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pressy09:
-By Oba Samuel
In proposing to ladies, many guys make blunders that make them lose beautiful and godly wife materials. Below are five statements guys must never make during proposal:
#1 Don’t say your breast or back side attracts me to you:
It is a dead on arrival for a guy to tell a lady that it is her big breast and back-side that attracts her to you because she will see you as a sex hunter who is seeking for a way to take her to bed and leave her for another breast.
#2 If you agree to marry me I will leave other girls:
Telling a lady you are wooing that if she gives her consent, you will jettison your relationship with other girls will only portray you as a relationship virus. Good girls hate playboys, a statement like this will make her think you are a playboy and a serial heartbreaker.
#3 I will buy you a car:
Trying to win a lady for the first time with a statement like ‘’ I will buy you a car’’ will only depict you as a proud and oppressor.
No matter how you press her, she had already formed a negative opinion concerning you.
#4 l will take you to Dubai for Shopping:
Responsible ladies are not moved by what you have but who you are. So, trying to impress a lady with a trip to Dubai will only dent your image before a decent lady. Even if you can afford it, they prefer you act like Eddy Murphy in Coming to America than blowing your trumpet to the whole world.
#5 You Had better say yes else someone better than you will get me:
Some guys make this mistake thinking they can use it to impress a lady without knowing
that it will only paint them black as the girl in question will see you as a ladies' guy, and a polygamist.
http://www.dailyfamily.ng/5-things-you-must-never-say-when-proposing-to-a-lady/

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easyboss1:
Pastor Mrs. Folu Adenike Adeboye, mother-in-Israel of the Redeemed Christian Church of God is a woman of God with Excellence. As she celebrates her 69th birthday today, here are 69 things to know about her.

1. She was born on July 13, 1948.

2. Her Father is Pa. Jacob Adelaja Adeyokunu.

3. Her mother is Mrs. Morounfola Adeyokunu.

4. She is from Ilesha, Osun state Nigeria.

5. Her Father was a teacher and catchiest.

6. Her mother was a cloth trader

7. She is a Princess from the lineage of Owa Obokun Oji in Ijeshaland.

8. She is the eldest of the ten children of her Father.

9. She attended Methodist Girls Primary and Secondary school Ilesha.

10. She graduated in 1966 from United Missionaries College, Ibadan.

11. She owns Associate Diploma in Education from the University of Lagos.

12. She has Diploma in Religious Studies

13. She has a Certificate in Directorate of Schools Studies from the University of Saint John and Mark, Plymouth, United Kingdom.

