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Aside Ajo,a good portion of married Nigerian men are the reason HIV is spreading wild in the country. aside the shamelessness of these men, they've added stupidity to the mix.
Most nigerian married men are hiv patients/carriers, with omission to the numerous un-named diseases running through their blood.
The thing of concern is not the virus itself ( it's 2026 we don't stigmatize, one can handle it ), but the carelessness that comes from men you'll tend to believe will be extra careful with regards to maturity that comes from age. But no!
Days ago I came across a controversial interview rounding TikTok with Ms jorji, a commercial worker, her experiences corresponded with exact complaints on the street. This group of animals sometimes knowing well they're carriers will always desire unprotected mekwe. Forgetting sexual workers take their safety into consideration first before anything.

Leaving there innocent and virtuous wives that are bound to be the unfortunate recipients.

Imalwayshorny:
Lol 😂 there was no infection that time

there ! Name and concepts are independent. The fact the word trauma wasn't used didn't deny it existence; let me burst ur brain. If there was no infection then you deny the existence of sex, harlotry and other sexual meetings that were been practiced.

"Vanity upon vanity" first person that comes to mind is King Solomon, famous for been wise with a lot of wives , intercontinental concubines and immense wealth. Same egbon that wrote proverbs, preacher of vanity that came from one that had the fullest experience. I just want to say maybe he died of infection ( maybe sweety or STI's) . Absence of names for a thing doesn't deny the presence of a concept or experience. Also another thing to note is the use of language in relation to context ( time, and place) matters.... So let me rephrase king Solomon might have died from "infirmity" ( biblical term). Or infection . Na plenty enjoyment dey bring infection; if you read proverbs, and other scrolls written by him you will realize it's a compressed summary of his escapades turned advice.

"Vanity upon vanity" first person that comes to mind is King Solomon, famous for been wise with a lot of wives , intercontinental concubines and immense wealth. Same egbon that wrote proverbs, preacher of vanity that came from one that had the fullest experience. I just want to say maybe he died of infection ( maybe sweety or STI's) . Absence of names for a thing doesn't deny the presence of a concept or experience. Also another thing to note is the use of language in relation to context ( time, and place) matters.... So let me rephrase king Solomon might have died from "infirmity" ( biblical term). Or infection . Na plenty enjoyment dey bring infection; if you read proverbs, and other scrolls written by him you will realize it's a compressed summary of his escapades turned advice.

Starz825:
Exactly

Foolishness is part of life

You can't always be wise

Shit happens that makes one feel Foolish

I guess

Cum4me:
from your state of mind you must be a spoilt brat of this gen Zs. But it normal until you get to 35 you will understand the true reality of life beyond your very understanding.

as expected, your kind will come crying..... You are definitely one that Wants to eat ur cake and have it,

The most delusional set of men are the ones in their late 30s and above, patching their marriage and looking for a young girl to love them genuinely.... As what?
So I should leave frolicking with my peers, and enjoying my youths to give my time and w energy with no returns whatsoever.
Very selfish and funny calibre.

They have no reply because they're cowards,

The replies tells you the low graded men we have roaming this country....they only think of sex, and nothing else

SirCloudControl:
I have always maintained that this proves humans are not rightly logical beings for common sense or common good. They want your perception of life to be the same as their eventho it is flawed.

The biased is awful. They want to convert you into who they are: their level of thinking, their level of comprehension, in fact they want to convert you into their system of belief.

The human nature is that of conversion. They don't want you to have your own ideas no matter how unique.
If they notice you are too intelligent, they start to despise you. If they can't convert you, they start to hate you.

That is where the word "normal" comes in, everyone should behave in a tailored manner....but what then is the fun in life if there's no variety? No defiance? Nothing exciting and extraordinary. Under the guise of this uniformity( civility, morals, religion )we force ourselves into lies our true savage selves , that shouldn't be repressed, because the danger becomes greater.... explains why in any strict space or country or family, the devil gets reborn.

sultaan:
Well post your ideas to Reddit and link to it here if your post is actually good

Our perception of what is proper is very skew.

My post has been deleted before and I knew I was angry when I was writing and the words were offensive.

Could have used better words for economic and political sabotage .

Choose your words wisely, if you have nothing good to say keep it to yourself until your mind boils down

This is not just about me, yeah am active on Reddit and I have where I scribble. I am not referring to post written under the influence of emotions; am talking about the concept itself; the idea, no matter how mild you put it, no matter how you follow the platform rules about not been negative and all, it gets rejected. Platforms like this (Nigerian) to be precised, is an archive in process, that one someday will look into and see into the raw thoughts and mind of the average Nigerian no matter how vulgar it maybe, they're doing a disfavour by deleting records. Thoughts and ideas are fleeting, if u don't agree with it is not a general business.

I don't know what is the requirement for been a nairaland moderator but I do know we have more bias ones amongst them. Folks who delete threads because it rivals their perception of life and beliefs. Forgetting that could be a reference someone someday will use to construct their ideas. Well well alot of minute details why they contribute to the stagnation of the platform. Go to reddit and you'll often find that thing you're experiencing that seems peculiar, someone has experienced it, and how do you know that? Because the individual has posted it. Whether you tick all the rules here in nairaland, every section has it pharaoh that won't let it to the public eye because it doesn't align with them.

BigYash:
Why is the man looking for so much attention,even with the kind of money he has?

He has been behaving for days now,like he just discovered social media.. his well fed kids aren't left out...

he obviously is rich, but not wealthy....his mannerisms aligns with the former.

Kobojunkie:
1. Are you insinuating that any man who avoids having sex with a woman who desires him must be gay?

