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I spent a year in some communities in Baruten local government precisely KosuBosu and Yanrin and honestly, they are the most backward people I have come across in this country

dominique:
2 nil Atletico. Simeone's boys are one leg in the semis

Sebi I talk am say Barca without Raphinha na glorified Chelsea

Exactly, without Raphinha, Barca can never win any big game

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And also where I can get it at lowest price

Where's your office located?

You have done well my brother, will be expecting you on 28th, at the creators gathering

Ok

onumadu:
Sex in a very complex thing with many moving parts...

Yes, I agree with the OP almost on all the points he listed, but it is because I can afford to agree with him!
What do I mean by that?
I mean I am a good looking man (and I suspect that the OP is one too, because he won't post this if he were not), so, from my first encounters with women, I never had any need to pay them for anything.
In fact they hustled to sleep with me when I was in upper teen but I flatly rejected it.
But while in uni, I had a friend who STRUGGLED to even gain attention from women, and I know how TOUGH it was for him to even "do", back then.
In fact I had to come to his rescue a few times by talking to the girls a few times and one agreed to date him just because of me (those who know know that guys do this). A woman can agree to date a man just because he has a handsome friend (whom she may be eying secretly). Love is a dangerous game!

Without such interventions, how do you tell a guy like that not to pay for sex?
So, when we make all these topics, we should spare thoughts for others who are not as privileged as us.

As for abstaining from sex altogether, it is possible, BUT it all depends on a person's natural sex drive.
Sex drive is purely natural. You cannot really control it. You can try though, and may succeed; but may fail.
That is why we have A LOT of scandals involving sex (mostly from people who pretend they can control themselves, only to do otherwise in secret).

My consistent advice to men is this: MARRY AS FAST AS YOU CAN so that you can have access to sex if you really need to have sex.

There are men who have low sex drive naturally, and who can live without sex lifelong without any "fall of the wagon" times.
But, please when it comes to sex, ALL ARE NOT EQUAL AT ALL.
One person may successfully abstain from it, while another may develop some illness for abstaining.

I just gave a nuanced comment, hoping not to be misunderstood.

Your points are well noted

Pauldollars:
You don't pay for sex, but you send girls that are not your wife money.
Omo no difference between you and person wey pay for sex

Did you read the article at all?
I guess you have reading comprehension issue

I have never given any woman money because I wanted to have sex with her or because I successfully had sex with her.

This may be a very unpopular opinion, but it is true.

I AM NOT OBLIGATED to giving you my money merely because I am asking you out and desire intimacy between us.

The one time I attempted doing this in Owerri, I fell violently ill and had to beg the lady to just leave with the money and not expect any action.

I wish more people understood that sex isn't an essential necessity for humans.

Sex is a LIBIDINAL need.

Sex is NOT an ESSENTIAL/SURVIVAL need.

You can live your FULL life span on earth as a human without sex and you WILL BE FINE.

But money?

Money is an ESSENTIAL need!

Especially in today's modern world.

You CANNOT survive without money.

Food, shelter, clothing, security and medical care aren't possible without money.

This is why I DO NOT consider money and sex worthy to be placed on the same pedestal of exchange and transaction.

It isn't balanced to equate a libidinal need to an essential/survival need in terms of exchange and barter currency.

Except you are dealing with a commercial sex worker who uses their skills in sex to satisfy the public and earn a living.

A man should give a woman money because he genuinely loves, cares for her and wishes her well.

A man should not give a woman money simply because she gave him an orgasm.

Exceptions can be made of course in the case of a wife whom it is your duty to provide for.

A sensible man does not give his wife money because she gives him sex styles, but because he loves her and swore an oath to do so till death separates them both.

This is also the case for a woman who bears your child for you.

Naturally, this instance is non-negotiable as well because you owe that woman your world because she risked her life to give you a child.

When I see men maltreating or neglecting women who gave them children, I shake my head because these men do not know the misfortune they are attracting to themselves from the universe.

