Digiwiz:
Men without self control

He didn't have sex with a man tho.
And I read nowhere that she was raped

Simeonjoe1:


That's why I dey laugh people wey say make them sack Poch. He has been a great the only thing killing Chelsea is lack of consistency against small teams! Look at against big club we ball head to head (apart from last arsenal match) but e reach small club we bang.
But I believe with Poch still at the helms Chelsea will do great in the next seasons to come, the players are trying and they are even young, they are really improving especially Gallagher man is really underated(Kante + goal and assist) but some some naive Chelsea fans are calling for him to leave the club. Walahi Chelsea future dey bright. I

Story storyyyyy.
Pochettino ain't shit.
With poch at the wheels it'd always be one step forward, 2 steps backward.
What incredible feat has poch really achieved to make a great coach.
I don't judge him with Tottenham job tho, spurs is a cursed club.

FatherOfJesus:
More.

Ikpeazu deserves no pity. How can a governor allow a forest to grow in the middle of a major road?

Ikpeazu is a cursed baboon, he deserves pain and misery

ZombiePUNISHER:
Poch don't really have anything to offer Chelsea...

He should leave after the season not Kloop or TT

Facts
With poch, it will always be 1 step forward 3 steps back

Creamypie:
Are those remains? Or empty coffins. The chopper was burnt to ashes

Na just empty coffins

mightyhazel:
Well the video didt show anybody trying to salvage any wares..the wires just dropped on them.. while one passed out outrightly,the other desperately tried to fight off the shock (he showed a very impressive determination to survive)..before he lost control and fell into the drainage.. people just looked on helplessly. A very disturbing video


Big kudos to the first lady and her team

Where you watch the video

JulianBond007:
I watched the video of the electrocution. The two men were lucky to survive. While one looked motionless, the other was trying to escape the shock till he found himself inside the gutter. Thank God they both survived.
I wish them speedy recovery

Where's the video at

jojothaiv:
Hardly calls but we are on good note.

Hustle don make me ditch their side a long time ago, I can't sit down with them and expect the bills not to keep on piling.

Up your hustle guy,
Leave all those hustle make you, hustle no make you.
People still keep up with family on a regular incorporating hustle too

Passionate888:
I'm not a manure fan

No be my way be that

Zxcvbnmghtr:



Onana is a great goal keeper. If your defenders are bad then it makes the job of a great goal keeper very difficult no matter how good that goal keeper may be.

Strikers are the ones who win matches. Why are they not scoring to win?

If the Defence is very cohesive. With a very good goal keeper. The least your team will take home is a draw.

That was what happened at the just concluded women's world cup. The supper Falcon's goal keeper is top notch, the defense was tight. Hence, the team's worst results were only draws.

Take a look at Mendy in Chelsea.. Clean sheets until Chelsea's porous defense exposed him and Mendy was just conceding goals.

Seems we ladies are better in analizing football than you guys.

Did you even understand my earlier post before rushing to mention

Passionate888:
Arsenal second choice is better than Onana

Once una find someone to blame in a team,
naxo una go dey put blame on them game after game, no matter how good they perform.

Onana let goals enter, so Onana also stopped attackers from scoring goals to counter opponents results?

Nats12:


Smart or not, just avoid gambling. Nobody gets rich from gambling instead gambling will push you into serious debt and depression.

Flee from gambling

Tell that to Mayor of Ekiti

Charx122:


Please if I may ask what kind of job does your mother do?
Reasons she could be idel.
Like the saying goes an idel mind is the devil's workshop.
Your Dad could be really be very stressed at this age and may not be able to
Perform bedroom duties some women can be furstrated when it comes to this.
Please pardon me . Is best you find out quickly so much nagging
From time to time reduces a man life span.
I come in peace.

She's idle atm

okoroemeka:
most times it is not good to be a gentleman always when living with a woman,sometimes you need to be unpredictable and crazy at times to keep her on her toes,that your father does not smoke,drink or womanize does not make him a perfect husband,I do rather smoke,drink,womanize with other assorted general misbehaviours and control my family than be a puppet.

Nobody is talking about perfect chief

RoyalRoy:

I will advice you close this thread and start a new and fresh one.
It's already 3 years old and am sure your price is already above the initial price you put on your header post.

Just an advice

My own bro, I don't know if it's you who pushed it to front page.
I deeply appreciate 🙏

cmikel:





@op are u a man or a toddler?


U see something cretically wrong and you are seeking for advice .

Maybe you are waiting till she gives your dad hrt attack.


It's a pity how men suffer all the years for their children but don't get more benefits or appreciation from same children, instead children show it to the mother .

All bc maybe the father is always in the feild lookn for what family will survive with.


















.

Am not a toddler chief, no man is an island.
I wanted people's input so that I don't overdo things.
I know how I can talk and act.

Dancebreaker:

It may be that your mum never loved you dad but condition made her to marry him. She doesn't feel fulfilled in the marriage and there is really nothing your dad can do about it. She's pouring all the frustration on him.

