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|Romance / Re: Opinion ( What To Do ) : My Wife Doesn't Like Sex by Amakavula: 5:45am On Nov 15, 2018|
Win a boyfriend here?? guys on Nairaland Lolx.. Godforbid !
I have seen the types of guys here, definitely not what I would want to associate with, but my froye on Nairaland is just curiousness. I like to write on relationships, and want to see how people would accept my work.
|Romance / Re: Opinion ( What To Do ) : My Wife Doesn't Like Sex by Amakavula: 5:40am On Nov 15, 2018|
xendra:I grow up in a house full of boys so not me but you are stupid. Mtchwwwww
|Romance / Re: Opinion ( What To Do ) : My Wife Doesn't Like Sex by Amakavula: 5:33am On Nov 15, 2018|
xendra:Yes I am not a woman, I always want to be man, they are simple and straight forward unlike ladies who are horrible. I prefer my male friends to female ones , backstabbing bitches Mtchwwwww
|Romance / Opinion ( What To Do ) : My Wife Doesn't Like Sex by Amakavula: 5:12am On Nov 15, 2018|
It's sad my fellow women can be this deceptive, but we don't know what happened in that marriage, he could be the problem.
He could be those irresponsible ones, who expect sex after failing to make provision at home. If he is, he should go perform his duties.
But if the problem is from the woman, then I suggest not buy anything for her or pampering her for sex , because it will get worse. She would will just keep using sex as a reinforcement of his behaviors of getting her things:
She wants a new car, he says he can't afford it now, she denys him sex and he goes begging with the car. And buying things, only reinforce her decision, poor guy.
To fix this problem I suggest covert dread: He should show behaviors of someone cheating, but shouldn't cheat. He should go to the gym regularly to keep fit, eat healthy, go jogging and spend time with friends.
Stop all communication with her except necessary ones,, stop eating her food, And just ignore her, don't ask for sex at all.
That will get her attention. She would fear something is up and would want to offer him sex to stay. A woman worse fear is that another woman is after her price, her man or her happiness.
But the crux of the matter is, she didn't love him, she only settled for fear of not getting married. He was available, and she couldn't wait anymore Women do that alot
|Family / Re: My Wife Doesn't Like Sex by Amakavula: 5:05am On Nov 15, 2018|
Damoche10:Exactly, I said the same thing.
|Family / Re: My Wife Doesn't Like Sex by Amakavula: 5:04am On Nov 15, 2018|
It's not the solution, that will make it worse. She is using Sex as a reinforcement of his behaviors, deny him and he goes begging. And buying things, poor guy.
If he does that it will encourage her. I suggest covert dread: He should show behaviors of someone cheating, like go to the gym regularly, eat healthy, go jogging and spend time with friends. And just ignore her, don't ask for sex at all.
That will get her attention. She would fear something is up and would want to offer him sex to stay.
But the crux of the matter is she didn't love him, she only settled for fear of not getting married. Women do that alot.
|Romance / Re: Men Wouldn't Stop Crying Except... by Amakavula: 4:44am On Nov 15, 2018|
Jayslicky:I am no longer angry.
|Romance / Re: Men Wouldn't Stop Crying Except... by Amakavula: 11:10pm On Nov 14, 2018|
Jayslicky:Die heretic die in cold water
|Romance / Re: Men Wouldn't Stop Crying Except... by Amakavula: 10:49pm On Nov 14, 2018|
funmisticqueen:I don't reply men in Women monikers..get a life nitwit
|Romance / Re: Zambian Man Catches Wife With Another Man 4 Months After Giving Birth. PICS by Amakavula: 9:15pm On Nov 14, 2018|
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|Romance / Re: Men Wouldn't Stop Crying Except... by Amakavula: 6:27am On Nov 14, 2018|
|Romance / Men Wouldn't Stop Crying Except... by Amakavula: 11:09pm On Nov 13, 2018|
My Male Friend came to me for advice, on how to beg his "girlfriend" to offer him more attention. A girl who regularly ghost him on WhatsApp. She wants to control everything about their conversation, no sex talk, no serious talk, no family talk, just hahaha and Lol, then request for money.
She hardly want to do things his way. I told him to go break up with her, the relationship failed the Cardinal tests.
See, Forget all your Lamentations here Ladies are the simplest creatures God made. Understand how we think ,and you would never be heartbroken ever.
If a lady likes you, she would crawl barbwire, climb mountains, travel oceans, change relationship just to be with you. scream from today to tomorrow, Ladies would still do sex tapes , still take nudes for their boyfriend, because when we love it's completely.
Treat a lady by her actions not her words. Watch what she does.
so What's are the Cardinal tests ?
