₦airaland Forum

FreeSpirited:
There's room for becoming born again.. Living a new life

FreeSpirited:
Okay I noticed ever since I intentionally stopped dating and picking girls for the sole intent of sex, It's really been hard to meet a quality girl who honestly seek a non sexual healthy relationship. Must relationship always come with sex? What happened to the culture of fidelity and no sex till marriae that used to be a pride of our culture and conscience
Women complain all men want is sex, but my experience tells me that women believe it's the sex that validates a relationship, so they play the sex card and seem to project sex as the biggest game they bring to the table.

I'm currently not interested in sex, and it's not money thing, it's just change of perspective about life and sex and women. But then I realized it's yet hard to meet ladies who align with this perspective. All I see are beautiful ladies who plays the sex card, and loose ladies whose relationship mindset is transactional using sex as the product. Haba. I'm no longer interested in those life. It's not worth it.

Question is where are young vibrant ladies who truly live by the no sex policy, whose life or relationship philosophy still encompass chastity and are honest about it, and not some pretenders who say no sex to their boyfriend but have strings of friends with benefits lurking in different streets.
Honestly, everything makes me really disillusioned and aloof about sex and relationship thing

atoliman:
With all the money they make from sex, they are always broke and money hungry. I have not see one that is wealthy. One with a reasonable business or have a mansion is hard to find.

TonyRazor:
EDITORIAL:UNIZIK, Reconsider That Student's Expulsion

BY TONY OKAFOR

The recent expulsion of Miss Goddy-Mbakwe Chimamaka Precious from Nnamdi Azikiwe University (UNIZIK) has sparked widespread debate about the severity of the punishment.

The incident, which involved an altercation between the student and a lecturer, Dr. Chukwudi Okoye, raises important questions about the university's approach to discipline and student affairs.

Punishment should serve as a corrective measure, aiming to reform and educate, rather than destroy.

Expulsion, in this case, seems like an extreme measure, one that may have long-lasting, detrimental effects on the student's future.

As a moulding institution, UNIZIK should strive to provide guidance and support, rather than resorting to draconian measures that can be career-killing.

A closer examination of the incident reveals a complex situation, with both parties potentially at fault.

While Miss Goddy-Mbakwe's actions may be unacceptable in our clime, it is also essential to acknowledge the argument that the lecturer's first touch on the female student without her consent constitutes assault.

This perspective highlights the need for a more thoughtful and multidisciplinary approach to addressing the situation.

In light of this, it would be ideal for Miss Goddy-Mbakwe to undergo rehabilitation through the expertise of the Psychology Department at UNIZIK.

This would provide her with the necessary tools and guidance to understand and manage her emotions, develop healthier coping mechanisms, and cultivate more constructive ways to interact with authority figures.


Furthermore, the university should consider providing training for lecturers on maintaining healthy boundaries and fostering positive student-lecturer relationships, as well as promoting cultural sensitivity and awareness to prevent imperialistic attitudes and behaviours.

It is also important to note that Miss Goddy-Mbakwe's case should not be exploited as an opportunity for personal gain or promotion.

The university's actions should be guided by a genuine concern for the student's well-being and growth, rather than a desire for self-promotion or political posturing.

By adopting a more rehabilitative approach, UNIZIK can demonstrate its commitment to the well-being and growth of its students, rather than simply punishing them.

We urge the authorities at UNIZIK to reconsider their decision and explore more constructive ways to address the situation, ensuring that Miss Goddy-Mbakwe is given a chance to learn from her mistakes and continue her academic journey.

The university's decision to expel Miss Goddy-Mbakwe may have been intended to send a strong message about the importance of discipline, but it ultimately undermines the university's role as a nurturing and supportive environment.

Instead, UNIZIK should focus on providing a safe and inclusive space for all students to learn and grow.

Ultimately, the goal of discipline should be to educate and reform, rather than to punish and exclude.

By taking a more holistic and rehabilitative approach, UNIZIK can promote a safer, more supportive learning environment for all students, and help Miss Goddy-Mbakwe to learn from her mistakes and reach her full potential.
Don't throw the baby out with the bathwater

RealityKings1:
Why is 1 + 1 = 2?
Why is the equation 1+1=2... Why has no one ever disproven it not to be?

I am not wild or mad... I know I think deep most times...
But In Binary, the same 1+1= is 10

While asking this question, I checked Wikipedia and found the name Gottfried Wilhelm Leibniz who believed that 1+1=2 is an eternal truth that exists independently of physical existence.

Perhaps our whole existence is just numbers. What if we are just numbers interacting? Then it's possible humans exsist beyond this physical plane. Maybe we can use numbers to communicate with the past and even the future

I'm just thinking, why is 1+1=2?

aysnoopy:
Are u saying the lecturer will not be the one to mark the scripts?

bdon123:
Like we dont regularly see doctors checking for symptoms of mere simple cases on google

grandstar:
A decorated donkey is still a donkey. This is all legal speak. Any blessing is still a blessing.

