Why for Gods sake would anyone spin such a story. I sincerely wish this were not happening to me for real. I am recluse right now. I can go to work, for fear of Imelda bursting in on me or for fear of my wife’s mother coming up with some crazy tact to get my attention.

I am living in hell and dieing inside gradually. It is easy for people to sit down and criticize others who have erred in someway; when it is possible they could do worse or be worse of. I have learnt my lessons no doubt, I really wish I can turn back time and start on fresh slate. But I certainly did not coke on this plat form to ask for your help and be booed for it. For heavens sake, why would any man come on public forum such as this and be happy to spin tales of his misfortune if they were not really happening. I have friends i could go to and seek help/advise, but I know for sure that the very moment I open my mouth to tell any of them my situation, it will hit the headlines the next morning.

Does any of you guys know what it is means to have three extremely beautiful and gorgeous woman to give you its-yours-for –the-taking signs? I was vulnerable at the time I met my wife mother the first time, through her I made a lot of in-roads in my business. Would you rather turn down such a gesture from a beautiful woman like that and still lose a chance to striking it big in biz? I guess not. We all know how hard it is in Nigeria to break even, when such a chance comes your way, would you rather play the good guy and continue on your path of moral rectitude and continue to hope that they big break will come, a break you are really not certain may come in any foot stretch future. What if the break she offered me was the break God had planned from the inception?

Guys, this is a Lagos!!! You cant be a 1st class product from a reputable university and drive a Kia Rio on Lagos road and you see Mercedes GL450’s drive by on the same road as you and you spit out an opportunity offered you on a platter not only to drive one but to own your by your sweat. Common guys, lets come clean here.

What would rather have me do in that situation? Everything happened in a flash and I find myself in this situation before I know it.
.
As for Kal/El, this happened to me and do you think I had suggested that the pregnancies be aborted. I did not have to say everything on this platform; I just picked the relevant issues for the sake of my point. If for the little I have said I am being vilified this way, what then would be my fate if I had said it all, Didn’t i mention that our nanny had to abort a five (5) months old pregnancy too?


Guys, please help me her!!!!!!!! I AM DIEING!!!!!!

Why for Gods sake would anyone spin such a story. I sincerely wish this were not happening to me for real. I am recluse right now. I can go to work, for fear of Imelda bursting in on me or for fear of my wife’s mother coming up with some crazy tact to get my attention.

I am living in hell and dieing inside gradually. It is easy for people to sit down and criticize others who have erred in someway; when it is possible they could do worse or be worse of. I have learnt my lessons no doubt, I really wish I can turn back time and start on fresh slate. But I certainly did not coke on this plat form to ask for your help and be booed for it. For heavens sake, why would any man come on public forum such as this and be happy to spin tales of his misfortune if they were not really happening. I have friends i could go to and seek help/advise, but I know for sure that the very moment I open my mouth to tell any of them my situation, it will hit the headlines the next morning.

Does any of you guys know what it is means to have three extremely beautiful and gorgeous woman to give you its-yours-for –the-taking signs? I was vulnerable at the time I met my wife mother the first time, through her I made a lot of in-roads in my business. Would you rather turn down such a gesture from a beautiful woman like that and still lose a chance to striking it big in biz? I guess not. We all know how hard it is in Nigeria to break even, when such a chance comes your way, would you rather play the good guy and continue on your path of moral rectitude and continue to hope that they big break will come, a break you are really not certain may come in any foot stretch future. What if the break she offered me was the break God had planned from the inception?

Guys, this is a Lagos!!! You cant be a 1st class product from a reputable university and drive a Kia Rio on Lagos road and you see Mercedes GL450’s drive by on the same road as you and you spit out an opportunity offered you on a platter not only to drive one but to own your by your sweat. Common guys, lets come clean here.

What would rather have me do in that situation? Everything happened in a flash and I find myself in this situation before I know it.
.
As for Kal/El, this happened to me and do you think I had suggested that the pregnancies be aborted. I did not have to say everything on this platform; I just picked the relevant issues for the sake of my point. If for the little I have said I am being vilified this way, what then would be my fate if I had said it all, Didn’t i mention that our nanny had to abort a five (5) months old pregnancy too?


Guys, please help me her!!!!!!!! I AM DIEING!!!!!!

