₦airaland Forum

Sirchiboy:
What causes most siblings to hate each other?

mothers are responsible for that. who causes siblings to hate each other.

GEJ should come back. The population of (late) Buhari’s voters if they were truly sorry for handing baton to the APC, then vote back GEJ as a solution to years of suffering. Then it will work

wirinet:
Wealthy ke? You know what wealthy mean? You no even talk rich family, you went all the way to wealthy family.
Now, let's get practical. List all expenses you feel a family man with one child should be spending monthly. Break it down item by item - rent, food, drinking water, transportation to work, utilities, service charges, phone and data fees, medical fees, etc.
Remember, their child also present a whole new level of expenses - from conception to birth. Antenatal alone is quite expensive nowadays. Normal delivery costs up to N200k, even in general hospital. If CS, you can pay between N500k to N1 million. Then there are baby items thar needs to be bought before the baby is delivered. We are not talking about diapers yet.

100k salary earners still dey born. In fact na dem born pas. Part of what I meant wealthy family is that, for example where you shop matters. If ShopRite go dey sell pamper, Aboki dey sell the same pampers, will their prices be the same? Or at most, or may be an Igbo man’s whole sale and retail shop.
Expenses as a family Abroad is even worse, but you see them living in one room, two rooms with their family.
Cut cost

You know what you spend on, just cut costs.

You are trying to cut cost, you still dey enter mall and departmental stores go shop

Good lessons are self thought

Slizzords:
Good afternoon everyone, I know that nairaland is filled with a lot of reasonable and experienced people, am a young man and I need guidance please.

So am married with a 8 month old baby, and make about 1M naira monthly for the past 3years now , it's not been easy from a financial aspect because we live in lagos and I discover that as I write this, I don't have up to 3M naira to my name, I don't know how money disappears, please note that am not a lavish spender, I don't party or go clubbing.

Please how do I save more money, because God forbid something happens now I don't have any money to fall back on. No landed property or anything. Please I need help thanks.

to be worth over 10m annually?

How about those who earn let’s say 100k monthly what should be the topic for discussion if yours is a problem already…? That people are dying somewhere as a result of 100k salary per month feeding their (small) family.? When we all know minimum wage is within 70k estimate.!

You were obviously brought from a wealthy background. Where Luxury seems normal life.

Baba, cut cost, example-: your 2 months earnings (max.) should be able to cover for a year’s rent.

You see…

Just imagine

Most parts of Africa is outrightly messed up beyond remedy

truthhurts2:
How expensive is the court fee is really my question...


Thanks though...

you will have to make moves yourself. It’s affordable though. But it takes long. I mean really long most especially if the 2nd party intentionally choose to frustrate efforts of the divorce process. But if you both consent, much easier and faster.

If you want an express divorce process, then protocols wont be observed. Protocols Beaten! This one will be very much expensive. For example: Barely 10 years back, a relative of mine (f) , she tried beat protocols and paid about 350k. Now, it maybe up to a million if not more…

A Lawyer will put you through all

Highest voters during elections are the youths. Trying to get them to his favor

Just go and hustle more. You will be sighted by most of them even from a distance. Na you go select taya. Leave this one. She’s not ready. She fit get spirit husband sef

torqque7:
🤣🤣Elder that is so delusional?wake up from your self deceit elder. It has been proven time and time again that being so called elderly doesn’t equate wisdom because a wise person knows and faces the reality before him, inorder to best know how to handle such reality. When a supposed elder sees a real snake and is DELUDED and believers it’s a toy non Venomous snake so he reaches out to pick it up,he will get bitten. I hope you are elderly enough to understand that.

Everyone except you knows Wike has insulted and disrespected ALL those who made him who he is including Jonathan and his wife and even revoked their properties in Abuja..How does an elder not know this?probably the delusional mind of such elder is to blame. And by the way, Patience is NOT Wikes Subject like you said, rather he is suppose to be HER subject politically but he went rogue. How does an elder who claims to be historically well informed not know who is who’s subject in this situation?

ok. Wike’s subject is Patience Jonathan. Translate this

Since the 1st one confuse you. Now this is the reverse of it

Elder, elder, elder has nothing to do with this. Wisdom , wisdom is outa place .

If e pain small pikin, na still insult! Simply say your point in a rational way. Abobby, no be only me and you dey here

Wike is not bigger than Nigeria.