A major silent killer of men is marital maltreatment but nobody discusses it. A man is expected to be strong and be in control. If you are harsh you are a wife abuser and you are a gentlemen trained to overlook women's shenanigans, you are a simp.

A man really can't win. I hope you are learning from your dad's experience.
It's very difficult for most men to admit that own mother is far from the type of woman they pray to marry. Because mother is supposed to be "iya ni waura". What her hubby goes through doesn't matter.

I sure am experiencing a lot, and no woman can ever make me go thru that ordeal in life....NEVER!!!

jessylaurel:


You didn't say in what way your mum bullys your dad.

Words, attitudes

GloriousGbola:


are all of you grown? out of university? then encourage your dad to seek a separation. though you have to be sure your dad has his living arrangements worked out. as in your dad can manage a home by himself.

My dad can over manage himself

djseanjohn77:



As men, this is one reason we need to pray for a sustained ability, no insult, she is just exhibiting a trait synonymous to every female folk out there. They can't handle change, as such their emotions get the better of them. Once what you usually offer declines, it is jus a matter of time, that'swhy they are always the first to leave in a relationship. I am in my mid 40s, so I suppose I have a good experience of life. She is your mum, talk to her while she can still listen, otherwise, assist your dad (unknown to her) if you can, if she gets to know, she will accuse your dad more of turning you against her. The danger is, once her mind is made up, she is only waiting for a comfort landing place, once that happens, a woman can leave a man at any Bleep-ing time, it doesn't matter what you have sacrificed, or how good you were, their emotions is run my what they feel at the moment, and what they need at the moment.

Exactly my bro, they just go with what's present at the given time.
Every other thing that you ever did is waste

Sanguine:


The reverse is the case here.
My father, as far as I can remember, never treated my mother right. Always speaks ill of her to us, talks down on her, beats her sometimes. He doesn't listen to anybody, nobody can talk to him. Recently, he beat her sore. She called us and reported him to us.
None of us the children stay at home. I got angry and decided she cannot continue staying in that toxic house. I planned with my siblings and we moved her out of her husband's (our father) house. Talking to my father for the purpose of calling him to order is a sheer waste of valuable time.

My mother is in a much better place now, happy and very much at peace. My father can live all the alone he likes or wants to for all I care, until he realizes his misdeeds and tenders a genuine apology (if he ever does). You don't treat another human being you didn't create anyhow, just because you are the husband (or wife, as the case may be).

Let your father separate from your mother for a while, moreso for his own sanity and peace of mind. No one ever does well in a toxic environment. I bet you your mother will come to her right senses and behave herself. You don't know the value of what you have until you don't have it.

I hate nonsense!

Nice take my bro

AmazingELixir:


Do no such thing young man...A popular adage goes thus "what an elder see sitting a child clutching on a tree top cannot see".

Now this is what you should do....engage your dad in a heart to heart discussion concerning your pains seeing how your mom talks and disrespect him and your plans to confront her on that...hear what your dad has to say, he must have one or two words of wisdom for you...if he eventually gives you the go ahead do so as your father's child (respectfully) and not like some kind of loose cannon, your mother is your mother no matter what.

If she refuses to change, try convincing your Dad to come and stay with you for sometime away from your mom....maybe she hasn't felt his absence before that could be the perfect factory reset.

If you are in a position to assist financially please do so as your pocket permits but never insult your mother make she no bring curse upon your head ooh, you're still very young what you need from your parents are blessings not otherwise.

Your dad is a perfect example why men of old are far more matured and balanced than the grown up babies parading themselves as guymen these days.

So OP learn from your dad how to be patient with women...the girls of today are worse off oo.

My 2 cent

Nice take big bro

toprealman:

You mean you have had this chat with her all these years?

Never talked bout it with her

Nusooo:

I suggest you should keep quiet and watch as a responsible child, you don’t mingle to your parents matter, it’s not your responsibility to correct anyone of them, unless if you want to receive one of those swear/cause, your father can fight for himself.

Can't stand it bro, that man can do no wrong

mrblessed:
Just enroll your dad at a karate teaching school, and see your mum learn to mind her business. Simple solution.

this man

WantsandMore:
His work isn't moving very well as it used to back then and as such he cannot cater very well like he's used to and even though at that, he's been trying his best.... these are the issues, if you've got funds, scold her respectfully & drop funds, if not, do not attempt to scold her, rather call your dad and talk to him, tell him to be patient, as for your mom, keep praying for her. You can advise dad to leave the house whenever she starts her drama, a woman's existence is threatened by her man's inability to provide & some women don't know how to react than to be savage. I wish you wisdom & all the best.

Thanks bigman

frozen70:


I will advise you discuss this with your dad first of all to find out why he gave her so much power to bully him

Am sure your dad knows what to say to you

However, if you don't like his response then you tell him that you want to confront your mum

As you are confronting your mum, be very calm and ask her why she is hostile on dad

Listen to her reply, if it makes no sense, then tell her politely to stop that attitude on your dad that you feel ashame of everything

With time be observing her and see if she is adjusting to your advice and warning

But if she responds harshly then be prepared to be her enemy

Nice take from you brotherly, I appreciate 🙏