Why for Gods sake would anyone spin such a story. I sincerely wish this were not happening to me for real. I am recluse right now. I can go to work, for fear of Imelda bursting in on me or for fear of my wife’s mother coming up with some crazy tact to get my attention.

I am living in hell and dieing inside gradually. It is easy for people to sit down and criticize others who have erred in someway; when it is possible they could do worse or be worse of. I have learnt my lessons no doubt, I really wish I can turn back time and start on fresh slate. But I certainly did not coke on this plat form to ask for your help and be booed for it. For heavens sake, why would any man come on public forum such as this and be happy to spin tales of his misfortune if they were not really happening. I have friends i could go to and seek help/advise, but I know for sure that the very moment I open my mouth to tell any of them my situation, it will hit the headlines the next morning.

Does any of you guys know what it is means to have three extremely beautiful and gorgeous woman to give you its-yours-for –the-taking signs? I was vulnerable at the time I met my wife mother the first time, through her I made a lot of in-roads in my business. Would you rather turn down such a gesture from a beautiful woman like that and still lose a chance to striking it big in biz? I guess not. We all know how hard it is in Nigeria to break even, when such a chance comes your way, would you rather play the good guy and continue on your path of moral rectitude and continue to hope that they big break will come, a break you are really not certain may come in any foot stretch future. What if the break she offered me was the break God had planned from the inception?

Guys, this is a Lagos!!! You cant be a 1st class product from a reputable university and drive a Kia Rio on Lagos road and you see Mercedes GL450’s drive by on the same road as you and you spit out an opportunity offered you on a platter not only to drive one but to own your by your sweat. Common guys, lets come clean here.

What would rather have me do in that situation? Everything happened in a flash and I find myself in this situation before I know it.
.
As for Kal/El, this happened to me and do you think I had suggested that the pregnancies be aborted. I did not have to say everything on this platform; I just picked the relevant issues for the sake of my point. If for the little I have said I am being vilified this way, what then would be my fate if I had said it all, Didn’t i mention that our nanny had to abort a five (5) months old pregnancy too?


Guys, please help me her!!!!!!!! I AM DIEING!!!!!!


[b]HOW IT ALL BEGAN, !!!!!!!


I have been married for a couple of years now and during the time, i was courting my wife, i had met her mum on a different platform, even before she introduced me to her as her mother. About 3 years ago, i had been called upon by a colleague of mine to execute a quantity survey job for a lady, upon meeting the lady, we both hit it off right from the get-go………. (women have always found me very attractive and smooth).

One thing led to another, and it became I love you, you love me tale in the course of doing the job and before we knew it we were doing it for months. At a point, it dawned on us that we should call it quit, especially for my sake at that time, because I needed to settle down. I told her about and she refused and put up very stiff resistant, I had to assure her that my being married will not stop us from continuing our love beats, she relax after making me promise her to keep to my words.

Soon after, I stopped by tantalizer at ahmadu Bello way in V/I to get a quick bite, that was where I met this very beautiful lady, whose dress got stuck in the way as we entered. I helped her pull the dress free and she was very appreciative of it. We got on the queue and struck up a conversation, to my greatest surprise, she was my old/ex girlfriend who had traveled to the U.S. on the auspice of her mum to live and school with her mum sister being that she was turning into a radical in nija. I was shocked. What a transformation?? She had grown up and blown up into a full lady with the entire curve in the proper places. Come and see drama in Tantalizer on that day. People who were standing in front and behind us almost ran out of their skins when they heard her scream so loud, upon realizing that I was the one. She screamed, cried, laughed and jump all over me. WE LEFT TANTALIZER, LEAVING THE FOOD WE HAD COME THERE TO BUY.

In the course of time I discover that she had come back home fully to assume her full management position in her mother’s business having graduated fro the university of Oregon. I was impressed. But everything fell apart when she told me who her mother was Chief Dr. Mrs. Dash, dash dash. My jaw dropped to the floor, she noticed my shock and I quickly gave a very good reason for that. After many attempts to get me to meet her mum, which I had turned down, she eventually, persuaded me. On the day I met the mum, the mum almost died. She played along and even went ahead to tell her daughter that I was one of her consultants and welcomed me very well. We had dinner, I left, just as I drive out of her home a call came in, and she instructed me to meet her in an hour at our usual place. I knew yawa don gas. I did and tried to explain to her that her daughter had been my g/f way back when she was still a little teenager, b4 she left for the U.S. She will not hear of it and asked me to stop the relationship immediately or be ready to lose her daughter, herself and most importantly my consulting contract with her firm.