14. She married through divine direction by her Cousin’s friend

15. Her cousin Olusegun Adeyokunu was a classmate with her husband at the University of Nigeria, Nsukka.

16. She is married to the General Overseer of The Redeemed Christian Church of God, Pastor E.A Adeboye.

17. She got married at the age of 19.

18. She got married at the court on September 8, 1967.

19. She got married at the church on December 17, 1967.

20. She was a Chorister

21. She was ordained a Pastor in the year 1996

22. She has four children (three sons and a daughter)

23. She is a Grandmother

24. She is a counselor

25. She is a mentor

26. She is a strict disciplinarian

27. She is a missionary

28. She is an intercessor

29. She is a Teacher of the Word of God

30. She established a lot of Christian schools

31. She started the Christ the Redeemers Schools movement

32. She is a tireless Evangelist

33. She has passion for Excellence

34. She is the Director, Directorate of Children Education RCCG

35. She is the President of the Women Fellowship in the Redeemed Christian Church of God.

36. She is known all over the world

37. She is a writer of Christian Literatures

38. She is the first supporter of her husband’s Ministry

39. She hosts all delegates from Overseas during National and International programs at the Redemption camp.

40. She has a passion for the care of the Less privileged.

41. She is a lover of the youth.

42. She takes care of the Pastors in RCCG by preparing their meals at Programs.

43. She is in Charge of how people are fed during the Annual National Convention of RCCG.

44. She travels around the world with her husband.

45. She is always dressed beautifully and elegantly.

46. She is always dressed in the same color with her husband.

47. She followed the steps of her predecessor, the wife of the Founder of RCCG.

48. She is moderate in all she does. she is not worldly.

49. She is an incurable giver.

50. She has improved the wellbeing of women and children all over the world.

51. She is a disciple of Jesus Christ.

52. She has spread the gospel in Africa through African Missions.

53. She led a team to visit Koma hills.

54. She through the help of God has been able to make graduates out of the people of Koma hills.

55. She is totally focused on the call of God for her life.

56. She is the leader of all Pastors wives in RCCG.

57. She supports Pastor’s children in all their programs.

58. She is reserved- she does not want to be known.

59. She takes care of the widows.

60. She has faced many difficulties as the wife of the General Overseer.

61. She cooks her husband’s meal personally.

62. She is the closest friend of her husband as he fondly says.

63. She stood by her husband when they had nothing.

64. She emptied her account when the Founder of RCCG told the church to do so.

65. She loves to wear hats at most of the programs of RCCG.

66. She calls her husband “Daddy”.

67. She doesn’t use jewelry.

68. She forgives easily.

69. She is fondly called Mummy G.O.

http://www.dailyfamily.ng/69-things-know-pastor-mrs-folu-adeboye-clocks-69/

Is this points listed really practicable or just theory? This dailyfamily.ng people self!

easyboss1:
Recession is hitting hard on so many couples these days, some husbands and wives who are not given to anger by nature have suddenly developed attitude of being angry, resentful, touchy and reactionary over financial obligations and issues, many are working but it seems the income can’t swallow up the expenses, some have even lost their jobs in the recent times left with only their partner working and the spouse that is working is feeling the financial pressure.


Where the couples are both working, there are still complaints of hike in prices of many family necessities and other financial pressures here and there.


Here below are ways through which couples could navigate through recession unhurt and still be comfortable



(1) Transparency

There should be a candid discussion between husband and wife at this time to put on the table their regular income, this will become open to both parties, it would help their demands on family income and curtail them on many unnecessary expenses. If the family will progress, It is not advisable to keep mum about each other’s income.



(2) Planning and budgeting

Couples must plan and budget their income every month, there should be an allocation for each category of family expense based on past experience and consideration of certain factors, this will shape the family and put every member of the family into the right perspective. Couples need not be accountants before they could draw up simple projection model to run with and must be accountable yo each other.


(3) Working smartly

To be engaged in certain work is not enough, but one must work smart. Both husbands and wife must be gainfully and smartly engaged in legitimate works that can bring money for the family. No room for laziness and complacency, none of the party involved in marriage should have excuse for not working, in recent times, I have seen adults in marriage complaining of work hazard, insults from superior, stress etc as reasons for not working, there must be maturity, discipline and wisdom to overcome whatever challenge comes with your profession.



(4) Cost reduction

This is not the period to buy anything from anybody anyhow, you must learn shopping principles, which market pays better, where to buy quality things at good prices, you need a list of items to buy when shopping, learning bargaining and quality testing principles. From all angles, reduce your cost, whether recurrent or capital cost, ensure you are top of the game.


(5) Cut down wastage

Avoid wasting resources, throwing an unnecessary party, gathering and feeding people who are not hungry, learn to monitor whatever you are cooking to avoiding wasting your gas and food from getting burnt, teach every member of your household to learn this principle. Your dispenser should be monitored, your freezer and the quantity of food your cook.


(6) Bulk purchase system

This act of buying things in bulk as against piecemeal purchase, when you adopt this principle, you save some fund in the process, your budget will highlight the quality and quantity of things needed at home, so from the projection model you could confirm the size of items needed within a month so you could buy such items in bulk, stock your house and freezer, you need to avoid environmental purchase.



(7) Multiple streams of income from legitimate sources

Honestly, we need to look beyond fixed monthly salary if every couple wants to live comfortably and be able to accomplish some goals like completing house project and the likes of it. There are a number of businesses that either husband or wife could do legitimately to increase family income.