1. Any relationship which exist in which the man shows more affection or display of affection, in form of announcements, caring, spending, or monitoring, than the woman, that relationship is doomed to fail !
2. If you have to explain things about the relationship to the lady, about Caring for you, asking about your day and your work. That relationship is doomed to fail.
3. Any relationship which starts with negotiations. Where do you work, how much do you earn, change your religion, change your looks sort, will fail. Ladies are emotional, we care more about feelings first than anything else. If we are asking then you are not a priority just been weighed against other men.
4. If you have to carry the relationship, as a guy. you do the talking, the joking , the motivation and everything. She thinks she can do better. Forget it and move on.
5. Never play her games. If she only replies WhatsApp by 10pm always make sure you return her chats at 8pm. Never ever wait to chat her at 10pm, even if she chats best at 10pm pick a different time, that is best for her.
This is vital If she feels she can control you then you aren't worth it as a man. This is what happened to my Friend, she chats him anytime and her replies, hence he is always available. She can ignore him and he wouldnt leave.
|Romance / Re: "I Know You Love The Sex" - Facebook Girl Shares After-sex Photos With His BF by Amakavula: 8:38pm On Nov 13, 2018|
|Romance / Stop Trying To Understand Women Be A Man ! by Amakavula: 12:07am On Nov 13, 2018|
I see lots of threads opened by men complianing about women and how they are treated it brings me grief because these useless , spinless men are supposed to marry us and head the family ? Lol ?
Lots of men lack the Frame of men, men took care of wives in the past without any issues yet just One and you open threads up and down.
I hate to use the adjective " bad " but a real man is a bad boy. What do I mean.
A bad boy has his own opinions.
A bad boy has his own hobbies.
A bad boy can say No to 500k request from a lady for shop he wouldn't benefit from in anyway.
A bad boy don't impress anyone with material things, he is himself you like him like that, after which his money.
A bad boy isn't controlled by sex, as he has options.
A bad boy know how to treat a lady right, but it's usually his own way.
A bad boy draws the lady into his world, and never gets lost in the Ladies's world.
A bad boy isn't afraid to talk about sex or your body. He isn't shy but confident.
Men of these days lack this qualities, until then keep posting thread after thread deceiving yourselves.
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|Romance / Re: What Do You Say If A Girl Asked If You Have A Girlfriend? by Amakavula: 11:38pm On Nov 12, 2018|
The answer should always be yes, even when you are a broke , lonely loser.
It shouldn't be a straight Yes, something like; " Yes, but We aren't on talking term " or " Yes, she is very sweet but I feel we aren't compactable, and you Know compactability is important "
Never , ever say No. The same goes for "are you are player ? "... "Yes, but I am retired" or " I saw you and said to myself, this is my final game"...
We love them bad boys, who wouldn't hurt us but others. We like to feel special, like we tamed the beast.
Ladies, including myself likes what other ladies want, it gives us a sense of pride that we are stealing someone valuable, not some loser.
That's why lots of Women go after married men. It's not because of money, or care it's because we see value in the other woman's decision to pick him as mate. Which means he has the qualities other women would want.
But if you say no , we will wonder why nobody before us agreed to date you. Probably you're a failure. Your faithfulness is meanless to us. We hate failures.
|Romance / Re: Meme Competition; N30,000 Prize by Amakavula: 12:35am On Nov 12, 2018|
|Romance / Re: Why Ladies Are So Materialistic? by Amakavula: 8:10pm On Nov 11, 2018|
Why do broke men like sex
|Romance / Re: What Do You Say When A Girl Asks Where You Got Her Number From? by Amakavula: 2:31am On Nov 11, 2018|
OP that's a poo test.Even if she keeps silence for a week or two,wait but don't ever tell her how you got her number.
Never. See, answering any question logically with a lady is the quickest way for her to lose attraction for you.
play around the subject, if she insisted, tell you will tell when you go out on a date. Even at the date don't. Never answer a lady's question never, she doesn't want answers just trying to see how confident you are.
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|Romance / Re: It's Impossible For Me To Love Just One Woman – Wizkid reveals by Amakavula: 11:20am On Nov 10, 2018|
Star boy !
|Celebrities / Re: Rita Dominic - "I Almost Married Someone, But I'm Happy I Didn't" by Amakavula: 9:23pm On Nov 09, 2018|
Thank God you didn't love.
|Romance / Re: My Encounter With One Babe On Facebook Messenger by Amakavula: 8:42am On Nov 08, 2018|
Roadto2019:I actually think it's the other way around, you so daft, and low witted that euphemism is lost on you..
|Romance / Why are Men these days so bitter and hate "Love" so much ? ( Photos ) by Amakavula: 6:57am On Nov 08, 2018|
Men used to be the champions of love, profusing underlying love upandan, but it has all changed these days with most of them bitter and angry if a lady talks about love.
