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Programming / Mentor Needed by africanman85: 11:35am On May 02
Pls I need who will mentor me on frontend development
Business / Re: 5 Nigerians On Worlds Richest Black People List!(pics) by africanman85: 1:19pm On Apr 04
My name is not there why ?
Business / Re: Can You Pay D Sacrifice To Wake Up 12:00 AM Every Mid-night To Work For 30 Days? by africanman85: 1:56am On Mar 19
$100 weekly
Romance / Re: Remembering late Boma Erekosima, “countryman" by africanman85: 6:45am On Feb 29
Macphenson:
Boma Erokosima. Our old boy at Government College Umuahia. I think he was the first african Principal of the school.
Chai, my school. Fishers house
Programming / Re: Which IT Skill Can An Over 30 Learn Not Involving Programming by africanman85: 9:45pm On Jan 25
Vodkka:


Learn Excel very well

Learn SQL using MySql workbench

Learn Power BI


These 3 is necessary. Forget Python for now. You can delve into python as time goes on
Can u guide me ?
Programming / Re: My UI/UX Design Collection by africanman85: 9:42pm On Jan 25
Maclink288:

The laptop I use currently is HP 8gb Ram, Core i5 and 1Tb HDD. Maybe you could get something similar or higher.
Bro, can u teach someone who is interested to learn ?
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Lemme Quickly Share A My Story To Most Fresh Accounting Graduates Herel by africanman85: 10:28pm On Jan 23
Rubyjade:
Yes, I can.
I will be very happy. You can reach me on 08032655418 and africanman85op@gmail.com
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Lemme Quickly Share A My Story To Most Fresh Accounting Graduates Herel by africanman85: 3:53pm On Jan 23
[quote author=Rubyjade post=127892330][/quote]I read Accounting. Can u help me with any remote job ? I reside in Abia state

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Remote Jobs 1.0 by africanman85: 3:47pm On Jan 23
I didn't know we have remote jobs in Nigeria o

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Programming / Re: Data Analyst Accountability Partner Needed by africanman85: 2:43pm On Dec 21, 2023
Underdawgg:
Any beginner in the Data Analytics field interested in having an accountability partner?

Six months of learning and building projects for portfolio.

IF you are in, Quote this post so, i can create a group. Thanks.

Note: I am also a beginner, just interested in learning and sharing knowledge with like minded people.
Interested, a beginner too
Car Talk / Re: Car Talk Chat Room by africanman85: 7:24pm On Dec 05, 2023
jceesquare:

You can't have those issues and not have a registered fault code.
Kindly take your car to a good shop for proper diagnosis.
Good evening house, I changed my nissan Almera clutch plate but I noticed anytime I put it on gear, the car vibrates b4 it moves. It was not doing like that b4 I change d clutch plate. What could be d problem ?
Car Talk / Re: Tell Us Your Car Fault Lets Assess And Fix Them by africanman85: 7:23pm On Dec 05, 2023
Good evening house, I changed my nissan Almera clutch plate but I noticed anytime I put it on gear, the car vibrates b4 it moves. It was not doing like that b4 I change d clutch plate. What could be d problem ?
Programming / Re: Chronicle Of A Data Scientist/analyst by africanman85: 5:16pm On Nov 29, 2023
alaboski:

Sent one
Thank u so much. I really appreciate
Programming / Re: Chronicle Of A Data Scientist/analyst by africanman85: 3:09pm On Nov 28, 2023
Abeg make Una help me. I need a good data analyst CV sample. My email is africanman85op@gmail.com
Family / Re: I Want To Marry This Year But No Woman In My Life Yet.. by africanman85: 5:23pm On Nov 27, 2023
onumadu:


Firstly, how long have you been looking?
Not that time matters too much, but it would help give a perspective about your mindset about the project.
If you are thinking in weeks or months, you are wrong. Think in years...
It doesn't mean it MUST take years to get a good wife; it just means that you will not be rushed into a wrong marriage.

