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Yup! It takes SHEER GUTS!
Not for 'I go cherish and hold' kinda peeps!
When your husband becomes your brother. . .it is time for an 'OPEN MARRIAGE'! We can re-connect in 'old age'!

Some of us live in a man's world of course. . . but we act more MANLY than MOST MEN!
Blokos wey I don chop for over 10 years. . . wetin I dey struggle with for dia ah-gheyn?
Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew. . .
Not my portion! Ah-miiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiin o!

Valentine's day is coming up.
I am not gonna spend it with the husband for sure. I now know why NIGERIAN married men NEVER travel with their wives and children for ANY vacation! BORRRRRRRRRRRRRRING SHYTE! Thanks to OPEN MARRIAGES! I am going away with my boyfriend. . .while the husband spends time with his girlfriend!


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DESTINATION: THE HILTON-BENTLEY MIAMI. . .SOUTH BEACH, FLORIDA!!! FOR A WHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOLE WEEK!!!

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I remember this story. . . Hmmmmmmm!
What a way to die.

After all the attempted cover-ups on NL! The truth finally came out.
She died because of 'blokos'!

Absolutely correct!
Thank our H-AGNOSTIC Gaad for sweeeeeeeeeeeet H-Opin marriages!
No facebook marriage o. . . Tufiakwa!

I dun wanno h-end up like 'some' peeps on NL. . .with bassards for ssshilrens!

Because we RRRRRRRRRRRRRROCK. . . EVEN AFTER HAVING KIDS!
What man in his right mind will toast a 'damaged' good unable to keep a man at home because of 'toto-failure'?
Especially with different 'baby daddies'?

I receive more toasters now than ever. . . THAIN OUR H-AGNOSTIC GAAAD FOR SWEET H-OPIN MARRIAGE O!

*watch awon obsession with moi tia dia pai-heints with jolosi and frustrations. . . mu kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa*

Sometimes yes and sometimes no. It all depends on YOU and the way you handle matters.
MOST WOMEN PREFER OLDER MEN. . . FOR SECURITY.
Women tend to be more mature than men within the same age group.
THE REASON I HAVE BOTH A HUSBAND AND A BOYFRIEND.
My husband is only 2 years older and I see him as a brother and friend. WE GREW UP TOGETHER IN MARRIAGE!
My much wealthier boyfriend(Whom I have known for 25 years having rejected his marriage proposal then) is 9 years older. . .I SEE HIM AS 'THE DON'! HE IS REAAAAAAAAAALLY GOOD TO ME, SPOILS MOI ROTTEN. . . and still loves moi after all these years!!!


Se-x is greaaaaaaaaaaaaaat with both. . . . !

ASHAWO NOR BE CRIME! !GET YOURS!

'Ope you are loving my 'lies, pyramids and TMIs'? NOR LET E BADU BELLE AND E JOLOSI QUENCH YOUR AZZZES O!
You tinnng you can change me or my posting style? YOU JAM ROCK OF AGES!

Time for my sweeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeet work jare. . . !

OFF FOR 2 DAYS. . . I CAN'T WAIT!!!

If you can get married. . . you can get divorced.
YUP! GETTING DIVORCED IS A WHOLE LOT HARDER THAN GETTING MARRIED!
Only when you have done both would you understand.

MARRIAGE IS LIKE CLIMBING A LADDER. . . YOU DO NOT KNOW HOW FAR YOU HAVE CLIMBED. . .TILL YOU HAVE LOOKED DOWN THE LADDER OF MARRIAGE AKA (DIVORCE). . .

The only question is: DO YOU JUMP AND BREAK YOUR NECK. . . OR DO YOU CLIMB DOWN TACTFULLY WITHOUT KILLING YOURSELF?

I choose the latter option ALWAYS!

If you wanno get a divorce. . .PLAN CAREFULLY AND CRAFTILLY. . .DO NOT HURRY!

So she filed for divorce - and got divorce finalized. She left him in the apartment they were renting and left with the clothes on her back.
[size=20pt]She is glad she came to that decision but she says it hurts so bad.[/size] She cries herself to sleep at night and at times even misses the man - she has not contacted him at all despite his trying to over the months. [size=20pt]She knows she will never go back. But she said it still hurts a lot.[/size] Is this the grieving stage? What does one say during this period? [size=20pt]She also says that at times she feels very h, ny and just needs companionship and at those times thinks of him.[/size] Is this normal? How long does this stage last before she will be emotionally free of him

Don't be deceived! IT WOULS HURT WORSE THAN HELL!!!

Like I always say A BAD MARRIAGE IS ALWAYS BETTER THAN A SWEET DIVORCE!IT WOULD HURT LIKE HELL. . .MARRIAGE PROTECTS YOU FROM RIFF-RAFFS. . .ONLINE AND OFFLINE. OTHER MISERABLE WOMEN AND MEN ONLINE ESPECIALLY . . .WANT WHAT YOU HAVE!!!! DON'T THROW IT AWAY!!!!

This is a perfect example why! DIVORCE ONLY COMPOUNDS YOUR PROBLEMS. . . . IN MOST CASES! ONLY 10% of divorces have good outcomes and for only one party! SOMEONE ALWAYS GETS BURNED. . .AND IT IS USUALLY THE WOMEN!!!!

*abeg wey my darling husband and children jare . . . divorce ko, divorce ni. . . the only way I will get divorced in this my old age is: IF I SEE A SUPER RICH MAN. . . .I only do chop and clean mouth*

*COUGH-COUGH. . . E BADU BELLE AND E JOLOSI. . . .PELE O. . . GET YOURS, KEEP YOURS, DON'T KILL YOURS* MY OPEN MARRIAGE STILL ROCKETH FOR EVER. . . NO QUENCH O!

Why waste time calling the police when your life is not in danger?
I would encourage any MAN OR WOMAN in a marriage to call the police if he or she feels threatened in ANY WAY.
I have done it before and it worked like magic!
THE ONLY LANGUAGE NIGERIAN MEN UNDERSTAND. . . WHEN THEY GO OUT OF LINE!
Men are mostly the abusers. . .not women. WOMEN ONLY LEARN AFTER BEING TAUGHT BY THE MEN!
Domestic violence is a part of an AFRICAN/NIGERIAN MAN'S LIFE!
You learn to deal with them SQUARELY!

I blame the woman for this.
She should never have allowed ANY FORM OF ABUSE FROM DAY 1!!!
But you can't totally blame her. . .In places like Nigeria and Africa. . . .women are abandoned by their fathers for the most part. Low self-esteem can only be the cause. I pity her daughters AND SONS! They will only grow up to repeat the same cycle!

IF NA ME EEEEEEHN? Oh dia! THE MAN FOR DON DIE SINCE. . . WITH IM CHILDREN TOO! I MAKE SURE I GET RID OF ALL EVIL SEEDS FROM HIM. . . THANK GOD FOR ABORTIONS!!!

BY BEING A HAPPY PERSON IN YOURSELF FIRST. . . BEFORE JUMPING INTO MARRIAGE!
Also. . .by always preparing for a 'DIE-VORCE' from the get go!
Never act desperate
Always have your own thing
Never depend SOLEY ON YOUR SPOUSE
Always keep some SPECIAL EXES close to spice up your marriage. . . .IT IS GOING TO GET BORING WHETHER YOU LIKE IT OR NOT!