So this lady on Twitter " Chioma " talks about getting "LOML " ( Love Of My Life ) before the year runs out, but her thread was overwhelmed by defeated angry men calling her a scam because of her declaration.
The case is worse on Nairaland with thousands of threads opened each day by bitter misogynists bashing women who wouldn't spread their legs for them out of pity.
So why are men so bitter and angry these days, do you all not have other things to do other than attack women?
|Romance / Re: My Encounter With One Babe On Facebook Messenger by Amakavula: 6:33am On Nov 08, 2018|
TonyeBarcanista:It's not although I get your logic but it's not leech mentality.
He wants a Relationship the lady isn't asking for one! Although she is high maintenance, which isn't bad but he needs to offer something to get that. See it as negotiations, the one in need of something should be the one offering a gift of request.
If he knows he can't afford it let him to look for low maintenance girls or forget relationship completely.
|Romance / Re: 122 Ways To Win A Man 1950s Advice (no 40 Will Make You Laugh ) by Amakavula: 10:32pm On Nov 07, 2018|
|Romance / 122 Ways To Win A Man 1950s Advice (no 40 Will Make You Laugh ) by Amakavula: 10:28pm On Nov 07, 2018|
This is from a magazine in the 1950s advising unmarried women on how to go about getting a man to marry them. It's very funny, looking at the advice it's crazy people did this..
|Romance / Re: My Encounter With One Babe On Facebook Messenger by Amakavula: 10:06pm On Nov 07, 2018|
Stanweezy:Bro? Lolx. I was just kidding oh, Even if you had brought the phone you will just be another maga.
|Romance / Re: My Encounter With One Babe On Facebook Messenger by Amakavula: 10:03pm On Nov 07, 2018|
She blocked him, our Bros is a broken boys ..
|Romance / Re: My Encounter With One Babe On Facebook Messenger by Amakavula: 10:02pm On Nov 07, 2018|
She blocked him, Bros is broke.. :DShe blocked him, Bros is broke..
|Jobs/Vacancies / Why Someone With N200k Phones Was Denied A Job He Qualified For by Amakavula: 3:36pm On Nov 07, 2018|
One Mr Okeke reported an incident in his company on Twitter recently. On why a highly q individual was denied a dream opportunity.
I find quite Funny but do you agree with the recruiter's decision. I feel the dude definitely find value in his phone, so the recruiter can't just assume that trash. What do you think?
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|Romance / Re: What Are The Signs That A Guy Is Now A Matured Man by Amakavula: 7:36am On Nov 07, 2018|
|Romance / What Are The Signs That A Guy Is Now A Matured Man by Amakavula: 1:18am On Nov 07, 2018|
When ladies look for male partners, we look out for special traits that define his character. For me, it's self acceptance, and confidence. A man who isn't ashamed of his body or person.
I once met a guy who I really liked, he had a mole at the side of his neck which disturbed me, so I mentioned it to him.
Some other guy would have apologized and try to explain how he is struggling to remove it, which for me is unappealing.
Traits I look out for in a man
( absolute priority )
.Self love, either short, shubby or thin ( he like his self and body the way it's )
. The way he treats people below him ( a powerful man is more compassionate because he has the power, not trying to )
yelling at the cleaner or Waiter isn't attractive.
. Anger ( yes he knows when to use his anger ) he can get physical and show his dominance in necessary situations.
.The way he treats his family ( support and love )
.Treats himself during dates ( a man who buys #40000 worth of food for me and #0 for himself is a failure. He should make me understand his budget and how it should go, lead, I will make suggestions regularly but lead! ( don't mean I like broke guys )
.Disagree with me, I don't mean everything and showing me am stupid or his is smarter. But I need opinions, then support but not 100% supporters club.
.He is unbothered by competition, he knows his worth, stalking me is a no no.
.Goals, he should know where he is going with or without me . I am not fixing anybody's life.
.Freedom. He should understand I want to explore and meet other people so he should keep his distance.
.Support me without me asking. Even If IAM too proud to ask anything.
A matured man should
know when to support me without the actual request. He should get it.
For you what Is it ? what traits do you look out for before you say a man is now a fully matured or a real man ( not material things ) just characters you look out for ?
|Romance / Re: Hello. Oriaku Is Back Again After Some Break! by Amakavula: 1:00am On Nov 07, 2018|
I can see a developing story..
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