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[quote author=Giftedhands45 post=123600734]I have to join this forum to post this tonight.

I'm in my early thirties, my husband is just two years older than me. My husband has always been neglecting his responsibilities even before we got married, but I was seeing it as he doesn't have a better job and a struggling guy whom we can both join hands together to build each other. I endured everything with him. I have always supported and provided without complain.
Since last year my husband lost his job, since then, he has refused to look for any other source of income. Even when he had a job, he always have one story or the other to tell about his monthly salaries. So, he still doesn't provide.
Once, there's nothing in the house, he will keep watching because I can't watch my two children Starve. I will try everything, even call friends, families and borrow. He doesn't care how I borrowed and how I paid.


Now, he wakes up every morning and still go back to sleep. Whatever I asked him, he don't always have. He's response always is ''I don't have money ''
I am the only one sourcing out everything in this house, I don't have a job as well, just struggling up and down with a business I do.

There's no food, school fees, bill, everything, he will ignore. I can't watch my children suffer. So, I keep struggling without any help. But he eats food and uses everything in the house with us. He wouldn't provide, but he can use them once they're available.
Our house rent will soon expire and he has no plan towards That. The previous one I paid, but presently, my business is down

Lately, I've been thinking. I've never cheated since I entered this marriage, but If I keep struggling all myself like this, my children will suffer. I feel, I need someone who loves me and willing to support me as well.
My children are too used to their father, it borders me if I separate them from him.

Leaving a marriage because he's not taking responsibilities, does that make me a bad woman?

What could make a man to be very comfortable not providing for his family but wouldn't want to loss the said family?

Have you ever been in my shoes, what would you advise me?


I'm have been in your shoe, mine is even worst, sending him abroad, he came back and said he's tired of being separated from his family, you will see is reasons has been genuine, but how can you give a reason as u want to be with your family to come back home without a concrete plan on how to cater for them. Everything on me during COVID I saw hell,
After covid he will be complaining I'm not giving him is right in bed,I have gone out to work you're at home doing nothing, all what is in his head is copulate.
You just have to walk away,
If you don't, that's how it's going to be
Free yourself from him is an embedded of nothing, if you see a man outside, he will still eat from it
If you struggle with him, who told you is ready to work

He is a lazy man, you can't help him

My Advice for you there's no man outside who you think might help you with your responsibilities whatsoever, pick up yourself look for something that can fetch you money business or work, I hate it when ladies have this belief that it's only when they sleep with men, that they will be able to take care of themselves.

Set a goal for yourself dear, you can do it, if i am able to do it with nothing.
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My Friend Has HIV, But She Recently Had A Blood Test And Is Not Showing anymore.

Pls what does it mean doctors, nurses and health practitioners in the house.

It simply means there's a viral load suppression, which is very good.
When a viral load is fully suppressed, it means to some extent, she can't transmit the virus.

If you finish your education in Nigeria without learning some extra skills and handwork,

You will soon understand why Nigerian Pledge ended with *SO HELP ME GOD* .�

On my way to work this morning in Ado Ekiti at old garage area this lady was seen sitting motionless on her travelling box.information gathered that she was dropped at the place early this morning. Please anyone knows the lady should kindly help contact her relatives i could only got her side view.

On my way to work this morning in Ado Ekiti at old garage information gathered was that she was been dropped by an Unknown vehicle this lady sitting in one position unable to ulter a word. Please anyone that knows the lady should kindly help contact her relative i could only got her side view.

when you come to Facebook to date a woman who is old enough to be your mother what do you call that? You go on Facebook add woman you don't know and beg them your wife left you. He collect money laptop that he wants to use it for his project.
This is one of the 419 people
Please if you have him on your Facebook contact he's a real 419
Please help spread this news a lot of woman might have fall for this
TEMITOPE AYODEJI
You are many the Lord will expose you more

ganisucks:
I L♥√ع Fayose. He is the greatest Yoruba man alive. He is a giant compared †̥♥ Awolowo A̶̲̥̅̊Ω̴̩̩̩̥D̶̲̥̅̊ MKO. If the Yorubas would J̶̲̥̅̊u̶̲̥̅̊ƨ̣̣̣̇̇̇̇τ̣̣̥ reject Tinubu A̶̲̥̅̊Ω̴̩̩̩̥D̶̲̥̅̊ follow Fayose, the Yoruba nation would finally become proud ☀̤̣̈̇f itself A̶̲̥̅̊Ω̴̩̩̩̥D̶̲̥̅̊ would reach their destination.

You are such a slowpoke, birds of the same feathers flocks together
With a bowl of rice fayose has turned to your role model sorry I pity you.
I was at the bank on Tuesday when a woman came to the bank withdraw 600 out of 1025 she had in the bank that was all she got because she showed me her balance a civil servant that cannot be proud of a thousand naira.

This is wickedness I am crying, so much pain for this little boy I could remember when I broke my ankle. What could have been is offence, As a mother leaving a two years old for a rival such a heartless mother. So much on my mind but my prayer for those who treated this poor child like this GOD WILL REWARD YOU and you will never go unpunished

If accumulating wealth is what you are looking for after studying medicine then u are in for a ride. A medical degree can only make u sufficient but not rich.[/quote]that's not it accumulated or whatever you called it you don't expect the doctors to render there service and also pay for your bills for you

My brother I no what you are going through but my advice to you is to end up the marriage you've got enough evidence that your wife is a cheater and a killer please run for your dear life when you are still able to do so because you can be charmed

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