Your small mind is just revolving around the small circle. I am talking in respect of Nigerians and Nigeria as a whole in hierarchy and categories. Get the difference.
Wike can not be bigger than Nigeria. We are all capable of ruining either’s carrier in politics.

I once heard this somewhere that Mexicans are Nigerians in white skin.

Meaning Mexicans are the Nigerian version of the white men

Mynd44:
Another drug addict.

Seek help please

good for you knowing that everyone are….

8by6incherr:
Oh wizkid and Burna are useless because they smoke.

yes very useless. Just can’t imagine!. When even 10 of their grand papa never reach them for net worth

Even Davido who was smoking loud before his in-laws at his traditional wedding with his aid passing it to him right at their presence.

Snoop has someone whom he specifically employed (a staff well paid) to mould it for him

The world is a wicked place. And hates truth

Mynd44:
I know the drug addicts will be the first ones to complain.

You fill your brain with hallucinogens daily and think you are "better and stronger" mentally and in judgement?

You are one bad trip away from the psych ward and any person who bets his/her future on you is in danger of a lifetime with someone who can develop a drug-induced neuropsychosis problem.

Heck your comment up there is probably due to hallucinations

stop fooling yourself trying to gain validation from audience. You’re too loud about ignorance. You know nothing more than rumors that last for a lifetime which never is the case. The world is a wicked place and you are part of them. It’s obvious. Pay close attention, observe closely, think deeply and you will come to realize that, what you do not indulge in has been passed on genetically from time immemorial even before all scriptures exists. Shockingly and unfortunately, many are your ancestors. Truth! Take it or leave it. So stop throwing stones at those who came before you and made you who you are! Don’t invite a curse. Never follow the clerics, they are simply trying to put food on their table by retaining followers

Yes, because zoning causes useless leaders to claim rights to leadership. Which is putting everyone in a mess

torqque7:
PUSH for mental health bro..you seriously need it since you think perfect victory for Goodluck under a Wike led PDP that has clearly said Tinibu is their candidate?you lots are so delusional..anyway carry on in your delusion.

Wike is under GEJ’s wife as a subject.

Na only small pikin dey get insult full mouth because na wetin dem dey learn first. That’s understandable…

torqque7:
PUSH for mental health bro..you seriously need it since you think perfect victory for Goodluck under a Wike led PDP that has clearly said Tinibu is their candidate?you lots are so delusional..anyway carry on in your delusion.

For mentioning a small fish as wike, You lack historical knowledge. Politically, GEJ’s wife is Wike’s subject.

Jonathan has to come repair his damages, from the political party to Nigeria as a whole. He broke it, he alone can straighten it.

Stop talking like a small boy before elders

Learn how to wash your hands properly at least! Before dining with the elderly

GEJ Silenced PDP. And he is the only one who can revive it back. Zero opposition not even Pbat will dare come close. I see Clean and perfect victory

Deceit in the highest order

If you should look at it on the religious norms and conducts of dos & don’t. Then you shouldn’t need advice on what should be termed common sense. Islam forbids it, Christianity frowns at it.

You already know and have your intents

Peter Obi is too arrogant. His arrogance will take him no where

GEJ is the only who can bring back PDP the way APC is now.

If GEJ should come back as president, APC will be instantly and completely buried for life. Pres. Tinubu’s efforts of re-election will be in vain. Amount to nothing

Nice2023:
AS A a WOMAN, HERE ARE 10 MEN YOU MUST NEVER MARRY:

1. A mummy’s boy.

2. A Yahoo boy.

3. A man who is more than 7 years older than you.

4. A man who has been divorced at least twice.

5. A man who demands 50/50 in finances but refuses 50/50 in chores.

6. A man who wants you to get pregnant before he marries you.

7. A man who supports APC, this present government.

8. A man who despises his mother, no matter how evil she is.

9. A man who has no voice of his own and constantly seeks validation from others.

10. A man who has no space of his own and still lives under his parents’ roof.

Above all, love God.

No. 8 sounds so ridiculous.

Both a right thinking man and a none- right thinking man will never do that.

But I must say this,

“ mothers dey wey children dey run from”. Fact!

