom as being single for a larger part of one’s existence than be tied up by responsibilities at a younger age.

Life no be bondage, life no be trap. It is meant to be lived well. Zero benefits to a man having kids. Marriage is main for a man to satisfy sexual desires, which ends up being a trap for a life time paying the bills

Abegi!

HITsquad:
He is right, in my opinion.

I personally think the urge to get married and have children is largely an evolutionary instinct. Nature wired us to reproduce because that’s how our species survives. That doesn’t automatically make it the most rational or meaningful goal for every individual.

People should focus on living the life they genuinely want and enjoying the limited time they have. Travel, build something, learn, love, create memories, chase your passions, or simply find peace. Life doesn’t come with a universal checklist.

Many people obsess over “leaving a legacy,” carrying on the family name, or making sure their bloodline continues. But once you’re dead, none of that matters to you anymore. You won’t know whether your children had children, whether your name survived, or whether anyone remembers you a hundred years later.

The only part of life you’ll ever truly experience is the one you’re living right now. So instead of living for a future you’ll never witness, live a life that is meaningful to you while you’re here.

and also a tendency to re-incarnate through their bloodline. I just wonder, na life be this! Does it worth re-incarnating..!

Egypt had gotten Argentina out neatly. FIFA were scared they will loose sales of massive ticket if Argentina doesn’t make final.

Goodmarlian:
I am just tired of this my girls approach towards our relationship,this girl is good ,well behaved and has a good job shes doing at hand but the problem I have with her is that she barely picks my calls or reply chats don't get me wrong we talk so very well offline we can gist for long and all that but we are no longer together forget it she will never reply my chats or calls
I have complained a lot about this to her she will apologize but still continue now I think it either she doesn't really like me as I think or she just want to weaponise communication I just want to continue with the relationship for fun while a find someone else who is ready and prioritizes me for marriage ,I see poor communication as a huge red flag .

bro. this isn’t a relationship. You’re the one taking it beyond expectations. Seeing red flags is enough message to let you know you just have to move on. You no go break any Person heart. She’s got collections.

Samantha125:
Well, we learnt from our West African big brothers...😜😜😜... So until you guys stop unaliving your fellow Africans in your country, shuush!!!🤫🤫🤫

Go play with the kids or watch the world cup if you have nothing better to say.

dangerous chameleon talking off point.

I can see you are so much in love with me and our people generally

But fear no go let you show face.

Samantha125:
But I'm sure you don't feel sorry and pity for those of your fellow Africans that you're massacring there in cold blood as usual.

A murderer trying to project his murderous tendencies unto others... May your God forgive you.

Good you have finally said whom you really are with your own mouth!. A clear justification. Go eat your country belleful you hear.

Samantha125:
Story story, doesn't change the fact that you're still massacring your fellow Africans in cold blood...🥱🥱🥱... Now shift abeg.

u don dey hear our pidgin ba? We can see you are becoming more Nigerian than South African

I sorry for who no sorry for una

I pity who no pity una

Samantha125:
Story story, doesn't change the fact that you're still massacring your fellow Africans in cold blood...🥱🥱🥱... Now shift abeg.

u don dey hear our pidgin ba? We can see you are becoming more Nigerian than South African

I sorry for who no sorry for una

Samantha125:
You're also massacring your own people in your country, but you don't see me busy poking you guys over it...🤷🤷🤷

The only difference is that your country doesn't conduct nationwide crime statistics while we're transparent with ours.

if you guys are killing one another, how has that got to do with me too as well? Your defensive talk is defenseless.

Between i and you it is like a drum of war. That’s the huge difference. Get that! And mind you, not all wars, has got anything to do with live missiles

Samantha125:
At the end of the day, I am still a patriotic South African and I'll defend my country's honour like any other patriot... I'm sure you'll also do the same with your country.

patriotism has nothing to do with soaking one’s hands in bloodshed. Killing your own race. That’s cannibalism

Freeyourminds:
I hate church too. But Jesus is real and he is sad and angry. Many are entering hell daily. It doesn't matter if you had a bad experience in church. Jesus said "come to me" not "go to church".

I fully understand your experience because I've had my fair share but then I met Jesus. As I'm talking to you, I'm not a perfect person either but one thing is certain. "if we do not repent and turn to Jesus fully, we will rot in hell"

I wish I was unsure of what I just said. God is in heaven and humans are on earth. The bible is the only true guide we have. Not men. You found yourself in a religious prison but Jesus still cares about you that is why you're the only person in Naira land that I felt led to talk to about Him.

