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adamsrib:
Love is a choice. I choose to love my spouse even though he knows how to get on my last nerve. I choose to be with this imperfect person for the rest of my life and to stand by him no matter what happens.  In marriage you don't always have that lovey dovey feeling, at some point you will have heard all their stories, talked about everything you can think of, you will have seen them in so many different situations that you can predict with 99.9%  accuracy what they will say or do and yet you choose to stay.  Choosing not to love your partner every single day is, in my opinion, why relationships break down. If you are not choosing to stay together then by default you are choosing to no longer be together.