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Agriculture / Re: This Cow Was Sold For One Million, One Hundred And Fifty Thousand Naira (video) by AkporsMechanical(m): 1:35pm On Mar 28
LadyRosa:


Unfortunately, I'm preparing for a burial and the expectations are very high on here. Sorry... sad

Eyaaaa. God will see you through and make the event a success. Thanks a lot, God bless you ma!

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Agriculture / Re: This Cow Was Sold For One Million, One Hundred And Fifty Thousand Naira (video) by AkporsMechanical(m): 12:33pm On Mar 28
LadyRosa:
My dad got 2 of this in Awka for 2.750mil last Saturday with abeg.


Abeg please help me with any cash. My workplace isn't paying me till next week due to banking error (according to them). And there isn't any dime on me again. God bless you.

0.0.40.725.159
Union Bank
Family / Re: Help! My Marriage Is Giving Me Pain. by AkporsMechanical(m): 1:14pm On Mar 05
blackpanthar:


The job i posted in item 7 is currently recruiting.

Edo
Lagos
Abuja
Bayelsa


You didnt mention your LOCATION... I hope this helps


Thank you very much sir. I am residing in Ogun State but very close to Lagos. #700 naira bike fare to Lagos. I will check out the job right away.

Sir, my contact is 0.8.1.six.six.two.eight.9.1.5.5
Family / Re: Help! My Marriage Is Giving Me Pain. by AkporsMechanical(m): 12:50pm On Mar 05
Maysdevices:


I’M A WOMAN I WILL TELL YOU FOR FREE THAT YOU ARE A SIMP!!!!!! You fetch water for her too?


What a fucking pity.

Why do your parents love her? Abeg don’t make me angry which one is you truly love your wife?

What do you want us to do now apart from tell you to dump for a while let her learn money doesn’t fall from the skies?

You want us to contribute money for Geepee tank or what?

Mr ‘I truly love my wife’ that calls him wretched and poor for because of ordinary phone GO AND SLEEP

SIMP

This story made me so angry if I were a guy, I fit track you woze you 😡


Abeg no vex for me jare. You fit still track me. I don tire like this.
Family / Re: Help! My Marriage Is Giving Me Pain. by AkporsMechanical(m): 7:36pm On Mar 04
jaxin119:
Your problem is money and to address that you have to quit that teaching job. Look for 20k and take a professional course in HSE 1,2,3. Then COOK your CV afterwards and start applying for safety officer role in medium size companies. This is a simple model of how to change your job and your life.


I have that certification including P.M.P and H.R.M. I have been applying in different companies online but still hoping for a call. Thanks anyway, sir!
Family / Re: Help! My Marriage Is Giving Me Pain. by AkporsMechanical(m): 7:16pm On Mar 04
blackpanthar:
I commend your courage sir, to remain with that woman, talk more of being faithful or patient is really a herculean task.
Now to the main matter...
YOU WERE ACTUALLY POOR....(Passing Over Opportunities Repeatedly) in your past but this year EVERYTHING WILL TURN UP FOR YOU.

Do not blame her sir, blame yourself for not understanding the COMMITMENT DEMANDS of marriage before jumping into it.
I wouldn't want to go deep into how this our generation has EXALTED MARRIAGE beyond limits.... it feels like singleness is a disease yet the truly married ones do not publicize the HEAVY WORK involved.
Before marrying, read books, go to conferences and ask questions... you will discover THERE IS NO HONEY WITHOUT MONEY.

Now let me give my 50cent solutions/ideas (asides what other great minds in this forum will offer)

1) Move out of that house... send her to stay with your parents for a while and then you can go manage with a friend. THEN SUBLET THE 3 BEDROOM(you will get enough money for a tank and more)

2) buy more drums

3) buy 25k POS and give her to start work........ so she will know how hard it is to make money and begin to appreciate you

4) learn how to drive, then offer UBER SERVICES to people who own cars... YOU WILL BE DRIVING FOR THEM AND PAYING THEM 25K OR 30K WEEKLY WHILE THE REST IS YOURS. (this is more better than the meagre salary you earn)


5) Learn how to use the computer well and learn skills like DATA ANOTATION, DATA ANALYSIS and I can help you with a REMOTE JOB.

6) LEARN WEB DESIGN and GRAPHICS and inform people of your skills by word of mouth and you will get jobs/contracts

7) GO TO GOOGLE and type cysed jobs you can apply if you are in the selected states and get a higher paying job with more recognition.


I hope this helps you bro... keep pushing... you will own houses one day. Stay Inspired.






Thank you very much for this sir. Actually, I don't have a laptop currently. If not, I have had it in mind to learn tech skills which you just mentioned above sir. I will try my possible best to start saving little by little (even though current expenses are on my neck) for me to purchase a laptop even if it is fairly used. Of a truth, I want to learn how to fish and not be asking people for fish all the time.
Family / Help! My Marriage Is Giving Me Pain. by AkporsMechanical(m): 1:13am On Mar 04
I promise to be very brief.
My wife and I live in a three bedroom flat without paying rent, although we only occupy one room since we don't have much property yet. The owner of the house abandoned the house before now and when we had accomodation issue asked us to stay there. We have been here since last year. However, there is no Geepee tank to supply water into the house. We could only pump water into our little drum when there is light. So I always go fetch water from the neighbouring compounds whenever there is no light which have resulted into several insults. My wife has been dragging me that I must buy a Geepee tank.