But sex in itself being the sole reason you give a woman money?

Na.

It's even demeaning and undignifying to suggest this to an emancipated and independent woman.

I mean sex for money.

Sex is too basic these days.

Way way too basic.

Plus modern science and technology have even created alternatives for limitless sexual gratification not limited to masturbation.

Someone may say that not having sex at a certain age may predispose a man to prostate disease.

Na.

However a man chooses to establish ejaculations from time to time and stay healthy is entirely up to him.

With the necessary supplements, lifestyle and diet, a man can stay off sex till he's 90 and no health condition will come to him.

Personally if I meet a woman I like and we bond, I grow empathy for her needs and her problems begin to affect me as well.

It will be hard for me to see her struggle with a financial problem and not want to support in my own small way.

This is NOT me supporting her because I am OBLIGATED to doing so simply because our genitals are doing meet and greet.

This is me supporting her because I care for her and am drawn to her soul beyond her vagina, buttock muscles and mammary tendons.

Happy Sunday, umu nnem.

#ivaneagle
#ivanthemachine

This is a lesson we must all learn if we want Nigeria to work

"Some were chanting " mesieya ike mesieya ike" in excitement. I decided to go close to the crowd to know what's was actually going on."

" I saw a very beautiful fair tall lady with mini-skirt putting on a singlet with her nîpple boldly opened. Immediately my eyes just grasped it and I couldnt behold it. "

" She was on the floor crying. I imagined what could make a beautiful lady like her to be wéeping. I was patiently waiting only to see a màdman trying to penetrate the lady in a public. "

"She was helpless as the crowd was cheering the màdman. Her white singlet has stained already as the man tried to squeeze her bréàst. I couldn't help but to walk away."

I know many things that can happen in Nigeria, but this is not one of them. This must be very exaggerated story

There's this narrative taking a new shape. Some Nigerians who believe that voting for Peter Obi means helping ndị Ìgbo.

"But I supported Peter Obi nah. You Igbo people don't even think of those who supported Obi."

Some of our people have allowed themselves to be blackmailed with this uselesss statement as if someone did them a favour by voting Obi. The kind narrative that will sink if not corrected.

In 1993, the Igbo massively voted MKO Abiola.

Let's go back to history, history of Nigeria being ushered into democracy in 1999.

In 1999, the Igbo unanimously voted for Obasanjo. Nobody said Obasanjo was Yoruba and expected the Yorubas to be excited Igbo voted their brother. They focused on who they believed could change the narrative and make a policy that will be pro- people. The best candidate to do the job. Since we believe we are Nigerians.

In 2003, Dim Chukwuemeka Odumegwu Ojukwu contested for Nigerian presidency. A whole Ojukwu was flopped by the Igbo. They left him and voted Obasanjo. What did that tell you? A typical Igbo man knows what he wants.

Buhari came and picked Ọkadigbo, he didn't get a single vote. Buhari picked another Igbo for VP— Umezuoke, the Igbo didn't send him. He's a bad market.

But Umaru Musa Yar'adua came, the Igbo voted him against everyone. He's from Katsina. Nobody tried to blackmail the North into believing they did them any favour for voting their own.

When Jonathan came, the Igbo voted him because they believed he would be the best to fix things. Nobody said the Ijaw should be excited that the Igbo voted them.

If you bring Rochas Okorocha, Hope Ụzọdịmma, Ọjị Ụzọ Kalụ for Igbo presidency, I assure you that the Igbo will never support them.

Many times, the Igbo have been accused of not knowing how to play politics. The reason is that the system of politics played in Nigeria is anti-Igbo philosophy. Nigeria play politics of religion and tribe. Igbo man is not interested in your tribe or religion, can you deliver? Can you rule? Are your economic policies pro-citizens? We hate politics of mediocrity or chop chop politics.