I told her I am ready to do that, under the condition she tell her daughter the reason why I am breaking up with her, daughter that I cannot be held responsible for the action her daughter will take if I tell her. She refused and I told her she leaves me with no choice than to forge on with her. She later backed down and extracted a promise from me to continue our live triangle, as bad boy that I am I promised and she accepted me both as her son-in-law and as her lover. On the day of the wedding when everything had been put in place, Imelda (NOT REAL NAME), my wife’s friend from the U.S. who had come home to be her maid of honour had stopped by my house to drop of something for me from my wife to be and before I knew what was happening one thing led to another and we had a long rump.

This took place 3 more times before the wedding the following weekend, we walked down the isle and made our vows, we have been married for 2 ½, and my wife started becoming uncomfortable with my closeness with her mum. When we visit her mum on some weekends, her mum will take me up to her room for minutes on end and to have private business talks with me that, at least that was her explanations to her daughter, until one day she (my wife) read a text in my phone sent by her mum for me to meet her somewhere. My wife started asking questions but I put her off and told her she was imagining things. She accepted my explanation because she could not picture her smooth, classy upright minded husband go to the extent of having anything to do with her mum, much more sleep with her. Until, one day Imelda called my wife from the U.S. and told her she was pregnant, my wife was very happy for her friend, but from my calculations. The age of the pregnancy she told my wife and back to the time we had our rump, it was clear to me I could be the owner of the pregnancy. When my wife told me about it, she was all smiling and full of prayers for her friend. I look at her and almost cried and wished I had not betrayed my wife who has dedicated her life and entire self to me since we reconnected and got married. I felt she did not deserve my wickedness… However, I did not know how to confess my sins to her. They were too much. I was afraid my confession could kill her and affect her condition, as she was pregnant at that time too. So I laid it off…!!!

Now she put to bed and had me a very beautiful boy (now about 1year and a half) just about 5 weeks before her friend Imelda also delivered a baby girl in the U.S. She had said she would be coming home with the baby when the doctor gives her the go-ahead that she can travel with the child (that was a year and a half ago), until she shelved it for some reasons. Now she is coming for real, she has sent me all the flight itenary to let me know she means business this time. She also told my wife and my wife is very happy about it and said she wants to see the baby and see if he look more like her or the father, the father my wife has not seen. Imelda sent me a picture of the child and wrote and I quote …, ’’The result of my secret deal with the daddy, she looks much like d daddy does’nt she?’’

Now she is coming back in a matter of 2 weeks with the child to show her people and my wife. What should I do to stop her? Should I confess to my wife or allow things play out themselves and manage the crisis when it broke.

My wife mother also called me yesterday and told me she is feeling funny, like having early morning sickness and throwing up…….Guys, you know what that mean don’t you?
MY LIFE CRASHING AROUND ME AT FULL SPEED……. I NEED YOUR HELP!! ANYBODY WITH A GOOD ADVISE AS TO WHAT I SHOULD DO NOW…. PLEASE TELL ME NOW!!!!!!!!!

Please call me or better still give me your tel number and I will call you right back to hear your advice.

Alehandre
Lekki, Lagos.[/b][i][/i]

Why for Gods sake would anyone spin such a story. I sincerely wish this were not happening to me for real. I am recluse right now. I can go to work, for fear of Imelda bursting in on me or for fear of my wife’s mother coming up with some crazy tact to get my attention.

I am living in hell and dieing inside gradually. It is easy for people to sit down and criticize others who have erred in someway; when it is possible they could do worse or be worse of. I have learnt my lessons no doubt, I really wish I can turn back time and start on fresh slate. But I certainly did not coke on this plat form to ask for your help and be booed for it. For heavens sake, why would any man come on public forum such as this and be happy to spin tales of his misfortune if they were not really happening. I have friends i could go to and seek help/advise, but I know for sure that the very moment I open my mouth to tell any of them my situation, it will hit the headlines the next morning.

Does any of you guys know what it is means to have three extremely beautiful and gorgeous woman to give you its-yours-for –the-taking signs? I was vulnerable at the time I met my wife mother the first time, through her I made a lot of in-roads in my business. Would you rather turn down such a gesture from a beautiful woman like that and still lose a chance to striking it big in biz? I guess not. We all know how hard it is in Nigeria to break even, when such a chance comes your way, would you rather play the good guy and continue on your path of moral rectitude and continue to hope that they big break will come, a break you are really not certain may come in any foot stretch future. What if the break she offered me was the break God had planned from the inception?