Everything you see in the bible is 100% real. Do not let your experiences make you question them. I once became an atheist because of my similar experience with you.

you calling Christ,

why are the Christians being killed so cheaply and nothing has ever been done till date? You speak about the Bible. What did God say about such experiences? And that he has been abandoned was why he left the Israelites to their enemies for destruction! isn’t.? Now can you explain what really is happening? Why does it contradict ? Because na Nigeria dey lead pas for church goers ranking all over the world till date.

Your faith is messing you up!

Ironically , the religion you’re preaching against (traditional) is what God has ordained for the African race. As a result of abandoning our ancestral worship is what’s making life this bad for us now. Our lands now being taken over. Where is Christ now to show himself more powerful to save our people?.

ELISHA, SAMSON, DAVID and SAMUEL etc PRECIDED OVER THE WHOLE OF ISRAEL, but OYEDEPO CAN NOT PRECIDE OVER KWARA STATE, ENENCHE CAN NOT PRECIDE OVER BENUE STATE. Infact it is their state that is the specimen for deadly acts by banditry. E NO RESCH FOR NORMAL HUMAN BEING TO GET Sense.

Think deeply. Ignorance is not an excuse

Freeyourminds:
Denounce these things and make Jesus your Lord and savior.

Hell is not a joke and there will be no excuses.

so people like una still dey exist?. This ignorance is old school Bro. It certain you are not well travelled yet. Therefore exposure is limited.

Africa traditional ways is the Old Testament’s ways to the letter (in disguise) to the Africa format God bestowed upon the black continent. Do not be deceived. Ancestral worship is the ways of God for the black race! Not the religion of another race being imposed forcefully on Africans. Religion that one side takes pride in killing (in the name of Islam), while the other takes pride in dieing (in the name of Christ).

Heaven and hell, you don see who reach there come back? Not even the wealthiest and most powerful prophets of old in scriptural times. But the presence of our ancestors are felt!

Sit down, rethink deeply.

There are more to be said, better stopping here!

Samantha125:
Trying to use fear to impose your colonial belief on me won't work... What you're doing is no different from what those your Boko Haram and Fulani brothers of yours are doing to you guys in Northern Nigeria.

I was once a full blown Christian and the more I got involved in the church, the more I started seeing things for what they really were... I saw hell on earth, if members didn't do enough evangelism throughout the month, they'd get whipped with a belt by our senior pastor, we'd each be allocated the amount of offering that we're expected to give as members depending on our family backgrounds, and almost everyone was fornicating in that church because apparently "the founding pastor didn't mind"... So I did give Christianity a chance, but I unfortunately ended up in deep depression and became suicidal, it took the work of a therapist to get me back into my senses... And this is one of the biggest churches in Africa.

being realistic about life. Very good!

Samantha125:
And he just had to call me a "Bros" and "sir"...😭😭😭

No, I'm not from Anambra... Many of those Africans claiming to be Christians are just traditionalists in disguise... They're Christians to the public, but traditionalists in private because they're ashamed of embracing their African spirituality publicity due to the fear of being marginalised from the society and it's quite sad when you think about it.

when it comes to a sensible thread you contribute sensibly with others but when it comes to SA thread you contribute Barbarically like an enemy in disguise

Your Chameleon’s nature doesn’t have part 2

Wonderful. Good for them. This serves a lesson to those who take their faith as supreme. Especially the ignorant gullible Christians. Make una leave them. They all have been there before our existence. God is not powerless to tak action for himself and by himself.

Mumu people

Worship is ancestral. What is ancestral about Christianity and Islam?

How has it changed Africa? Instead, destroying us by the day in disguise

Nonsense fellas!

Demonic01:
He's a Bullmastiff mix and that still makes him a Bullmastiff. ‼️

it doesn’t have any features/formation of a BM at all, therefore it not Bro. We should be learning instead. No arguments.

If you will prove that one of it parent is a BM, that very parent isn’t pure at all…

Abeg I dey find woman wey go come stay with me like this. Whoever is interested please signify. Easiest way to marry a wife in this economy. As long as she no get bad character. We go dey clear the list with pride price small, small….

Demonic01:
Onye mgbu! Wetin e come be? Ekuke bah ⁉️🤡

oga, I didn’t say that. certainly not a BM at all. It’s a crossed obviously

Bigsin:
I posted a picture of my dog that was looking for a boyfriend and the post made front page. However, Verywickedman's comment sent cold shivers down my dog's spine and now she's depressed. She's not an ekuke, everyone. She's a half cast.

Anyhoo, she's currently on heat and is still in need of a nuclear weapon that can give her babies. If you have a big male dog but don't want babies, don't be heartless by depriving a city girl some.

She'll take care of all the babies and won't ask for child support.

na humans dey ask for child support. Animals na cashing out.

By the way, your dog is old now, tendency of taking in a slim but possible still.