The saying that goes “nothing is hidden under the sun” is true. “Life is a mystery” is true. Parental love in childhood is never same in adult in many homes.

treesun:
https://dailytrust.com/you-are-favouring-christians-over-muslims-muric-tells-fg/

Tinubu’s wife is like “the Esther” of our time…

SixSeven:
Some see it as the lesser evil because the alternative is worse. Fornication or adultery. The masturbator is only restricting the sin to himself or herself - a private sin. Now the problem where it becomes sinful is that to arouse oneself, the person will likely imagine someone else or watch portn or other ways. However, once the body starts to produce wet dream, biology is doing its work. That means nature is at work and if God created us, he designed us in a special way. I read a piece recently on why masturbation does not fulfil a man/woman compared to actual sex. I think it's something about the way the body orgasms when it is sex or self service. The way it orgasms in self service is what makes the body behave like that. This also includes intimacy gadget use for both men and women but the truth is that the body needs sex. The problem with too much masturbation is that it kills the desire to have sex normally because you have trained your brain how to respond, this means you cannot have intimacy with your partner, they are just another intimacy gadget. A man that is used to masturbation cannot be patient enough for his partner and a woman that uses a intimacy gadget cannot be patient enough for the reality of real skin. Man is not a machine, a woman is not a toy!

How the body satisfies its sexual desires is where religion, morality and culture come together but if you ask these people if their kids should marry early, they will all say no yet they want them to hold body and abstain. Now I see why old generations had sense.
They married early because they understood nature. We the woke generation na our ITK plenty. We keep deceiving ourselves while the old generation attuned themselves with reality of nature 📌

the angle you are coming from still no follow at all.

There is nothing as sin against self. Not part of the Ten Commandments. Hell fire or damnation has no categories. Why do humans masturbate ? will bring the true nature and picture of the truth.!Will God creat man to destroy his own self in what he doesn’t want?

Nah!

You are the type that will be advocating death sentences on rapist and pedophiles (against minor), smiling away fornication, dey throw your face go one side for adultery, block your ear drum from limitless abortions

Now tell me, all these I mentioned, you and I know it can destroy both spiritually and physically. Stop deceiving yourself and others that masturbation is wrong. No it isn’t! Oyinbo masturbate pass African. And who told you our parents got married early? How many dey see thru grandpapa. Idleness trigger sexual urge main, na those day peoples dey masturbate pass this generation.

Not everyone accepts bitter truth. Funny enough it has saved mankind generally from harm and danger. Without masturbation all these above I mentioned would have been at its peak….

The way animals torchlight on the streets is same way human would have as well, but good refused that, Tis why animals don’t masturbate but humans do

Too much of everything is bad, same goes with over feeding oneself? Called glutony

Deadlytruth:
But this name of yours, Afolue, sounds familiar. Are you from Enwan town?

got it

koladata:
9. When you meet a girl's father for the first time, the first thing he wants to know is what you do for a living. Dey play.


When you start your answer with "Actually" then her father loses interest

Actually we are on the verge of becoming independent self-employed entrepreneur 😂

Deadlytruth:
Another stereotype which some unexposed Yorubas, especially those from Ogun and Oyo States, have is the perception that if you are fair in complexion and are frequently dressed in shirts and trousers with shoes, then you must be an Omo Ibo.

😂😂😂🤣🤣😅

Abi o ri, Omo ibo le le yi
Meaning: You no see am, this is an Omo ibo

Deadlytruth:
An ignorant and uneducated Yoruba person is more likely to regard you as Omo Ibo than see you as a Yoruba. Those of them who argue that Edo people are Yorubas do so not out of genuine ignorance of the uniqueness of Edo but due to political expansionism quest. And such are very few. The average uneducated Yoruba person believes that if you are not Yoruba or Hausa, then you are automatically an Igbo person.

yea, that’s true. I have experienced this many times when growing up in the west. Other southerners are Omo ibo. No one can take that word away from any average Yoruba person’s mouth. Most especially when one’s intonation doesn’t match when speaking (their) Yoruba language with them. You will be immediately be referred as Omo ibo ni 🤣

From all indications, tinubu may certainly have his way again this time.

Goodluck in any party, to contest will remove tinubu instantly

No need any longer People speaking over xenophobic attacks. Na dem carry deir legs go there. Face the consequences of your risky mission and not put the whole nation into it. South Africa is still a home to many Africans, who barely get noticed in any way or the other and yet live a good life for decades there..

We don taya abeg

South Africa this, South Africa that, yet foreigners still troop in there constituting nuisance.

Make una no get sense. !

Common sense is wherever you are even in your home country live a low key life

When life they go well for dem, dem no dey shout out sey dem dey over flex

JudeAfoo:
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