Guys, this is a Lagos!!! You cant be a 1st class product from a reputable university and drive a Kia Rio on Lagos road and you see Mercedes GL450’s drive by on the same road as you and you spit out an opportunity offered you on a platter not only to drive one but to own your by your sweat. Common guys, lets come clean here.

What would rather have me do in that situation? Everything happened in a flash and I find myself in this situation before I know it.
.
As for Kal/El, this happened to me and do you think I had suggested that the pregnancies be aborted. I did not have to say everything on this platform; I just picked the relevant issues for the sake of my point. If for the little I have said I am being vilified this way, what then would be my fate if I had said it all. Oh! Did i mention that our nanny had to abort a five (5) months old pregnancy too?


Guys, please help me her!!!!!!!! I AM DIEING!!!!!!

For heavens sake, why would any man come on public forum such as this and be happy to spin tales of his misfortune if they weren’t really happening.

I have friends i could go to and seek help/advise, but I know for sure that the very moment I open my mouth to tell any of them my situation, it will hit the headlines the next morning. Hence, the reason I decided on to bring to a platform such as this, that I believe house men and women of very mature minds who perhaps have gone through this phase in their lives or know someone who has and can possibly proffer advice.

Imelda called me this afternoon and told me she is shifting her flight date forward. When will that be I asked, but she refused to tell. IS SHE TRYING TO KILL ME WITH HYPERTENSION

I agree with Neyechi’s view but she been sentimental about it, being a lady as well, I guess. If any of you guys were in my shoes, you probable would have done worse, so please don’t judge me or crucify me, everything happens so fast. What would you do if you were surrounded by exceptionally beautiful and gorgeous women showing in vivid act and words that they in the go for you. If you were the pope himself, a part of you will give way. Let’s not forget that the most vicious wars with far reaching damage in the world was caused by a woman. If you understand the power of woman, you would understand that this really was not my fault. Yes, I agree with you guys. I tried and I deserve to get fried, but what ever happens to second chance.

I need you guys to help me find a way around this. I know there will be dire consequences, yes; I am not denying that fact. But how can I bring the impact of the damage to the barest minimum that is help I seek now.

Vire, thanks for taking me in confidence, I shall call you tomorrow to hear what you’ve got to say.

I expect this sort of reactions from you guys. However, don’t blame, I was a just a victim of my own avarice.

This is not the time to crucify me, but the time to help me. PLEASE!!!!! I am losing grip of my life gradually. Please I need your help now and fast please.

My story was not made up or gotten from anywhere; I am in flesh and alive living in …kki phase one part of the island in Lagos. I need your help. PLEASE!!!

I thought this was a forum for mature minds, hence, the reason I told my story and opened up to you guys.

Guys don’t fail me now. Please!!!

if you want i can give you my phone number so we can have private discussions or ebetter still give me yours and i will call right away. Especially Kgdavid.

I expect this sort of reactions from you guys. However, don’t blame, I was a just a victim of my own avarice.

This is not the time to crucify me, but the time to help me. PLEASE!!!!! I am losing grip of my life gradually. Please I need your help now and fast please.

My story was not made up or gotten from anywhere; I am in flesh and alive living in …kki phase one part of the island in Lagos. I need your help. PLEASE!!!

I thought this was a forum for mature minds, hence, the reason I told my story and opened up to you guys.

Guys don’t fail me now. Please!!!

I have been married for a couple of years now and during the time, i was courting my wife, i met her mum on a different platform, even before she introduced me to her as her mother. I had been called upon by a colleague of mine to execute a quantity survey job for a lady, upon meeting the lady, we both hit it off right from the get-go………. (I have always been seen as very smooth with women of all ages).

One thing led to another, and it became I love you, you love me tale in the course of doing the job and before we knew it we were doing it for months. At a point, it dawned on us that we should call it quit, especially for my sake at that time, because I needed to settle down.  I told her about and she refused and put up very stiff resistant, I had to assure her that my being married will not stop us from continuing our love beats, she relax after making me promise her to keep to my words.

