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This isn't still an assertion easily accepted as women are generally believed to be molested, assaulted and possibly raped by men, with the general view that "women are weaker vessels".

Inasmuch as men are widely caught on this matter because they use force to have their way, women, with the natural strength they have, do cause more silent harm.

One will not agree until he or she must have been a victim or her brother being a victim.

Naturally, I don't know if this is how my creator designed me. From my birth, women tend to be the ones approaching me for sex even uptil now. I have been harassed by women.

It all started in my Primary School days. I had two sweet girls that were always in contention on who to date me. At a point, they two had to be best of friends in agreement to have me as their boyfriend. It was so bad that, me, being my teacher's favorite, she used to send me to her house to either drop or pick something for her. One of them having the information one day that I'm going to my teacher's house nearby to pick her reading glasses, obtained permission to ease herself. When she noticed that I had left, she secretly followed me. I was surprised to see her entering my teacher's house as I was trying to locate where the glasses was. She almost raped me. I pleaded and cried begging her cos I was scared of such information reaching my teacher. I was still a virgin though I knew that sex existed.

Thanks to God that all three of us are married with kids now.

In my secondary school, precisely my JSS 1, the same cases played out with another girls in my neighborhood. I escaped when the two of them took me to a dark place, undressed themselves and me. I never knew what to do. They were all sweating in their quest to make me have erection. All efforts went abortive.

I had many cases till I finished my secondary school from girls in my school and even from church.

A lady in my church once took me to the dark children's hall since it was a midweek service that children were together with the adults. She tried everything with me until we were caught. Panel was set and we were punished. I was just crying because I never understood anything. Still sounds funny how I could be that naive.

I'm almost 40years and married with my eldest child going on 13 years now. I still have harassment from girls, ladies and even married women. Most times it becomes an issue to explain when my wife gets to find out as I don't always have words to explain "why a woman would disturb you".

I have lost counts of women harassing me to the point of being raped.

I have close to 15 women including married ones blocked in my phone now.


Sad end to this write up is that, IT IS HARD TO CONVINCE A GIVEN PANEL THAT SUCH COULD BE THE CASES.

Toks2008:
THE POWERFUL EFFECT OF LOVE LANGUAGE

When you hear the term love language what comes to your mind?... Let me guess... You probably think it is when you say or hear sweet things to or from someone you love but you are so very wrong..

Love language is that unique and peculiar way people expect to be treated for them to have a level of assurance that they are loved and the most complex twist to this is that every individual has a different love language and this is why you must meticulously find out the love language of the person you are with and not just assume you know.

OK let me make it simpler for you to understand by listing the different love languages we have.

1.Physical Touch: This is the love language of some people and no matter what you do for them, if this is lacking then you don't love them... If you like give them all the Diamonds in the world, as long as you don't touch them as often as they want, they will never feel loved and may Likely cheat on you with anyone who is ready to to communicate with them this way even if the person does not truly desire them.

2. Words of affirmation : This is the way some people understand love. Do whatever you think they love, if you don't tell them often how you love and appreciate them, they will fly away into the hands of anyone who will and even if the person is lying to them, they care less but just tell them often how special they are to you or how sweet they are and you are guaranteed their love and devotion.

3. Gifts: This is as straightforward as it sounds.. Just by some people gifts whether expensive or not and you have their love and devotion, to this group of people nothing else is as important as you buying them gifts from time to time and no matter what you do, to them they will never feel loved until they find someone who buys them gifts.

4. Quality time : This set of people care less about words of affirmation gift, or anything else but just spend time with them and I mean quality time and you have them loving you like puppies, this set of people are the type that complain of their lover not spending time with them even if they get the whole world from same person

5. Acts of service : This set of people just need you to be there for them in terms of rendering little assistance from time to time. This is their own love language and they will fall in love helplessly with anyone who is selfless enough to Render a helping hand even if you have nothing else to give them.

The Question now is.... "How do we know the love language of the person in our lives..."

The answer is very simple... ASK. don't assume.. Many of us know what makes our hearts melt so stop assuming and stop doing the wrong things cos no matter what you do, if you don't communicate with your significant other in the precise love language they love, you will only make them feel unloved and may likely lose them to someone who hits the right spot.

So when you hear your loved one complain to you that he or she does not feel loved by you regardless of all your efforts, please don't get confused, you are probably not using their love language to communicate with them. Once you get it right, you will definitely experience a whole new boost in your romance.

Hope this makes sense.

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Women will ALWAYS look for the next opportunities to exploit what is not their's to exploit. They will always look for the next notion to put out to keep the SIMPS in their state!

If you ask a regular woman about this topic, she would say nothing more than "Yes! the future is female!" But if you ask that same woman how she is working in her own space to ensure that the future is really effeminized, she will never give you something tangible to take home with!
The most annoying part of this is that its the useless slay idiots we have on the streets that will always say this outloud. If Rihanna, beyonce comes out tomorrow wearing a shirt with the inscription "The Future Is Female" on it, i for one will feel somehow cool about it even when i still totally disagree because these women are the women who have sacrificed everything including their feminity for the height they have achieved over the years. Not some regular SIMP LEECHERS coming out in the open to shout it! It totally turns me off!
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