₦airaland Forum

You went on a date, I understand that as the man you already feel that you should foot the bill, but honestly you don't just to prove your masculinity in that way. If she says she wants to go somewhere or have a certain dish, let her be free but politely tell her that she'll have to split the bill with you and tell her your reasons. Don't just seat there and frown.

The uber one off me sha, some naija babes dey like to dey embarrass themselves sometimes. But still voice out your complaints to her and let her know the things you were not okay with. I am hoping you did that first before coming on here to entertain us.

This is called communication which most are in lacking of, today. This is how all relationships (romantic or not) thrive.
Nowadays, it's sad that we just talked to be heard, we do not communicate.

2loadedguy:
Recently I had an encounter that made me to start thinking if demanding is a orientation mentality thing or its just inborn for Nigerian women. I was introduced to a lady by a friend at a wedding who happens to be her boss in one of the new generation banks in Nigeria. He was so proud of her and said many good things about her to push me to date her or even marry her, I got excited too and we started chatting and talking.
We scheduled a date over the weekend and the first thing that struck me was she insisting on a particular restaurant I said No and asked she come to another, she came over grudgingly and checked the menu only to demand for the most expensive prawn rice of about 10k I held my cool and stylishly called the waiter that she wont have that but it should be changed to another. When she asked i told her they dont have, eventually she finished eating and even got her a take away pack to take some food home like the hungry girl that she is.
The most ridiculous part of the whole meeting was when she told me she had issues with her phone and i should book uber for her back home. I booked the uber only for her to enter the car and start asking me for the uber fare, to say i was dissapointed is an understatement. Here is a girl i was supposed to take serious, who works in a bank and earns close to 200k monthly demanding for ridiculous food she can't use her money to buy and above all cannot spare 2k for uber and yet they wonder why guys won't take them serious.

BigJoe19:
Nigerian women are useless to the society and themselves.

Joker! So he had a bad experience with one babe and the next thing is that Nigerian women are useless?

To think that we are beginning to curb the patriarchy and misogyny in society but you retarded lot seem not to understand that women are to be treated equally and with respect.