Soon after, I stopped by tantalizer at ahmadu bello way in V/I to get a quick bite, that was where I met this very beautiful lady, whose dress got stuck in the way as we entered. I helped her pull the dress free and she was very appreciative of it. We got on the queue and struck up a conversation, to my greatest surprise, she was my old/ex girlfriend who had traveled to the U.S. on the auspice of her mum to live and school with her mum sister being that she was turning into a radical in nija. I was shocked. What a transformation?? She had grown up and blown up into a full lady with the entire curve in the proper places. Come and see drama in Tantalizer on that day. People who were standing in front and behind us almost ran out of their skins when they heard her scream so loud, upon realizing that I was the one. She screamed, cried, laughed and jump all over me. WE LEFT TANTALIZER, LEAVING THE FOOD WE HAD COME THERE TO BUY.

In the course of time I discover that she had come back home fully to assume her full management position in her mother’s business having graduated fro the university of Oregon. I was impressed. But everything fell apart when she told me who her mother was Chief Dr. Mrs. Dash, dash dash. My jaw dropped to the floor, she noticed my shock and I quickly gave a very good reason for that. After many attempts to get me to meet her mum which I had turned down, she eventually persuaded me. On the day I met the mum, the mum almost died. She played along and even went ahead to tell her daughter that I was one of her consultants and welcomed me very well.  We had dinner, I left, just as I drive out of her home a call came in, and she instructed me to meet her in an hour at our usual place. I knew yawa don gas. I did and tried to explain to her that her daughter had been my g/f way back when she was still a little teenager, b4 she left for the U.S. She will not hear of it and asked me to stop the relationship immediately or be ready to lose her daughter, herself and most importantly my consulting contract with her firm.

I told her I am ready to do that, under the condition she tell her daughter the reason why I am breaking up with her, daughter that I cannot be held responsible for the action her daughter will take if I tell her. She refused and I told her she leaves me with no choice than to forge on with her. She later backed down and extracted a promise from me to continue our live triangle, as bad boy that I am I promised and she accepted me both as her son-in-law and as her lover. On the day of the wedding when everything had been put in place, Imelda (NOT REAL NAME), my wife’s friend from the U.S. who had come home to be her maid of honour had stopped by my house to drop of something for me from my wife to be and before I knew what was happening one thing led to another and we had a long rump.

This took place 3 more times before the wedding the following weekend, we walked down the isle and made our vows, We have been married for 2 ½ , and my wife started becoming uncomfortable with my closeness with her mum. When we visit her mum on some weekends, her mum will take me up to her room for minutes on end and to have private business talks with me that, at least that was her explanations to her daughter, until one day she (my wife) read a text in my phone sent by her mum for me to meet her somewhere. My wife started asking questions but I put her off and told her she was imagining things. She accepted my explanation because she could not picture her smooth, classy upright minded husband go to the extent of having anything to do with her mum, much more sleep with her. Until, one day Imelda called my wife from the U.S. and told her she was pregnant, my wife was very happy for her friend, but from my calculations. The age of the pregnancy she told my wife and back to the time we had our rump, it was clear to me I could be the owner of the pregnancy.  When my wife told me about it, she was all smiling and full of prayers for her friend. I look at her and almost cried and wished I had not betrayed my wife who has dedicated her life and entire self to me since we reconnected and got married. I felt she did not deserve my wickedness… However, I did not know how to confess my sins to her. They were too much. I was afraid my confession could kill her and affect her condition, as she was pregnant at that time too. So I laid it off…!!!

Now she put to bed and had me a very beautiful boy (now about 1year and a half) just about 5 weeks before her friend Imelda also delivered a baby girl in the U.S. She had said she would be coming home with the baby when the doctor gives her the go-ahead that she can travel with the child (that was a year and a half ago), until she shelved it for some reasons. Now she is coming for real, she has sent me all the flight itenary to let me know she means business this time. She also told my wife and my wife is very happy about it and said she wants to see the baby and see if he look more like her or the father, the father my wife has not seen. Imelda sent me a picture of the child and wrote and I quote …, ’’The result of my secret deal with the daddy, she looks much like d daddy does’nt she?’’

Now she is coming back in a matter of 2 weeks with the child to show her people and my wife. What should I do to stop her? Should I confess to my wife or allow things play out themselves and manage the crisis when it broke.

