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Culture / Re: Okrika Iria Ceremony For Virgins Commences (Photos) by Amakavula: 12:54pm On Oct 20
Fattening Room is a rich tradition of the South South and parts of Africa where young women ( mostly virgins ) go through a rite of passage where they are isolated in a room, fed well and taught the traditions of the people to help them look healthy and beautiful and ready for marriage.

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Culture / Re: Naomi Oluwaseyi, Ooni’s Wife Undergoing Rites To Be Queen. Nigerians React by Amakavula: 9:17pm On Oct 19
adegeye38:

God cannot be mocked, God wont say u should worship d devil to obey him, no man can convert anybody, is the holy spirit that converts
Do you see the spirit ? you only judge externally if you are a Christian I am ashamed of you.
Romance / Re: 12-year-old Pregnant South African Girl Kisses Baby Daddy (photos) by Amakavula: 5:20pm On Oct 19
South Africans and stupidity

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Culture / Re: PHOTOS: Ooni’s New Wife, Silekunola, Enters The Palace With Grace, Elegance by Amakavula: 4:16pm On Oct 19
David had to marry Saul's daughter , even eat from the priests' unleavened breads.

Moses was raised and trained in the house of pharaoh to be useful.

Samson had to marry a phillistine for God to work.

A harlot saved the two spies from Joshua in Jericho,offer them bed, and food even though it was unclean.

The holy spirit told Peter he should eat from the unclean beasts as God has made it clean when he was asked to go to the house of the centurion.

Daneil was more useful in the court of Darius and Nebuchadnezzar , worked with magicians and Maggi.

Even Esther in the Bible had to perform the ritual to become Queen, don't be quick to judge.

God's ways are different from Man. God 's ways are different from Man !


We don't know her convenant with God. She might have prayed and God told her to go, do everything they ask of you, but I will use you in their mist.

God might want to use her to change the life of the King and the Monarch. How would she get there without passing through this traditional rites?

We sit at home and Judge people with second thoughts.. I don't know her , but I pray God use her mightly in the mist of charms, and blood rites.

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Culture / Re: Naomi Oluwaseyi, Ooni’s Wife Undergoing Rites To Be Queen. Nigerians React by Amakavula: 3:28pm On Oct 19
David had to marry Saul's daughter , even eat from the priests' unleavened breads.

Moses was raised and trained in the house of pharaoh to be useful.

Samson had to marry a phillistine for God to work.

A harlot saved the two spies from Joshua in Jericho,offer them bed, and food even though it was unclean.

The holy spirit told Peter he should eat from the unclean beasts as God has made it clean when he was asked to go to the house of the centurion.

Daneil was more useful in the court of Darius and Nebuchadnezzar , worked with magicians and Maggi.

Even Esther in the Bible had to perform the ritual to become Queen, don't be quick to judge.

God's ways are different from Man. God 's ways are different from Man !


We don't know her convenant with God. She might have prayed and God told her to go, do everything they ask of you, but I will use you in their mist.

God might want to use her to change the life of the King and the Monarch. How would she get there without passing through this traditional rites?

We sit at home and Judge people with second thoughts.. I don't know her , but I pray God use her mightly in the mist of charms, and blood rites.

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Romance / Re: She Has A Very Big Yansh But Tiny Chest & Wont Allow Me Touch Her Breast by Amakavula: 12:04am On Oct 18
Might have breast cancer and both breast have been cut off, and she doesn't want you to know

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Romance / Replying Thread : Why Do Most Ugly Women Have Bad Characters by Amakavula: 9:16pm On Oct 17
Thought experiment guys who will you approach out of the blue and be sure you can woo in a crowded place. Be honest..

1.) A

.2) B


Not trying to bring any lady down ( both are beautiful in their own way ) but guys would judge the fair one higher. Surprisingly she might have no Boyfriend ( hard to believe I know )


Because they " Ugly ones" ( no lady is ugly ) are approached more by guys than the beautiful ones so they feel they are in hot demand. Hence why they are bitchy and annoying.


Sounds counterintuitive, but I will elaborate. Guys are very logically they are most likely to have a realistic prospective of their value than us women. A guy of say 6 would never approach a 8 or 7 out of fear of rejection. So he will settle for a 5 or 4 .


Unfortunately most guys are within this range 5,6,7 and so hit on ladies of 4,5 , 6 more than Upper value ones 7,8,9 and 10 . That's why ugly ladies are bitchy, everyone wants them because they're a low hanging fruit.