When Atiku contested in 2019 and Obi was his vice, the Igbo didn't vote Atiku because he's a saint, but because Buhari is a disaster. There's absolutely nothing Buhari could do to get favour of ndị Igbo. Atiku is far much better.

When we had the options of Tinubu, Atiku and Obi, going by the political travesty of the trio, a progressive thinking mind knows the best to go for.

Even as the Igbo dislike APC, if Osibanjo was in that ballot and not Tinubu, the Igbo would have gone for Osibanjo.

We want Nigeria to work. We want to eat. We want the economy to benefit all and sundry. Of course the Igbo voted Obi, not because he's Igbo but they believe he's different. If Rochas was to be on that ballot, even in his ward, he would have failed.

You who voted Obi from another tribe also believed it was the best thing to do. For your own interest and that of your children. You believed it's for the economic progress of the nation.

So, why do some of you always think it's a favour you did for the Igbo by voting Obi and they should be grateful to you? Like, do you expect me to tell you thank you for voting Obi? When some ediots are confronted by their destructive utterances, you hear: "but we voted Obi."

No wonder some said they would teach Obi lesson. Now they are crying that they are hungry and still very disturbed that the Igbo are not interested in the so called hunger protest. Some even said: "after we voted Obi, the Igbo don't want to join us to protest."

Let me say it again, you didn't do anyone a favour by voting for him. You didn't do any tribe a favour by voting anybody. We don't owe you because you voted anybody.

Good leader or bad leader, everyone go feel am. If you like, next election, vote a disaster you go feel am.

You did no Igbo man any favour for voting Obi. So, no Igbo man owes you anything.

Know this and have peace.

I paused!

Hope Uzodinma, the supreme Court governor is the worst calamity the federal government bestowed upon the Imolites. Our once peaceful Imo State is now a slaughter house for Imo indigines and visitors alike

dumahi:
Nigerians too stupid I swear. Someone tells you to vote for a competent person but all you think is that Southeast wants to rule. Do regions rule Nigeria? FYI: Southeast doesn't want to rule Nigeria. Southeasterners and other sensible Nigerians only want competent hands to rule Nigeria. Before Peter Obi, many Southeasterners contested to be Nigeria's President but weren't supported by Southeasterners. Nigeria is so horrible because many Nigerians are very stupid like this...

You have said it all

A woman takes an empty pot along to the #EndBadGovernance protest at Kudirat Abiola Way, Ikeja, Lagos

A woman takes an empty pot along to the #EndBadGovernance protest at Kudirat Abiola Way, Ikeja, Lagos.

There is serious hunger in every part of Nigeria and this protest can easily turn violent in the coming days if care is not taken

This protest is already a flop as far as the Igbos are not involved. The protest won't yield any tangible result

Tochj:
You want him to use Buhari template by
Using terrorists to grab power?

Nigeria is not ready for good leadership

obiekunie01:
WHO WAN STAY HUNGRY FOR 4 YEARS?

he will relocate back to APC, hail tinubu for performing wonderfully in leading the country courageously, then he will be welcomed back into the inner caucus and be given the job of creating campaign of calumny against obi and also given the huge amount in dollar to carry out the job.

he will go home smiling like bwalla.

meanwhile, ALL THE BAAAAAAAAATstard urchiiins that did all the dirty jobs during the elections are all left outside wth worthless 30k and hunger as their companion while the oppositions are being welcomed to the table to chop with the king!

what a life! truly life no balance!

You truly understood the game

Tochj:
Does Kenneth expect Obi to use Buhari and Tinubu tactics of grabbing power only to be confused on what to do with it.
While Buhari was busy opening doors in the North for all kinds of terrorists to destabilize the country.
Tinubu was busy using all kinds of propaganda,lies and wicked protest to destroy the country. While Tinubu used pastors and so called activists including likes of soyinka, Buhari was using wicked imams
Obi does not believe that Nigeria should be destroyed because he wants to be president.