My wife mother also called me yesterday and told me she is feeling funny, like having early morning sickness and throwing up…….Guys, you know what that mean don’t you?
MY LIFE CRASHING AROUND ME AT FULL SPEED……. I NEED YOUR HELP!! ANYBODY WITH A GOOD ADVISE AS TO WHAT I SHOULD DO NOW…. PLEASE TELL ME NOW!!!!!!!!![b][/b][i][/i]

I have been married for a couple of years now and during the time, i was courting my wife, i met her mum on a different platform, even before she introduced me to her as her mother. I had been called upon by a colleague of mine to execute a quantity survey job for a lady, upon meeting the lady, we both hit it off right from the get-go………. (I have always been seen as very smooth with women of all ages).

One thing led to another, and it became I love you, you love me tale in the course of doing the job and before we knew it we were doing it for months. At a point, it dawned on us that we should call it quit, especially for my sake at that time, because I needed to settle down. I told her about and she refused and put up very stiff resistant, I had to assure her that my being married will not stop us from continuing our love beats, she relax after making me promise her to keep to my words.

Soon after, I stopped by tantalizer at ahmadu bello way in V/I to get a quick bite, that was where I met this very beautiful lady, whose dress got stuck in the way as we entered. I helped her pull the dress free and she was very appreciative of it. We got on the queue and struck up a conversation, to my greatest surprise, she was my old/ex girlfriend who had traveled to the U.S. on the auspice of her mum to live and school with her mum sister being that she was turning into a radical in nija. I was shocked. What a transformation?? She had grown up and blown up into a full lady with the entire curve in the proper places. Come and see drama in Tantalizer on that day. People who were standing in front and behind us almost ran out of their skins when they heard her scream so loud, upon realizing that I was the one. She screamed, cried, laughed and jump all over me. WE LEFT TANTALIZER, LEAVING THE FOOD WE HAD COME THERE TO BUY.

In the course of time I discover that she had come back home fully to assume her full management position in her mother’s business having graduated fro the university of Oregon. I was impressed. But everything fell apart when she told me who her mother was Chief Dr. Mrs. Dash, dash dash. My jaw dropped to the floor, she noticed my shock and I quickly gave a very good reason for that. After many attempts to get me to meet her mum which I had turned down, she eventually persuaded me. On the day I met the mum, the mum almost died. She played along and even went ahead to tell her daughter that I was one of her consultants and welcomed me very well. We had dinner, I left, just as I drive out of her home a call came in, and she instructed me to meet her in an hour at our usual place. I knew yawa don gas. I did and tried to explain to her that her daughter had been my g/f way back when she was still a little teenager, b4 she left for the U.S. She will not hear of it and asked me to stop the relationship immediately or be ready to lose her daughter, herself and most importantly my consulting contract with her firm.

I told her I am ready to do that, under the condition she tell her daughter the reason why I am breaking up with her, daughter that I cannot be held responsible for the action her daughter will take if I tell her. She refused and I told her she leaves me with no choice than to forge on with her. She later backed down and extracted a promise from me to continue our live triangle, as bad boy that I am I promised and she accepted me both as her son-in-law and as her lover. On the day of the wedding when everything had been put in place, Imelda (NOT REAL NAME), my wife’s friend from the U.S. who had come home to be her maid of honour had stopped by my house to drop of something for me from my wife to be and before I knew what was happening one thing led to another and we had a long rump.

This took place 3 more times before the wedding the following weekend, we walked down the isle and made our vows, We have been married for 1 ½ , and my wife started becoming uncomfortable with my closeness with her mum. When we visit her mum on some weekends, her mum will take me up to her room for minutes on end and come to have private talks with me that was her explanations to her daughter, until one day she (my wife) read a text in my phone sent by her mum for me to meet her somewhere. My wife started asking questions but I put her off and told her she was imagining things. She accepted my explanation because she could not picture her smooth, classy upright minded husband go to the extent of having anything to do with her mum, much more sleep with her. Until, one day Imelda called my wife from the U.S. and told her she was pregnant, my wife was very happy for her friend, but from my calculations. The age of the pregnancy she told my wife and back to the time we had our rump, it was clear to me I could be the owner of the pregnancy. When my wife told me about it, she was all smiling and full of prayers for her friend. I look at her and almost cried and wished I had not betrayed my wife who has dedicated her life and entire self to me since we reconnected and got married. I felt she did not deserve my wickedness… However, I did not know how to confess my sins to her. They were too much. I was afraid my confession could kill her and affect her condition, as she was pregnant at that time too. So I laid it off…!!!

