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lovelybugs:
That is not how a man should be that's just a description of u and ur fathers behaviours expecting other people to be like is just wrong.its a good thing to share ur opinion but be careful there are a lot of young guys here who would read ur post and think that how the ideal behaviour of a wife not knowing that it might not work in this generation.

Noted! This our generation na wa o! Life was sweeter back then

In your senseless opinion, thief and criminal Obanikoro that can never become a governor

lovelybugs:
Guy go and fight for power with ur future wife and stop giving other people bad advices which will end up break ing their homes. Ur mother chose to be a submissive wife that's her character. I doubt the op married such a woman so forcing her to be like that will only destroy their marriage and their son. if u want to marry look for such a woman like ur mom they are still plenty and stop trying to force ur views oN other people. Sikena

No one is forcing any views on anybody Mr man, just giving a perfect description of what a man should be

generaliy:
It is so painful to realise that a backsliding man who has fallen from the faith and some entirely non-believing wretched sinners are now creating "standards" for the church to discuss or debate, it is a pain too much to bear for anyone who understands what the church should be doing presently in the programme of God.

It is more painful to see supposed Christians carried away by "Every wind of doctrine", making a shipwreck of their faith after reading a few well crafted doctrinal errors laced with generous overdose of heresies.

The problem of the church is fundamental, it is not spontaneous as it seems, it is a gradual, systematic, stealth but not invisible departure from the basics, a gradual lowering of standards, a shift from the pattern as laid by the early Apostles...depth in the word seems not to matter anymore, and we created trouble, without knowing it, or maybe we knew, but we just felt it's not much of a trouble and played indifference.

This is like the proverbial iroko tree hitherto left to thrive by the landowner's indifference, which later grows into a sacrifice-demanding demi god, we are all paying the price for our consistent inconsistencies, our unattended "minors", we all nurtured this demonic iroko to its present height, only to discover it's a harbinger of terror, horror and pain!

The church has departed from systematic study of the scriptures, searching the scriptures now seems tedious and unattractive, in its stead, we have created events, several of them, it is not uncommon to see banners after banners, from Oshodi to Ojota, from Allen to Ajah, promoting shows after shows, music shows, comedy shows, business sessions, and what have you, seeing a church banner of events dedicated solely to bible studies is now harder than having a camel pass through the needle eye!

Brother "A" is new in church, in our bid to prevent the next church adjacent our's from snatching him, we give him positions meant for the bone-chewers while he's yet to master the art of digesting milk properly, we award Phd honours to elementary level Christians, shame!

We have consequences, Pastors who are barely born again, Christians without root, easily swayed, not unflinching in convictions, they rely on the next CDs from "Papa", and bingo, add from knowledge gained from some motivational classes, the Bible is just an addition to support their speeches of errors and intrinsic balderdash, the church yells at their mastery of choice words, somebody shouts hallelujah, they're urged to ride on and preach more, yet rhema is alien to the man on the pulpit, basic scriptural convictions are replaced with "philosophies of men so called"!

The only solution to these fundamentals is the Holy Spirit, unfortunately, He has been largely impersonated and extensively misrepresented, the blubbering in senseless conjuction of "Skabash" and "Yadoosa" has been sold to millions as the Spirit of Yahweh, no, that's no Yahweh spirit, it's purely "Yahoo", fraudulent tongues in the name of Jesus!

If you're lucky to find yourself in a Bible believing church (There can be differences in administration, doctrines are NOT meant to differ, the Bible is ONE and should remain so), dig and keep digging for more rhema, if you're not convinced in your spirit (Your pastors do not rebuke you for your sins, instead, you're rewarded and applauded because you can easily drop seeds ans commitments) then find your way out quickly, very quickly!

If and only if you could get to the extent of being deeply rooted, a million Daddy freeze will no longer be your challenge, rather, you'll be challenged to pray for him to see the light, you'll not curse his soul, you'll take it to his maker in prayers!

Ilesanmi Iyanu Samuel writes from Lagos, Nigeria.

It's better you die in that your self inflicted pain o, you are highly irrelevant to mankind and christiandom. Just because someone doesn't take bank loan to start a church business doesn't mean he's not a Christian or cannot dish out worthy opinion, who told you Freeze has backslided? Self righteous ugly MOFO!!!

I fit swear say you no make First Class

Preeck:
Dear Nairalanders, i have a been a registered user on this platform going back as far as 2008. I decided to use this moniker to create this thread because of the sensitivity of this personal issue.
I am a realist as well as a spiritual person, a born Christian to be precise.
I don't want to bore you with so much details, all I have to ask is: what do you do when you are told that your mum is a witch. I have tried to do away with this information or revelation for some years now because I thought it's just some callous scammers trying to get something out of you, but today somewhere in a faraway place I have never been to or known, I was told the same thing about my mum. What do I do. Of course she's my mum and I will ever be grateful she brought me to this world but what do I do to be free from her spiritual grasp over me.
I know this is an open forum but I will really want kids to stay away from commenting on this post.

Didn't want to comment when I saw your monicker but even preecks deserve love also, your mom is not a witch, take that to the bank

Enjoyment

Plumber

utenwuson:
the level of your stupidity is totally unacceptable....... it will lead you to suicide Kaaba boy

Whatever makes you sleep, wicked Igala people

ChiefPiiko:
That's how I offered 1 skank on Nairaland 50k to smash her, the fool declined, my friend ended up smashing her for free the next day

50k to smash a NL hoe? WTF man? Don't do that next time, LMAO