My salary as a private school teacher is barely enough to feed us talk more of saving to buy a Geepee tank especially in this economic crisis. In the midst of all these, my wife's phone went bad and needed a new one Just this afternoon, my wife started raining insults on me that I am not behaving like a man at all, that I should have settled down fully before thinking of marriage, that I want to make her go hungry. This was because I told her I would cut off some part of my salary to be saving so I can buy curtain for our room, television and save for Geepee tank. She even went ahead to say I am poor and wretched just because I can't afford her a new phone for now.

Since afternoon, I have refused to eat. My problem here is that my parents love my wife and my parents are far from where I reside. And I don't want to report my wife to my parents so it won't bring disrespect later to her in the future. Secondly, as the first born of my parent,I don't know how my parents will take it if I tell them I don't want to marry her again so they don't have b.p. I am really really confused. The little extra money I get from extra tutorial is what I do send to my two siblings in school even though is very little compare to their needs but at least it is something.

I feel like running away but to where? I truly love my wife but she is regretting marrying me. Please what can I do?

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Family / Re: The Tale Of A Born Hustler by AkporsMechanical(m): 12:50am On Feb 29
Ibechris2:
Stay alive thatbis the watch word.

I wish u the best in all u do.


Amen, thanks a lot
Family / Re: The Tale Of A Born Hustler by AkporsMechanical(m): 12:50am On Feb 29
HugeElephant:
You chose a career (teaching), you chose a wife(family), remember to chose The Most High and pray regardless of the challenges



Alright sir...thank you very much sir!
Family / The Tale Of A Born Hustler by AkporsMechanical(m): 7:26pm On Feb 28
I graduated in 2017, finished service in 2019 and got a job that same here. I was doing okay until 2020 Corona virus of which I was laid down from work.

Fast forward to 2022 I was married to my erstwhile fiancee who has been so close to my family and I don't want to continue in "sin". I took on a teaching job just to cater for my wife, parents and siblings. I have job hunted so hard hoping for the best to come. Recently my two siblings got admission at the same time and the whole responsibility is on me. Well, while in my undergraduate days, my dad took loans to sponsor me, my siblings hawked in the street to be able to support me. Now I have to take care of all of them. Several times I thought of giving up. But I just can't run away from my responsibility.

In the midst of these, I always tell myself not to be despair. Even the rise in cost of things made things worse. Even my wife has threatened to leave. Infact when there is no money, love is a bit reduced. But the thought of my parent and siblings keeps me going, I must be there for them.

I am really going through a lot. Please to those out there who are in my shoe, I want to encourage you that sucide is not an option. Find something to make you keep pushing. Think of your loved ones who are so dear to you and stay alive.

DON'T GIVE UP!

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Family / Re: Wallpaper In My Room Changes Image In My Eyes. Help! by AkporsMechanical(m): 9:28pm On Jan 13, 2022
You need godly friends around who can join you in prayer....more importantly,draw near to God!

Never take what you saw for granted...pray always because there are many manipulations of the last days...
Crime / Re: Nigerian Lady Robbed By Man She Met On Instagram. PHOTOS by AkporsMechanical(m): 3:32am On Aug 30, 2019
This is Nigeria!
Celebrities / Re: "EFCC Embarks Probe Of Obj’s $16bn Power Project, Arrests 4. by AkporsMechanical(m): 3:28am On Aug 30, 2019
I bet if they would be able to break the Carmel's neck on this issue!
Crime / Re: Nigerians Dig Out Buried Frozen Chicken Seized By Customs by AkporsMechanical(m): 9:05pm On Mar 27, 2018
showafrica:


If you burn am na that time the thing go roast and guys go chop am like that




hahahahahahahahahahahaha...lwkmd
Celebrities / Re: Torty Olanma, Most Beautiful Face In Abia Planet, Sizzle In New Photos by AkporsMechanical(m): 11:20am On Apr 29, 2016
TheSCRYPT:
Most beautiful? WTF??
I see nothing there.She is beautiful,yes agreed! But she isn't the most beautiful face in Abia state.You want to see beauties? Then go to the rural areas and see natural wonders of creation.I bet you,she wouldn't have won if those rural girls could afford money to buy the form for the contest.It a big blonde that the grassroot is being neglected before a conclusive view like this.Ask her to remove her make ups and shave her hair like those rural girls attending government schools,I bet you would feel disgusted at her appearance.I represent the village.Everybody on earth has a village.Village is beauty!Beauty is Village.
Celebrities / Re: DNA Twins, Clint And Blair Kidnapped. PLEASE HELP!!! by AkporsMechanical(m): 9:19am On Apr 26, 2016
[color=#006600][/color]who kidnapping EPP?
Celebrities / Re: DNA Twins, Clint And Blair Kidnapped. PLEASE HELP!!! by AkporsMechanical(m): 9:15am On Apr 26, 2016
I think the kidnappers just invite them for their show...dem fit from there sponsor them to the international music scene.

wetin I even dey talk?....abeg give me Alomo and I go reply una well
my ear has refused to see this post cryI think the kidnappers just invite them for their show...dem fit from there sponsor them to the international music scene.

wetin I even dey talk?....abeg give me Alomo and I go reply una well
my ear has refused to see this post
Politics / Re: After PDP Rally In Jigawa Indigenes "Disinfect" Dutse (photos) by AkporsMechanical(m): 7:58am On Apr 26, 2016
who politics EPP?

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