Unfortunately, a lot of Nigerians are in the same ship with Kenneth Okonkwo, Peter Obi's inability to defend the mandate the majority of Nigerians gave to him is quite worrisome

Front0lane:
Another Igbo with fake monicker.
Isn't this the way Atiku provided Peter Pandora Obi a platform with which he later betrayed Atiku or it is only when other chose not to lick Obi ass that it is betrayal to you deluded souls

Honestly, it is funny how you deluded souls think that only Igbos speak well about Peter Obi

helinues:
Have Kenneth ever being stable politically before? What's Kenneth weight or relevancy in his polling units to have made him the spokesman for LP during the election.

I watched several interviews of Kenneth before the election, he was just busy quoting bible about politics matter. How can a party assemble such inexperienced person to represent the party.



Ndi Kanto is the only LP representative that I can say she really tried even upon her in experiencing.

If you fail to prepare , you already prepared to fail

Ok, I get your point now

helinues:
Make una dey take responsibility for una actions without pointing fingers

What's the political relevancy if Kenneth in his polling unit?

Is your response for this post? I don't understand the relation

On Kenneth Okonkwo…

I’m not surprised…

I knew that many people who took advantage of the obidient movement will slowly find fault in the man whose wave blew them into relevance.

More Kenneth Okonkwos will arise…
Expect more of such in the coming days.

They will accuse him of not been able to manage party affairs…

They will accuse him of promising them victory in court but couldn’t…

They will accuse him of many things - that’s how life is: the moment you finish using a C0*nd0m, you discard it. Nobody remembers the good side of the c0nd0.*n which once gave them safer pleasure .

So Kenneth Okonkwo’s expression of lack of confidence in Peter Obi is not a suprise. Kenneth’s hope of becoming a Presidential Special Adviser on Nollywood affairs has collapsed. So he’ll fight dirty. But it’s a lost fight because Peter Obi has demonstrated that his presidential ambition is not worth the bl00d of anyone.

If PO calls for a protest today, millions of Nigerians will stand with him. So he needs to be careful of protests. He should continue his current method of criticism - constructive criticism and inspiring us all.

Since Kenneth considers himself so important. Let him call for whatever pr0test in Nigeria. If more than 100 people come forward, I’ll apologise to him.

Kenneth must understand the difference between being popular and being INFLUENTIAL. Peter Obi is INFLUENTIAL. Kenneth was just a popular actor. Peter Obi knows that one word from him will cause a shift in the country so he’s exercising control over the urge to control. That’s not weakness- that’s the strongest strength. If Kenneth Okonkwo had half of PO’s influence, he would have said things out of unguarded emotions, spark protests and take the country back to the horrible past we are coming out from. But Kenneth is not PO. Allow Peter Obi to do what is right for Nigeria. Do not bvlly him into your political extremism. He’s not an extremist. He’s moderate and sound in mind and thoughts.

I’ve been a victim of the likes of Keneth Okonkwo - you give them a platform and raise their value but when they no longer need you, they carnivorously eat the finger that fed them and l!ck their bl0*0d.

Remember, this is the nature of humans, so always lower your expectations from those who praise you when they have a lot to gain from you, they can easily become your greatest enemies when those expectations are not met.

I really wish Nigerian politicians can learn to withdraw, still trying to understand why a sick old man will bribe his way into Nigerian presidency seat, just to make life difficult for Nigerians

Hemanwel:
For those of you abusing the lady: you don't seem to understand the uncontrollable over-excitement you get in escaping from the grips of Tinubunomics

Don't mind them, na the fools wey still dey praise the failure at Aso rock, dey vex me pass

Igbos and Bunkery na 5&6😀
See their flat heads

Mercenary123:
It has started

Tinubu and yorubas,una do this one

Finally yorubas destroyed what is left of Nigeria. It is on record

Mind you, not all Yorubas voted for Tinubu, and Tinubu did not win the election, he only became president by rigging

He will rig himself in as usual, I'm yet to see anyone that can stop him