Now she put to bed just about 5 weeks ago and had me a very beautiful boy, 3 days after my wife delivered, her friend Imelda also delivered a baby boy. She said will be coming home with the baby when the doctor gives her the go-ahead that she can travel with the child. My wife is happy about it and said she wants to see the baby and see if he look more like her or the father, the father my wife has not seen. Imelda sent me a picture of the child and wrote and I quote …, ’’The result of my secret deal with the daddy, he looks much like d daddy’’

Now she is coming back in a matter of 2 weeks with the child to show her people and my wife. What should I do to stop her. Should I confess to my wife or allow thing play out themselves and mamagae the crisis when it brokes.

My wife mother also called me yesterday and told me she is feeling funny, like having early morning sickness…….you know what that mean too!! MY LIFE CRASHING AROUND ME WITH FULL SPEED,,, I NEED YOUR HELP!! ANYBODY WITH A GOOD ADVISE AS TO WHAT I SHOULD DO NOW…. PLEASE TELL ME NOW!!!!!!!!![i][/i]

I have been married for a couple of years now and during the time i was courting my wife, i met her mum on a different platform, even before she introduced me to her as her mother.

I had been called upon by a colleague of mine to execute one quantity survey job for a lady, upon meeting the lady, we both hit it of straight.

One thing led to another, and it became I love you, you love me tales in the course of doing the job and before we knew it we were doing it for months. At a point it dawned on us that we should call it quit, especially for my sake at that time, because I needed to settle down. I told her about and she refused and put up very stiff resistant slept, I had to assure her that my m=being married will not stop us from continuing our love beats, she relax after making me promise her to keep to my words.

Soon after, I stopped by tantalizer at ahmadu bello way in V/I to get a quick bite, that was where I met this very beautiful lady, whose dress got stuck in the way as we entered. I helped her pull the dress free and she was very appreciative of it. We got on the queue and struck up a conversation, to my greatest surprise, she was my old/ex girlfriend who had traveled to the U.S. on the auspice of her mum to live and school with her mum sister being that she was turning into a radical in nija. I was shocked. What a transformation?? She had grown up and blown up into a full lady with all the curve in the proper places. Come and see drama in Tantalizer on that day. People who were standing in front and behind us almost ran out of their skins when they heard her scream so loud, upon realizing that I was the one. She screamed, cried, laughed and jump all over me. WE LEFT TANTALIZER, LEAVING THE FOOD WE HAD COME THERE TO BUY.

In the course of time I discover that she had come back home fully to assume her full management position in her mother’s business having graduated fro the university of Oregon. I was impressed. But everything fell apart when she told me who her mother was Chief Dr. Mrs. Dash, dash dash. My jaw dropped to the floor, she noticed my shock and I quickly gave a very good reason for that. After many attempts to get me to meet her mum which I had turned down, she eventually persuaded me. On the day I met the mum, the mum almost died. She played along and even went ahead to tell her daughter that I was one of her consultants and welcomed me very well. We had dinner, I left, just as I drive out of her home a call came in, and she instructed me to meet her in an hour at our usual place. I knew yawa don gas. I did and tried to explain to her that her daughter had been my g/f way back when she was still a little teenager, b4 she left for the U.S. She will not hear of it and asked me to stop the relationship immediately or be ready to lose her daughter, herself and most importantly my consulting contract with her firm.

I told her I am ready to do that, under the condition she tell her daughter the reason why I am breaking up with her, daughter that I cannot be held responsible for the action her daughter will take if I tell her. She refused and I told her she leaves me with no choice than to forge on with her. She later backed down and extracted a promise from me to continue our live triangle, as bad boy that I am I promised and she accepted me both as her son-in-law and as her lover. On the day of the wedding when everything had been put in place, Imelda (NOT REAL NAME), my wife’s friend from the U.S. who had come home to be her maid of honour had stopped by my house to drop of something for me from my wife to be and before I knew what was happening one thing led to another and we had a long rump.