Really beautiful ladies in 8, 9. 10 are rarely bitchy because very few guys find the courage to approach or talk to them, hence they are constantly struggling with esteem issues and fear of not been admired enough.
That is why sometimes they end up with not so cute guys, and people wonder what, Courage is why. That not so cute boyfriend has Courage.


The Ugly ones , ladies thanks to social media struggle with over esteem. And inflationary value.

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Romance / Re: Why Do Most Ugly Women Have Bad Characters by Amakavula: 9:00pm On Oct 17
Because they are approached more by guys than the beautiful girls so they feel they are in hot demand.

Sounds counterintuitive, but I will elaborate. Guys are very logically they are most likely to have a realistic prospective of their value than us women. A guy of say 6 would never approach a 8 or 7 out of fear of rejection. So he will settle for a 5 or 4 .

Unfortunately most guys are within this range 5,6,7 and so hit on ladies of 4,5 more than Upper value ones. That's why ugly ladies are bitchy everyone wants them because they're a low hanging fruit.

Really beautiful ladies in 8, 9. 10 are rarely bitchy because very few guys find the courage to talk to them, hence they are constantly struggling with esteem issues of not been admired enough.
The Ugly ones struggle with over esteem.

Romance / Advice Needed : Women Don't Want Love ( Photo ) by Amakavula: 6:52pm On Oct 17
I want to keep this short : there's this colleague of mine who has been my friend for 10 years, and he also helped got me my current job. But the Crux of the matter is, he has always wanted more than friendship but I don't see him that way.

Last week he asked me out again ( for the fourth time, I thanked him, and wished he stops asking ) I turned him down. He seems to have the believe that as colleagues I don't want him because He earn slightly above me. But it not true, I like him as a friend and he is a great friend nothing more.

But for this time, the fourth rejection, he was very angry, and said so many bad words against me ( called me ingrate, and said I was whoring around in the office, a lie. ) thank God I dodged that bullet.


He sent this to our public office mail this morning. I felt sad, but shocked he belief this...
so that's how he see me



subject : For Office whores


women do not want your love. It is not what they’re after. No, what women truly want is value. [\b]


She wants your value; your status, your wealth, your protection, your comfort. [A man that has all these things can excite a woman by telling her he loves her] only because it means that she is being given a gift. She does not love you. She loves those gifts, the transfer of your value.
Compare and contrast that to what happens when your value is gone.

[b] Your love means precisely nothing to her. Quite the opposite, it disgusts her . She does not want your love. She doesn’t want to be loved. She wants to be validated by value, and the words “I love you” do exactly that for her, providing that you offer her some value.


Men do desire female love. Your brain is wired to crave female love. This is not true with women, and misapplying this with them sets you up for disappointment when your expectations invariably aren’t met.

Your love does not bring with it any intrinsic value. To her it is as worthless as the air that comes out of your mouth when you say it. Treat “I love you” for what it really is – “I’m willing to share my value with you”, because that is what women really desire.

Romance / Re: For The Women Who Know Their Man Is Seeing Others, Do You Pretend Not To Notice? by Amakavula: 7:03am On Oct 16
Most ladies want a guy others want to sleep with. High value males are in shirt supply hence we don't mind as far as we are the main chick.

Crime / Re: Mother: "Seun Ajila Was A Virgin On Her Period, Raped & Stabbed To Death" by Amakavula: 6:48pm On Oct 14
In her period yes, a virgin ? lies!

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Romance / Re: 'A Man's Virginity Is The Highest Gift He Can Give To His Wife' - Lady Says by Amakavula: 9:51pm On Oct 12
She is just using this to screen weak guys, no woman wants a virgin guy at all. Women want a guy to just get it.

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Romance / Re: When Naija Men Say "But He Still Fûcked You" Like It's My Loss. Smh by Amakavula: 11:54pm On Oct 11
DaddyNimo:
them Don fork this one delete her number!!! lolzzzzzz

Romance / Re: “no Sex Till After Marriage, My Body Is Temple Of The Holy Spirit — Slay Queen by Amakavula: 11:52pm On Oct 11
Lies! lies ! everywhere !