Though the Bible does condemn homosexuality, Christians are to treat all with kindly (Read Matthew 7:12)

Fighttillvictory:
Read your content, good explanation but amounts to nothing cause I tell you this if JESUS said as much as to see a woman and think negative  you have indeed committed adultery talk more of having sex then you should know that same-sex-shit is a BLOODY sin, this is not transgender that occur naturally it is a sinful craving even more evil than funication and the wage is death though I am not righteous. it makes me wonder why you guys are even defending the matter or u be gay you better stop and get a life. JESUS came for sinners for sure but take this example when the Pharisees brought one prostitute woman for Him to condemn, in as much as he didn't condemn her he also didn't blessed her rather he told her to  go and repent from her way. you might still say I didn't read the context, but as the pope he is the father of the church so his utterance should be gage. even if an angel from heaven comes and tell me to bless same-sex i will shun him or even curse him because it is against GOD

blowjohn:
Una go explain tire. Instead of warning then and the LGBT community that they are just being stupid and ignorant una dey send circular around.

Something that is purely criminal in many countries

blowjohn:
Nothing to read more. U guys are with the gays

blowjohn:
Look, I read the introduction.
Non of all these circulars are needed.
These people are not congenitally abnormal.
They went frm normal to abnormal.


It's like releasing a circular for issues related to murderers.


Why do u think being openly gay carries punishments and sentences in many countries?


It's abnormal to a society or nation.


U that has read the full thing, is there anywhere gay lifestyle or gay couples is condemned?

blowjohn:
Oga, if ur Pope cannot come out to condemn gay couples ( not humanity) but the abnormality then forget it.


Pastors are condemning it in its totality ur here telling me to read a psychological article aimed at pretense.


I already pointed out the part in the introduction where it may be possible to bless people in such forms.

buygala:
If you Catholics believe this merry go round of an explanation, then y'all are more brainwashed than I thought


Blessing same sex couples without "officially validating it"... What kind of double-speak is that? ...

Or maybe we should take it that Blessing in this context means "unofficial validation" which still boils down to validation

Fighttillvictory:
good content but just as blessing comes in many form, our pope did'nt classify. When the bible told us about JESUS and the number of people he feed with 5 loaf and 2 fish, it said that He blessed the food not that he did any liturgical rite and it multiplied. So here our pope is telling the church to bless them so they can multiply.
and about my previous post i was telling the guy that the church will not divide because of a damn pope so i dont see how the devil will use me

buygala:
If you Catholics believe this merry go round of an explanation, then y'all are more brainwashed than I thought


Blessing same sex couples without "officially validating it"... What kind of double-speak is that? ...

Or maybe we should take it that Blessing in this context means "unofficial validation" which still boils down to validation

Originalsly:
I already read it ... and quoted the relevant part to show the Rev was not aware of what was said.... misinterpreted what was said or lied to the congregation.

blowjohn:
It's presentation shows a possibility of blessing couples in irregular situations and sex same couples.


What more do u need to understand there?

It's like u don't get my point; same sex couples need counselling, mental evaluation, God's mercies and forgiveness and deliverance.


Not blessings.
Shall they continue sinning so Grace may abound?

In short, once u see same sex couples, the right thing is to tell them that it's unnatural.
The more u make them feel at home, the more [sup][/sup]people out there will also turn gays

blowjohn:
It's presentation shows a possibility of blessing couples in irregular situations and sex same couples.


What more do u need to understand there?

It's like u don't get my point; same sex couples need counselling, mental evaluation, God's mercies and forgiveness and deliverance.


Not blessings.
Shall they continue sinning so Grace may abound?

In short, once u see same sex couples, the right thing is to tell them that it's unnatural.
The more u make them feel at home, the more people out there will also turn gays.



No one is born gay. There is nothing in genetics, or molecular or evolution wise that has shown that one can be gay frm birth.
It's unnatural and evil.

Man was made for woman and vice versa.

bigcasava1:
If pope did not approve it what did pope said? bcoz pope we all knew that Pope recently gave a verdict on that matter. Bishop we know you love catholic church that's why you are defending it but when the church is deviating from it core mandate it is expected leaders like you should criticize it. Anyway we heard what pope said you can't change it

blowjohn:
The phrase' informally blessed'...... What's the meaning?

Let me tell u something. Being gay is devlish. It's a product of many factors.

It's different from people who were born with congenital birth defects that results in ambiguous Instruments.

Nobody is born gay. Science has not been able to show this, and will never be able to.
Environment, friends, media, family etc causes it.


It shudndt be welcomed even informally. It's a satanic agenda.

Faposky95:
All truth must come to bare.
No one is a saint......as all have their hand in blood and dirt.
But these are the times, and the real.battle is sufficing though ........
It's the war between Good and Evil
And when e set......
No be born again tings ooohhhh

Annahh:
Blessing people you should be preaching to.

drnoel:
Please ignore the tabloid clips and look out for the new exact statement

BondRiv:
Confusing and misleading yourself. All these masquerading to permit what is forbidden.

I feel sorry for people who need the Pope for directions about their life.

The Bible is clear that homosexuality is a sin.

drnoel:
No mond them. But the pope's statement was completely political to the core so don't interpret it 1:1

BrighterSyde:
So tell us. What did the pope say?

BrighterSyde:
So what did the pope say? Pls tell us.

NewDea4:
So what exactly did the Pope say?

You people claim to be Christlians but nothing of Christ exists in your character whether inward or outward