This took place 3 more times before the wedding the following weekend, we walked down the isle and made our vows, We have been married for 1 ½ , and my wife started becoming uncomfortable with my closeness with her mum. When we visit her mum on some weekends, her mum will take me up to her room for minutes on end and come to have private talks with me that was her explanations to her daughter, until one day she (my wife) read a text in my phone sent by her mum for me to meet her somewhere. My wife started asking questions but I put her off and told her she was imagining things. She accepted my explanation because she could not picture her smooth, classy upright minded husband go to the extent of having anything to do with her mum, much more sleep with her. Until, one day Imelda called my wife from the U.S. and told her she was pregnant, my wife was very happy for her friend, but from my calculations. The age of the pregnancy she told my wife and back to the time we had our rump, it was clear to me I could be the owner of the pregnancy. When my wife told me about it, she was all smiling and full of prayers for her friend. I look at her and almost cried and wished I had not betrayed my wife who has dedicated her life and entire self to me since we reconnected and got married. I felt she did not deserve my wickedness… However, I did not know how to confess my sins to her. They were too much. I was afraid my confession could kill her and affect her condition, as she was pregnant at that time too. So I laid it off…!!!

Now she put to bed just about 5 weeks ago and had me a very beautiful boy, 3 days after my wife delivered, her friend Imelda also delivered a baby boy. She said will be coming home with the baby when the doctor gives her the go-ahead that she can travel with the child. My wife is happy about it and said she wants to see the baby and see if he look more like her or the father, the father my wife has not seen. Imelda sent me a picture of the child and wrote and I quote …, ’’The result of my secret deal with the daddy, he looks much like d daddy’’

Now she is coming back in a matter of 2 weeks with the child to show her people and my wife. What should I do to stop her. Should I confess to my wife or allow thing play out themselves and mamagae the crisis when it brokes.

My wife mother also called me yesterday and told me she is feeling funny, like having early morning sickness…….you know what that mean too!! MY LIFE CRASHING AROUND ME WITH FULL SPEED,,, I NEED YOUR HELP!! ANYBODY WITH A GOOD ADVISE AS TO WHAT I SHOULD DO NOW…. PLEASE TELL ME NOW!!!!!!!!![i][/i][/color][color=#990000][color=#990000][/color]

I wonder what sharia law says about this hhnnnn?

I align myself fully with Marvix opinion on the matter very spot on.

The last thing he wants to do is bother his head over such matters, he was the vice president, until the situation of the president's health whichnled to the application of doctrine of necessity by the senate.

If Yar' adua rcovers fully enuf to assume power back, no qualms. It is his constitutional right to do so. The newpapers firms are the ones heating up the polity by bandying such stories around to feather their nest for premuim sales.

But such could adversely affect the polity and they should desist from such.

Alehandre.

marvix (m) Re: Jonathan Discredits Clerics' Report On Yaradua
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Wat shld Jonathan b afraid of? He has done nothin wrong so if anybody tels him Yaradua wld b in d ofc 2moro he shld just relax nd say Thank God. Did Jonathan tell anyone dat he is prayin his boss doesn't get well.

This report does not make sense, that's y Niboro didn't ansa the reporters because they are d ones tryin 2 heat up d polity, if Yaradua wakes up by any miracle wat kind of crisis are we goin 2 hav, I can't c any and Jonathan doesn't see any, d only issue Jonathan had with d cabal is dat he can't take instructions frm them on behalf of d president, that is if d president wants anythin d president shld talk 2 him directly. So that has bin taken care of by sackin d ministas dat wanted 2 b stronga dan Jonathan so pls can d nation move forward while we expect and wait for Yaradua 2 get strong enuf to resume which cld be 2moro or May 28 2011

I align mysefl fully with Marvix opinion on the matter very spot.

marvix (m) Re: Jonathan Discredits Clerics' Report On Yaradua
« #1 on: Yesterday at 04:09:47 PM »

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Wat shld Jonathan b afraid of? He has done nothin wrong so if anybody tels him Yaradua wld b in d ofc 2moro he shld just relax nd say Thank God. Did Jonathan tell anyone dat he is prayin his boss doesn't get well.

This report does not make sense, that's y Niboro didn't ansa the reporters because they are d ones tryin 2 heat up d polity, if Yaradua wakes up by any miracle wat kind of crisis are we goin 2 hav, I can't c any and Jonathan doesn't see any, d only issue Jonathan had with d cabal is dat he can't take instructions frm them on behalf of d president, that is if d president wants anythin d president shld talk 2 him directly. So that has bin taken care of by sackin d ministas dat wanted 2 b stronga dan Jonathan so pls can d nation move forward while we expect and wait for Yaradua 2 get strong enuf to resume which cld be 2moro or May 28 2011.