As for how to approach the prayer part, first, stop being a "playboy". START PRACTICING GOLDEN RULE (do unto others as you would have others do to you) -> Pretend that you are woman and look back at the potential husband - YOU.
Date every next girl/woman as seriously as if she were already your wife.
Treat her as you would your wife.
Luckily for me, it was easy because I was already living that type of lifestyle before I actually started to "look for a wife".
Every woman I dated would have happily married me if I asked them, because I put in my best golden rule behavior:
Treated each as wife: IN .EVERY. WAY, except take them to the altar.
Once you do this, you suddenly stop meeting oloshos, slay queens, all the wrong women, because God (or nature or universe) will simply separate you and them. Only the wife materials will remain in your circle.
Reason? YOU CHOSE THEM INSTINCTIVELY BECAUSE THEY WERE WIFELY TO BEGIN WITH. And you deserve to have them in your circle because you practice the golden rule.
At that point, PRAYER starts to become effective.
Like I said, I avoided all virgins because I really needed a sexually experienced wife, but still ended up marrying a virgin because she hid it from me.
If I had insisted on sleeping with her before marriage, I probably would have discovered her virginity, and run away.
She was an exception though, because I believe in sex (ie consensual sex) before marriage.
I believe that, where possible, couples should "test" before marriage, because sex is the king of marriage dysfunction.
Better avoid incompatible person than end up in sexual hell inside marriage where everything goes wrong due to sexual incompatibility.
I just left her alone because she was reserved in every other way. So why force her?
If I were a woman, would I want a man to force me to have sex just because he may want to marry me? Nope.
That is how I viewed these things.
But because I left her alone and followed her cues (as long as I didn't see her misbehaving), it ended in marriage.

Sorry for the long post, but there are really no shorter answers.
Good luck. cool
Wow nice lecture. Pls can u talk more on this "ONCE YOU KNOW HOW TO HANDLE A WOMAN (which is where my experience dating them became invaluable)" When u say been man enough, what do u mean in Ur own perspective ? If I meet a girl who seem not to be interested like after meeting we exchange numbers and I call her one or two times we talk and she didn't reciprocate and call me or chat me, I always dump the girl and look for another believing that she is not interested. Is this right ? I did this alot wen I was a playboy and I don't know if is right when searching for a life partner. I noticed is d ones I don't fancy much that keep disturbing. I equally notice that d one I want is d one everybody go want and be going after. Like wat happen last week, I met a girl in a pharmacy and d girl looks cool and down to earth we chatted and I collected her number and one nigga like that was seating o and didn't talk to her but ones d girl gave me her number and left I didn't know this guy followed her and blocked her on the way and was toasting her. It was when I purchased drugs and came out that I saw them and walked pass them. Of all d beautiful gals in d pharmacy o.
Family / Re: I Want To Marry This Year But No Woman In My Life Yet.. by africanman85: 10:10am On Nov 27, 2023
onumadu:


Firstly, how long have you been looking?
Not that time matters too much, but it would help give a perspective about your mindset about the project.
If you are thinking in weeks or months, you are wrong. Think in years...
It doesn't mean it MUST take years to get a good wife; it just means that you will not be rushed into a wrong marriage.

As for how to approach the prayer part, first, stop being a "playboy". START PRACTICING GOLDEN RULE (do unto others as you would have others do to you) -> Pretend that you are woman and look back at the potential husband - YOU.
Date every next girl/woman as seriously as if she were already your wife.
Treat her as you would your wife.
Luckily for me, it was easy because I was already living that type of lifestyle before I actually started to "look for a wife".
Every woman I dated would have happily married me if I asked them, because I put in my best golden rule behavior:
Treated each as wife: IN .EVERY. WAY, except take them to the altar.
Once you do this, you suddenly stop meeting oloshos, slay queens, all the wrong women, because God (or nature or universe) will simply separate you and them. Only the wife materials will remain in your circle.
Reason? YOU CHOSE THEM INSTINCTIVELY BECAUSE THEY WERE WIFELY TO BEGIN WITH. And you deserve to have them in your circle because you practice the golden rule.
At that point, PRAYER starts to become effective.
Like I said, I avoided all virgins because I really needed a sexually experienced wife, but still ended up marrying a virgin because she hid it from me.
If I had insisted on sleeping with her before marriage, I probably would have discovered her virginity, and run away.
She was an exception though, because I believe in sex (ie consensual sex) before marriage.
I believe that, where possible, couples should "test" before marriage, because sex is the king of marriage dysfunction.
Better avoid incompatible person than end up in sexual hell inside marriage where everything goes wrong due to sexual incompatibility.
I just left her alone because she was reserved in every other way. So why force her?
If I were a woman, would I want a man to force me to have sex just because he may want to marry me? Nope.
That is how I viewed these things.
But because I left her alone and followed her cues (as long as I didn't see her misbehaving), it ended in marriage.

Sorry for the long post, but there are really no shorter answers.
Good luck. cool
Thank u for the writeup.
I started searching this year January.
The problem is that am not d outgoing type because I do programming jobs and always indoors. The ones I dated while in school, I don't see the qualities of a wife in them now that I know how things works because am now matured.
If I ask my mom or aunt to look for a wife for me, those girls will be wondering this kind person they are looking for a wife for are u sure something is not wrong with him.
When I was doing playboy stuff I was getting girls any how but now, if I see a girl that I feel will possess the qualities I need is either she is taken or not ready. I come dey reason if all this formal gals don carry my name go somewhere as I no dey to go church grin
Family / Re: I Want To Marry This Year But No Woman In My Life Yet.. by africanman85: 12:14am On Nov 27, 2023
onumadu:


He can marry without praying first, of course. Duh!
Heck he can do whatever he wants! lol undecided

You atheists lack at least 50% of "common sense" in the sense that you only think that the world is purely physical.
Even some of the best scientists in top research facilities in the world also believe in the supernatural.

