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It is not news anymore that most people that feel they have gotten to the age for marriage but haven't found a soulmate usually turn to church for renewed hope.

I heard some discussion about this some days ago and someone said that the church of these days is now like a hospital where you find many patients but not all of them will respond to treatment.

If you concur, do you agree with such comparison?

DispatcherLagos:
Happy for you.
But you see nicotine? Fear am

Honestly it's very bad. I have never imagined I can stay just a single day without smoking or tasting alcohol. But now it feels weird that I perceive the cigarettes smoke around me but I'm not moved to take a stick anymore.

DispatcherLagos:
You will definitely go back to at least 2

I don't think I will go back. All through the one week I have still been hanging out with friends we usually smoke together but while they are smoking and drinking I am not moved about it anymore. I just sit back and take energy drink. When I feel tired I leave them and head back home.
What I noticed is that I now practically eat too much unlike before.
If I can maintain the tempo for a month then I believe I will never go back to it ever again.
I wish I can be doing a video of myself through this journey to keep records of whatever transformation would occur because I'm quite skinny but lately people are telling me I'm adding some weight.

Hello guys,
So today is my one week anniversary of not smoking, drinking alcohol and masturbating.

This might sound strange but for the past 20 years, these three habits are something I couldn't do without every single day. Aside masturbating that sometimes I might have to skip a day or two without it, I have never been able to spend a full day without smoking cigarettes and taking alcohol (especially dry gin) first thing in the morning before going anywhere or doing anything. Even when I was in university it was worse the the point I usually get high before I can actually write my exams but I thank God I graduated well with a 2:1.

I decided to take a new turn the beginning of this year 2023 but since January I just couldn't see how my life will be without these three habits am so use to. But last week, I don't know what came over me and I just stopped all three same day. It's been quite a struggle having to live without them but I have made it so far up to a week without them and I see myself feeling healthier than before so it's encouraging me to understand that I can live better without these bad habits.

However I must say it's quite a boring life without alcohol especially and I'm still trying to understand how people that don't drink enjoy life. Please join me to celebrate my one week anniversary and I will appreciate all your encouragements.