2. How or where did you get the femboy reference connected to the person of Jacob? Again, is every boy raised in a house full of boys gay simply because?

I am treating the story as non-linear; take what I said as looking at its from another angle. Because one perception was taught doesn't make it right, neither does my assumption also.

First I'll like you to know sparking an argument is not my goal.
The Bible and it's parable is original as it is; what we learn as it's lessons are the summarized perceptions; and we all view things differently although it's the same thing; isn't that the core of Bible study fellowship? I grew in the seminary and am used to passages been critically and annoyingly approached with truth and skeptical takes. That is why when you read the scriptures independently from learned school of thought we got from Sunday school ( which is also someone's view) you see different possibilities in one story.

A man who avoid sex isn't necessarily gay ; but like I said taking another outlook, based on the practices of the time. Men where men, shepherds in the field, like young boys of today adventurous, stubborn and all. ( Knowing how it is with a house full of mainly male children) Then we have the lad that rats out his brothers almost often; what will be the closest assumption to his behavior in today's world? " Him dey behave like woman" will have been the modern statement.
Or coupled with the coat of colors he was gifted, ( a taste for fashion) a hint the lad had a sharp feminine virtue; so he must have been a nerd, a femboy and probably a gay.

Smartguyboy:
Image if men start doing the same to poor girls who have nothing to offer only s**?

you and I know, it's a different thing entirely when it comes to women..... Given their roles and responsibilities in the society. You can make it a gender divide if you want.

Shakeup:
Op nothing is soft about you!
Everything danmmm thing is just hard.
It will be hard for you to escape that poverty grip

oops you can't trauma dump ur frustration here, run back to fix ur wrecked Life

AyobamiIsaac12:
demons are messing with your mind. See thoughts 😂😂

me and the devil walking side by side 😌

mii4u:
Hi
Na wa for u, must u say everything that creeps into ur mind?

I do so, either write it down or say it out so it doesn't get back to the abstract.

I know the story of Joseph is often used to paint the picture of chastity and all, but come to think of it; what if he wasn't really avoiding Potiphar's wife because he was been loyal but rather he wasn't into women. Dude came back from prison where he was "loved" by the others; and it sure wasn't a mixed prison. Put together with ancient Egypt been a civilized zone in all areas from spirituality to sexuality. Maybe that's why he was telling on his brother's; been the femboy of the house among 12 sons and not manly enough to be adventurous and keep shut. That might be what made him different; probably he was a femboy. Hence they hated his cowardice and weakling self and did what they did to him.

⚠️Quite a long read!
Days back while scrolling on tiktok I came across this self acclaimed wizard( you know how we genz's post anything😌) talking about his activities, and as expected the comments was full of ppl rejecting, rebuking and binding; I reached out and requested that he should spare time so we can have frequent conversations on his experiences so I can document them, after hesitation he obliged to my request and I got a lot of dm's showing interest to read the piece whenever it is ready....
Been deep into the occult and spirituality in general I find it quite depressing after surfing through western occult, Asians, Jewish kabala, that of the arabs too and coming back to find nothing substantial of African spirituality.
We tend to believe we are in the information age, but the world has always operated on information, the ones that can get the most and keep it the longest can create false truth and always have the upper hand in almost everything; one notable success is the western media alienating SCIENCE from SPIRITUALITY; branding the former as something new and totally different.
Let's take African divination and narrow it down to IFA for example; the use of okpele ( to the yorubas I don't know if I spelt it right 😐) in this little system as it seems one finds the use of randomization, probability, binary systems, forecasts, categorization of large information. This concept which are presently found in mathematics, library science, weather forecast, wall street and virtually everywhere.
Or let's take nok art, benin sculptures, and the rest from the east that hints us of active minds our ancestors possessed in bid to survive.
The fact that certain things were not named doesn't deny their existence. For instance let say the word " mathematics" wasn't a thing; it didn't deny that our people still counted, added and divided. That the word "trauma" wasn't used didn't deny the experiences.
This is where language comes in play, it indirectly determines the limit of civilization in a place. And just like other cultures ( the Jewish and Africans- west Africa) that documented orally we lost more records over cultures that wrote.
As of today on a leveled ground, we are still backwards because we disregard the value of information, culturally, even at the state level ( politically); landmarks are treated casually, unique experiences are treated casually. Okay even things as basic as monument or sites that holds colonial history are lying in waste. Let's not get started on history as a subject that was removed in secondary school curriculum.
Whichever way ppl, it seems we will be left behind for a very long time, maybe we are in our dark age; but the day the light will come on we would have forgotten our identity and digested a prescribed one.

Am amazed this is posted on the politics section and not entertainment

Makavelli001:
Hmmm..... carry on

can I know my offense?

Am here pls ; is the chatroom still active?

Tenrack:
na the petite, pretty and curvy be that. Lmfao 😂😂😂😂

coming from a faceless man hiding behind keypads, well say anything you want that will make you forget ur miserable life and sleep well at night

stan4b:
This one don frah.
Poor men should not breath again abi, cause its a crime to be poor.

as for breathing, they deserve the right to live in their misery

DeloitteNG:
Fix your face first

nothing is wrong with it, and for context that's a random selfie from 4yrs ago; show me ur miserable physique if e sure for you.

DeloitteNG:
Look at your head and environment
The door in the background doesn't even look good
First try and elevate yourself before you come online and call people poor

you fit the criteria and untop of that you are less of a man that's y you quickly discarded my reply to you before the public could see.... Well you have a lot of challenges lying ahead, go fix urself