As for the second bolded, you jumped the gun without reading my second comment about what a pastor told me when I was looking.

I need to say this because I have benefited from the information in the advice I'm giving here.

Some people out there are busy looking (breaking their heads physically) for a virtuous wife.
Some are even desperately looking for VIRGINS and all that. lol
Some of us got ALL THAT AND MORE with minimal physical work, but "decent" spiritual work.

The funny thing is that a virgin got thrown into my lap after I had avoided virgins all my young life!
I only married her because she hid the fact that she was a virgin until after our marriage rites. I told her that if she had told me that she was a virgin, I would have run away and not marry her because I needed "an experienced woman" for wife.
Well, God thought otherwise!
That is the essence of praying before marrying. Today, I understand better, hence my advice here.

This response is to all the YOUNG MEN out here trying to find and settle with a GOOD WIFE.

A GOOD WIFE is not perfect, because she is still a human being.

A GOOD WIFE is one that will walk the journey of life with a man without reducing him either physically or spiritually.


She will bring IMPROVEMENT rather than DEMOTION to her husband.
Please tell me the ways to pray to get a good wife. I didn't know finding a good wife is this hard until I started searching. During those days I was play boy, I was getting tons of girls but now I want to marry, I can't find a woman and have started wondering if this is spiritual.
Programming / Re: Degree Vs Experience: Which Do Employers Prefer? by africanman85: 7:27pm On Oct 24, 2023
abibun:
Work boku for you under NGO, not just learn data analysis, learn not to be lazy with it o
Can we connect bro ?
Programming / Re: Degree Vs Experience: Which Do Employers Prefer? by africanman85: 7:01pm On Oct 24, 2023
How can we get this experience ? I want to go into Data analysis. I hope is a good part with many jobs ?
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Recruitment /Replacement and Vacancies For Nigerian Mdas And Parastatals by africanman85: 6:17pm On Oct 21, 2023
How people hid this thread surprise me. 9ja sef
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Recruitment /Replacement and Vacancies For Nigerian Mdas And Parastatals by africanman85: 6:13pm On Oct 21, 2023
SacredRuler3:
Nipost slot available.
Message if interested
Interested bro
Art, Graphics & Video / Faceless Youtube Video Creator by africanman85: 3:05pm On Oct 16, 2023
I need a good faceless YouTube video creator who can come up with ideas and create engaging contents. I am yet to create the channel because I need a good idea that will sell. My pay will not be attractive but I will increase the pay as we go by. WhatsApp me on 08032655418
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: The Dilemma Of An Accountant by africanman85: 2:27pm On Oct 16, 2023
EleventhWeirdo:


And you are chartered?
Not Chartered
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: The Dilemma Of An Accountant by africanman85: 2:26pm On Oct 16, 2023
[quote author=Foodhub2023 post=126432248][/quote]Abia State
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: The Dilemma Of An Accountant by africanman85: 2:25pm On Oct 16, 2023
Suspect33:
what are your qualifications?
B.sc Accounting
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: The Dilemma Of An Accountant by africanman85: 3:55am On Oct 16, 2023
Hold tight o. I have Accounting qualification but no job

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Art, Graphics & Video / Re: My 2d Animation Portfolio So Far by africanman85: 8:18pm On Oct 13, 2023
How much do u create animation video ?
Career / Re: How Much Are You Making As An Internet Content Creator? by africanman85: 3:31pm On Oct 13, 2023
Emeka71:
I'm a content creator but I'm not earning anything out of content creation.
Why ?
Career / Re: Can I Use Internationally Obtained Certificate To Work In Nigeria Civil Service? by africanman85: 9:57am On Sep 27, 2023
idanone:
I think Abia state University or Enugu state University confirm from there, but the surest one that I know that there program is fast is Kwara state polytechnic and also the first to offer top up
Can d Kwara state Uni own be done via online ?
Fashion / Re: Top 10 Best Beard Oil And Their Prices by africanman85: 4:18pm On Sep 25, 2023
Cossymart:
I have use Alorepair Minoxidil is a spray and it really worked on my beards and hairline
Will d hair fall off if I stop using it ?
Nairaland / General / How Can I Clear This Skin Problems by africanman85: 5:38pm On Sep 23, 2023
I have black patches between my eyes and nose. My face is always dull. Please tell me the remedies or good skin cream and routine for fair men. I am 35 yes but my face look dull.
Mode please push to front page

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