( Differentiate want, need and luxury

There is a need for couples to train themselves in focusing necessities that family need rather than being engrossed in their want and luxury. Couples may desire and wish to have certain things based on their feelings and circumstances may be to impress or oppress certain people, this is tagged want while Luxury is accumulation of material things leading to sumptuous living or enjoyment of comforts and pleasures beyond those things necessary for a reasonable standard of well-being



(9) Moderation: Couples should embrace moderation in their spending so that they can have some left over for savings and investment, in achieving this, the following should be considered:

– Taste: Couples should checkmate their taste for high materials things and pleasure beyond their income and level, for now, they need to defer gratification when they are not due for it



– Expenses: Couples should be mindful of their daily, weekly and monthly expenses, never incur expense because everybody is buying it at your office



– Living below your means: The total cost should be far way below income, never form the habit of eating up all your income both the one meant for now and the future

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– Avoid debt: Buying on credit will affect your future plans and budget, more so you tend to pay more for time value of money, think well before such steps



– Faithfulness: When you receive your income, your faithfulness will preserve the achievement from that income, being faithful in the payment of your tithe to God, being faithful to your spouse by not humanising or engaging in night crawling, not spending on frivolities that have no return on investment, be wise.

http://www.dailyfamily.ng/9-ways-couples-can-survive-recession/

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Jaykindude:
Two people coming together in a relationship is very interesting has it involves your strength and weaknesses coming together. While lovers mostly enjoy their strengths and points of attraction, they neglect the differences often.

These differences must however not be neglected so as to enjoy a blissful marriage. Here are ways to work on the differences between you and your partner before marriage.

* Know your differences
The first thing to do before working on the differences between you and your partner is to identify those differences. What are those things you don’t get along with in your partner? Know them one by one.

* Identify the differences you can work on
There are some weaknesses in your partner that you can’t work on or adjust no matter how you try. For example, if the person is a stammerer, you can’t change it. However, there are some habits you can work on like way of eating or certain reactions.

* Appreciate strengths
Before you approach the differences in your partner, first take a look at his or her strengths which are those things you really appreciate about that person. Don’t identify them alone but tell the person how much you love them in that particular area.

* Discuss the differences
Take out sometime, sit with your partner and discuss the attributes, character, habits that you wish him or her could improve on. Note however that you should not condemn the person but express yourself in love. Show the person you will love them to work on those aspects.

* Help your partner to adjust
After you have discussed the differences if they are what you can adjust, help the person to do so. For example, if your partner doesn’t know how to spend rightly, always check whenever you are together if he or she is spending too much and give a signal or ask about his or her savings.

In a relationship, it is important for partners to help each other become the best. When the differences are taken care of, there will be more understanding in the relationship and marital success is achievable.

http://www.dailyfamily.ng/work-differences-marriage/

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Segzee1:
Signs to watch out for in a right relationship

Finding the right partner can be challenging. Once you start dating someone, you should ask yourself important questions to determine whether such person is right for you or not. You should think about whether your share common values and interests, how you communicate, how he/she makes you feel, and whether he/she treats you with respect. Once you determine your priorities and evaluate your relationship, set some time aside to have a conversation with him/her about your future together.

Every relationship has a cycle… In the beginning; you fall in love with your partner. You anticipate their calls, want their touch, want to around them day and nigh, gist with them and hang out together to chat some funs and like their idiosyncrasies.

Falling in love with someone wasn’t hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn’t have to go extra mile, engaged in some activities or do anything. That’s why it’s called “falling” in love.
People in love sometimes say, “I was swept of my feet.”Picture the expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU.

Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few months or years of being together, the hotness of the love faded away. It’s a natural cycle of EVERY relationship.
Many relationship only get hotter and stronger within two years which is referred as” come on the high hill” and after two years it will turn to”come off the high hill”, like diminishing return in ecommics.
Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse’s idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.
At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, “Am I with the right person?” And as you reflect on the exitment of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when relationships breakdown.