Celebrities / Re: Toolz: 'Don't Allow People Rush You Into Marriage' by Amakavula: 6:43pm On Oct 10
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Celebrities / Re: Nigerian Man In Holland Tries To Snatch Sophia Momodu From Davido by Amakavula: 5:57pm On Oct 10
Naijaguy12345:
Who no like better thing . A woman that once dated a top celebrity I doubt will relegate herself to dating a welder, no offense here but young man you've got to look elsewhere or work harder.
She is an Alpha widow. Some low value lady who manages to get picked by a top celebrity. Now she thinks she is worth poo and has standards.

Literature / Re: Chimamanda Adichie: ”We Don’t Care About Trump Calling Africa A Shithole" by Amakavula: 5:50pm On Oct 10
" Men must be tough to show their strength. It should be done so that men can be vulnerable, show their emotions."

Why are feminists so obsessed with making men weak, when normal women don't like weak men?

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Romance / Re: Ladies, What Would You Do If This Guy Were Your Boyfriend Or Husband? (photos) by Amakavula: 4:17pm On Oct 10
Leave him.biko

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Travel / Re: The Japanese Passport Is Now The Most Powerful Passport On Earth! by Amakavula: 2:18pm On Oct 10
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Celebrities / Re: Rihanna Follows Eleven Paz, Model With Tribal Marks by Amakavula: 4:03pm On Oct 09
Nigerians scammers!

Car Talk / Re: Young Man Thrills Ladies With His “Customised Vehicle” In Enugu. Photos by Amakavula: 5:35pm On Oct 08
Igbo Amaka ! Igbo built G wagon skeleton Model X ! we can't come and kill ourselves

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Romance / Re: Nigerians Come For A Chicken Activist by Amakavula: 1:41am On Oct 08
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Romance / Re: Girls Are Always Broke -Nigerian Lady by Amakavula: 1:34am On Oct 08
Useless ones you mean

Nairaland / General / Re: See The Huge Python I Killed, Was Trying To Enter My House Through Window Today by Amakavula: 11:13pm On Oct 05
Lalalastica laladelisious lala..

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Travel / Re: Man Eating Breakfast While Hanging On A Moving Bus In Lagos (Photos) by Amakavula: 11:28am On Oct 04
Lagos I'd mad
Romance / Re: Hilarious Break Up Letter A Girl Wrote To Her Boyfriend by Amakavula: 11:06am On Oct 04
James James!

Romance / Re: She Deflowered Me, Says No Sex Anymore As She Turns Born-Again by Amakavula: 11:09pm On Oct 03
OP you failed, you don't dick her like your life depended on it. you don't do it like it's your last day on Earth that's why she has gone to meet Jesus, the author and finisher if you know what I mean.. �

Romance / Re: She Deflowered Me, Says No Sex Anymore As She Turns Born-Again by Amakavula: 11:08pm On Oct 03
OP you failed, you don't dick her like your life depended on it. you don't do it like it's your last day on Earth that's why she has gone to meet Jesus, the author and finisher if you know what I mean.. �

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Sports / Re: Lady Slams Mbappe For Not Replying Her DM, Says “I Am Not Your Mate” by Amakavula: 11:21am On Oct 03
Na them dey rush am sometime na na rape go follow rush..

Romance / Re: Am Heart Broken by Amakavula: 1:25am On Oct 03
Oga Ade it's your from, you lost your frame to her. The moment you put any girl on a pedestal you lose her.
Romance / Re: My Fiancee Was Violated But I Found It Hard To Trust Her Again by Amakavula: 6:27pm On Oct 01
Samuelgr8:


Now,this whole revelation was very hard on me. Here I was,dating this lady for two years with no s*x cos we wanted to wait until marriage and here someone else is claiming she willingly gave it to him? I could not take it and I asked her. Of course,she denied it. I then asked her to let us report to the police to prove her innocence but still she refused.




OP here is one bitter reality you should face :

"...Real desire can't be negotiated..."

If a lady loves you, she will risk everything to sleep with you. A lady who never puts sex on the table early or wants something before she does ( money, relationship , marriage or proof of loyalty ) is negoiating because she feels you aren't her worth.

you aren't ticking all the right boxes. A lady will have sex with her fantasy man before even considering relationship or marriage just to keep him. There was no negotiation that man ticked all the right box ( assertive , confidence and sexually directed )

she was only settling with you, thank goddess you broke up the engagement, ( poor guy two year! ) else all you need do in the future is to mess up once, and she will run back to the guy not minding that you forgave her first time. .

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