The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it’s learning to love the person you found. If you believe the characters of your partner is bad and you think your character is the best why can you influence him with your good characters in other to change him/ her.
People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most common, many people cheat on their partner simply because their the relationship had come of the high hill while others turn it to work like chatting with ex on social network.But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies within it.
I’m not saying that you couldn’t fall in love with someone else. Why not, You could. And TEMPORARILY you will feel better. But you will soon be in the same situation if you did not first work on yourself before bringing any person to your world.

The key to succeeding in a Relationship is not finding the right person; it’s learning to love the Person you found. Sustaining love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and energy. and most importantly, it demands wisdom because wisdom is profitable to direct . You know what to do to keep the vehicle of the relationship moving at a jet speed.

Love is not a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner), Just as there are physical laws Of the universe such as lae of gravity, there are also laws for relationships. If you know how to apply these laws, the results are predictable.
Love is a “decision”. Not just a feeling.

Remember this always, Decision Determine Destiny. The decision you take toward your marital life will determine the destination of the such matrimonial home: God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go.

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pressy09:
-By Oba Samuel

Since the arrest of the alleged notorious billionaire kidnapper -Chukwudumeje Onuamadike George, popularly known as Evans, his case has shown us different sides of life and the aspect that really touches me is that of his wife who claimed not to know that her husband is into kidnapping. This is the springboard to this write-up so as to open the eyes of women to what to watch out for so as to detect if your husband is a kidnapper.



1. HE HAS TOO MANY PHONES: It's a normal thing to have two phones in Nigeria due to the bad network but seeing a man with four phones and above, this calls for concern. It takes a man who is involved in a dubious business to be using many phones at the same time.

2. HIS PHONES ARE ALWAYS SWITCH OFF: Another sign that will help you detect if your husband is a kidnapper is when you notice that he has some phone he often switched off whenever he is at home just like Evans normally do. This should signal to you that he is using those phones to call the family of the victims whenever he wants to negotiate a ransom with them after which he switches the phone off to make it difficult for law enforcement agents to track him. EVANS: 9 WAYS TO KNOW IF YOU ARE MARRIED TO A KIDNAPPER



3. HE HAS TOO MAN SIM CARDS: If the man in your life is not a sim card seller nor an agent of a device provider, then you should be bothered about what he is doing with many SIM cards of different service providers. Like Evans, he may be using different SIM for family, wife, accomplices, Victims family, bank and others. Don't be fooled, it takes a kidnapper to have a such number of phones.

4. HE HARDLY RECEIVE CALLS IN YOUR PRESENCE: When your husband doesn't make calls nor receive calls in your presence, then you need to be suspicious what kind of business he is into

5. HE IS ALWAYS ON PHONE WITH STRANGE PEOPLE: Through his phone conversations, you will be able to deduce the kind of deal he is into. If he is always on phone with strangers talking about money or using coded language, that should give you a prompting that he may be a kingpin.

6. HE USES MANY SATELLITE PHONES: Satellite phones are very expensive and they are made for security operatives and government officials like presidents, governors, service chiefs and ambassadors. Seeing your husband using satellite phone like Thuraya may be a pointer that he is a kidnapping headmaster.

7. HE HAS TOO MUCH CASH AT HOME WHICH HE NEVER DEPOSITS IN BANK: When a man turns his house to a bank where he keeps a huge sum of money running into millions in local and foreign currency, you need nobody to tell you that it either your husband is into kidnapping or armed robbery.


8. YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT HE DOES FOR A LIVING: Like Evans when your husband is so secretive about his means of livelihood, don't just enjoy the boom with, u will soon face the doom of public disgrace with him.

9. HE NEVER ALLOWS YOU TO KNOW HIS OFFICE, SHOP OR WORKSHOP: Having a husband whose office, shop and workshop you do not know and anytime you make a move, he keeps giving you excuses, then you should know that you have housed a kidnapping, drug baron or armed robbery syndicate.
Wives, get to know what your husband does for a living and the location of his office or business.

http://www.dailyfamily.ng/evans-9-ways-know-married-kidnapper/

I no blame Evans,He did not read this: http:///2tIOal9 before embarking on illegal business